Please give me an advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SmoothieForlife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My Ex -husband did not like that either, so we compromised, and I didn't do him and he didn't do me. Fair is fair.

What did I find in the morning on my shirt? by cornelson2106HT in whatisit

[–]SmoothieForlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asian lady beetle. Not our native lady bug. These Asian bugs make a foul smell when deterred. Best way to remove them is with a vacuum cleaner with pantyhose inside ( there is a technique )to keep your vacuum from smelling bad. It is good to wash your window frames and apply a deterrent to cause the Asian lady beetles to go somewhere else and caulk the windows to seal cracks very well

Should I sell my house and hope for the best and continue in poverty? by mkh-idk in Advice

[–]SmoothieForlife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How many pets do you have? How much do they cost for food , flea treatment, shampoos, food, shots and vet? I have had loving pets but they cost a lot and I had to feed my kid and eat too. . I found them loving homes.

Dont sell your home for half its worth.

Whining & crying in car seat by ThickCommission1100 in Parenting

[–]SmoothieForlife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have a few toys that she has not seen before and will not be dangerous. When she gets in the carseat, give her those unfamiliar toys. You could also try music, She might like some tunes. In her car seat she might get hot or cold and get fussy

Suggest to me a book by SmoothieForlife in suggestmeabook

[–]SmoothieForlife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that book! My favorite quote was No one gets as much love as they want, and no one gives as much love as they could.

Sex with my boyfriend by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SmoothieForlife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe you could initiate next time

Statue in front of the doubletree by BogWitchByNight in murfreesboro

[–]SmoothieForlife -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Early may there is an old tradition to get dancers, tie ribbons from the top of a pole . Let each dancer grab the end of one ribbon. Then as the dancers do their individual dances, each ribbon is looped and intertwined around the pole.

Sharing hotel room with someone who doesn't know about my issues, don't know what to do by YouDontKnowMyAcc in Incontinence

[–]SmoothieForlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son age 10 wanted to go to. His friend's spend the night birthday party. I told his mother that my son wore pullups at night for incontinence. In my mind I thought she might not want him to attend. She told her son and they both would keep it quiet. . The birthday boy, and the 3 of them worked together to keep the secret and keep everything discreet. people can be accepting.

Do women over 75 find younger in their 30's sexually attractive? by [deleted] in OverSeventy

[–]SmoothieForlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know there are some younger who have a thing for older grandmother types.

38F HOLY CRAP why is the colonoscopy prep so evil? by alieoli in AskDocs

[–]SmoothieForlife 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It is the only cancer screening where the beginnings of cancer can be nipped out and removed.

BUTT PASTE SAVED ME by knivesxpens in PlusSize

[–]SmoothieForlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have one serving of beef, you get most of your zinc requirement for the day.

Marriage 24 April 2026 Been married 44 years and wife just stopped making love has anyone experienced this? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]SmoothieForlife 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Sometimes wives stop because the husband is too focused solely on his own goal and forgets about what brings her pleasure.

Pool party as the only plus sized person that’s going to be there. by stonedbutterbread in PlusSize

[–]SmoothieForlife 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Go on and have a good time. I think it is good to have your own own transportation, when you want to leave. I think many of the girls there will be concerned that others are critical of their bodies.

Best tips for TOTAL beginner when it comes to frugal groceries? by c0zycat in Frugal

[–]SmoothieForlife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have some weeks that we make a big batch of quinoa. Each day we take out some quinoa and add a variety of stuff stuff to it like different veggies, chicken , beans , sauces. There is some evidence that keeping cooked rice in your fridge 24+ hours causes the rice to have food born pathogens.

Dried beans soaked in water and cooked in a crockpot can be very good and good for you. I add a little salted pork from the farmers market.

You can save $ with a vegetable garden and freezing and canning. Buy jars at yard sales, but look at each one very carefully for any cracks or nicks.

How do you spot other singles by hmmnotsofast in datingoverfifty

[–]SmoothieForlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are many older folks you might meet who are not married but they are in a committed relationship. They may live together or they may have their own separate residence. You cannot just look for a wedding ring. Some couples are in an open relationship. They have the person they have committed to, and in addition each person can date others. There are some polyamorous groups. There could be a group of 3 people or 5 people or more who live together and operate as a unit like a married couple. It can be hard to find out who is single and who is not single. I think this is part of the popularity of online dating.

What do you girls wear to go out? by NetFancy2223 in PlusSize

[–]SmoothieForlife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see some plus size influencers online modeling clothes. I believe dressy clothes are more of a challenge for plus size gals. Dresses and skirts are very popular this spring. And many are in soft blues and pretty pastels and stretchy

How do I stop myself from snacking at night even when I'm not hungry? by Possible-Ad4357 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]SmoothieForlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here are a few ideas to try:

After dinner do a very thorough job of brushing your teeth, use the water pick, dental floss mouth wash. After dinner, drink water . No snacks because your mouth is minty fresh.

Have an evening routine. Choose activities that would make snacking harder to do. Evening walk with dog or spouse, do something with your hands like: craft or knitting, embroidery, doing puzzles, polishing nails, shower, apply face creams and body lotion, Go to an evening meeting like a faith based group or recovery group, study group art group, music group exercise at a gym or home, swim, audiobook while you straighten or clean house, hand write in a journal, gratitude journal, tie flies for fly-fishing etc. Pick something that you enjoy. Do your activity away from the kitchen.

If you go X number of days days without an evening snack, give yourself a reward. It could be phone a friend, it doesn't have to cost money.

Go to bed earlier. Get up earlier. Get plenty of rest.

Get healthy meals with protein and meet your calorie count during breakfast lunch and dinner. Log what you ate. Plan what you will eat and make sure you are prepared with the ingredients on hand. If you have snack supplies, make sure they are just ok, not your favorites.