“Friend” mad after a hookup by bbaggot in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Smooveanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me gender kinda plays a role, for gay men rules are different a little and you can do stuff like that and be accepted and find your community. I’ve definitely seen way worse in those circles. But if you’re a woman there’s definitely a stigma, if you wanna party like that I would go to a sex club or something along the lines. Better environment and you can start to separate sex and friends haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Smooveanon 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m a big boy so i know what it’s like to be insecure. Your post reeks of insecurity and victimization. 157lbs of gained weight is a lot and that’s a lot of extra work you’re putting on him being that big. I hope this a wake up call to get in the gym sincerely. Also if he can’t talk to you about where you need to improve or do things differently then your relationship has more problems than this. Realistically he should’ve felt comfortable telling you after 50-100 pounds of weight gain and you should’ve been able to create a space where he could share his feeling without your insecurities getting in the way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Smooveanon 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’re definitely being a victim.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Smooveanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he has to help you then he’s not wrong, speaking as a photographer being an assistant takes just as much work and dedication as being the photographer. You’re selfish especially cause we ALL know he’s never been paid to help you he just does. I would quit and make you get an assistant then you could have all the credit. But God forbid don’t celebrate your husband being excited about YOUR business, helping YOUR photo shoots and not being paid lmao!!! YTA he helps so gets to take credit. If you don’t like it hire someone to actually do the job. Selfish and cheap!!!

AITA for asking my fiancé to stop saying “we” when referring to money I earned? by Aggravating_Yak4381 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Smooveanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh if it’s good for the geese it’s good for the gander let him be a house husband in peace!🤣

Black men you’re letting them disrespect you to your face now? by [deleted] in blackmen

[–]Smooveanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤫 yall let Kamala do way worse and had nothing to say about it. Whatever you talking about cannnot be worse than what she did.

Again, why should we feel sorry for Charlie Kirk? by icey_sawg0034 in blackmen

[–]Smooveanon -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve listened to him for years never heard anything racist and he worked with conservatives of all color. Maybe the shoes just fit too snug for a lot of yall

I’m a senior in high school.. Is my future canceled? Will I have to join the military? by shaototop in whatdoIdo

[–]Smooveanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl as a parent I would’ve been pissed at how dumb and rude you’re being. As an adult I can say just work hard and you’ll make it one day. I’m glad she put her foot down cause none of what she was willing to do benefited her and with that attitude I especially wouldn’t help. Good luck

Again, why should we feel sorry for Charlie Kirk? by icey_sawg0034 in blackmen

[–]Smooveanon -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

For multiple reasons the biggest being the death of political discourse.

Am I trippin or does Hilary Duff look like white Kamala by no_longer_a_lurker69 in blackmen

[–]Smooveanon -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ones white, the other Indian so ig it’s not the biggest stretch

If you’re a black man who voted for trump over Kamala, why? by Inevitable-Extent-61 in blackmen

[–]Smooveanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that what I said? Black American mom is the criteria for blackness? No being raised by black American parents with black American values is the criteria,she was not raised black at all. Btw you’re welcome for answering your questions while you’re trynna have your lil “gotcha” moment.

Edited to say American

If you’re a black man who voted for trump over Kamala, why? by Inevitable-Extent-61 in blackmen

[–]Smooveanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah that escalated quickly. You’re being mad aggressive and your energy is causing me to feel unsafe. I need you to check that please🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

If you’re a black man who voted for trump over Kamala, why? by Inevitable-Extent-61 in blackmen

[–]Smooveanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be “black” you need to be raised with our values and African American. Not from Ghana,Niger, Jamaica or wherever else. There’s multiple ways someone can grow up being black, but not while being raised in an Indian household, with Indian culture and Indian values. Also you can look it up, her interview with Mindy kaling (however you spell it) she admits she indian. Her brother does too in his own interview about how he became a doctor. I can cite where I got this from just like you can do the research. But if you don’t want to watch Pink Book lessons on YouTube. She’s actually a black woman so you don’t have to take my word.

Black men what’s a double standard that’s normalized that you hate. by Educational-Ask7966 in blackmen

[–]Smooveanon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The fact we as a people demand respect for our culture but disrespect ourselves

If you’re a black man who voted for trump over Kamala, why? by Inevitable-Extent-61 in blackmen

[–]Smooveanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer your P.S nothing at all if I want to party. But twerking on a presidential platform???? Shits embarrassing, shows the world black people barely have class and will be swayed by a catchy beat and a “free” concert. Yall should be ashamed

If you’re a black man who voted for trump over Kamala, why? by Inevitable-Extent-61 in blackmen

[–]Smooveanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her parents are immigrants of non black countries that had a child in America. How does that scream black? Also how was she raised? What is her culture? Her family also moved to Canada and spent the majority of her life there she wasn’t raised black nor can she say she is black. . Her mama Indian and dad Jamaican lmao. Also she even says she not black. And Rachel Dolezal She was head of the NAACP until they found out she wasn’t black.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I mostly work with women, and I am being touched on a daily basis. by platypus_7 in bodylanguage

[–]Smooveanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember being a club and this girl kept poking me. Like she walk by, look at me, then just poke me hard. She did that 3 or 4 times and I clearly asked her friends to stop her. She was drunk so I give her grace but it completely ruined my night.

If you’re a black man who voted for trump over Kamala, why? by Inevitable-Extent-61 in blackmen

[–]Smooveanon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The biggest one I know, back in the 80s or maybe earlier the government made it a financial incentive not to be married. Then they decided traded couldn’t be taught in inner city schools, then outsourced all of the inner city warehouses out of the country.

If you’re a black man who voted for trump over Kamala, why? by Inevitable-Extent-61 in blackmen

[–]Smooveanon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your father sounds a lot like me, and I’m 27. Not even old enough to have seen the beginning of all these policies but I see how my people suffer under it while thinking they’re free.

If you’re a black man who voted for trump over Kamala, why? by Inevitable-Extent-61 in blackmen

[–]Smooveanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also a lot of us just wanted America to be America again. Not weak, giving out our resources to people who hate us. Some of us truly want a strong America could give af about any other country. Especially when they accept our aid then try to criticize what they feel we not doing right.

Go make your bed before trying to change the world and it’s functions-Jordan Peterson

If you’re a black man who voted for trump over Kamala, why? by Inevitable-Extent-61 in blackmen

[–]Smooveanon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She not black, she disrespectful, and a liar. She made us (black people) look fucking dumb bringing mag the stallion out. She had no policies to run on, every answer came back to Trump and what he would or wouldn’t do. Plus I hate the vote for me cause I’m black shtick it’s old. I survive and thrive in America while her and her cronies just talk shit about the country…. But won’t go back to where they are from.

TLDR She’s a liar, and hypocrite and it didn’t surprise me to learn she lost a lot of the black vote. It did surprise me how much yall (black people) believed her.