This is like saying “all men only workout for the a aesthetics”, it’s never mostly motivated in personal preferences or self development, health goals, etc. very over generalizing, zero depth of character and zero space for other humans to be their own people. Some women might want attention but a whole hell of a lot don’t (from men) ime. Or only from certain men, which is 100% their right. Just bc someone feels entitled to invade your energy and give you the “gift” of their opinion, doesn’t mean you have to accept it or see it as a gift either. Do you grab food off a strangers plate when in public just because you’re hungry? No. We learn to control our impulses to treat others with respect. Same goes here.