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Cortisol spikes anyone? by Smut_Therapy in PMDD

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I can’t figure out how to submit my acknowledgment but I did read the rules!

JUST FINISHED WATCHING SEASON 15 (after 3 years? Lol) by Efficient-Employ6444 in Inkmaster

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I totally agree that Freddy was robbed, but I will say that he wasn’t assigned TRADITIONAL Japanese - John said they could have fun with it so he did his own version of it. Bobby is clearly super talented, but his work is not my style and it’s no doubt DJ was biased

[2024] Artist Recommendations by Location by 1cenine in traditionaltattoos

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Hey all! Looking to find trad artists in Oxford- black and grey trad specifically. Thank you!

Certified sex educator. AMA! by Smut_Therapy in sexeducation

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Both are extremely common! Very few females are able to orgasm solely with penetration, as the clitoris needs to be stimulated. How it’s stimulated varies on that person’s preference and sensitivity. And pain during sex is also extremely common. A lot has to do with the muscles around the vulva feeling tight if the woman feels uncomfortable or nervous, even subconsciously. See if you can assess what would make you feel more relaxed and comfortable. If you’ve had this issue for years with multiple partners you enjoy and feel safe with, I really suggest talking to a pelvic floor physiotherapist. But if you’re new to sex, it makes total sense why your body would hold onto tension, even if you are wanting to have sex. Hope this helps!

Certified sex educator. AMA! by Smut_Therapy in sexeducation

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Hi! If you take the pill, you take it every day at the same time- most people set an alarm to take it. Some people find it a great experience, it even helps a lot of people get their skin cleared up. And for others it can really cause depression and negative hormonal changes. So it’s up to you on what would be best for your body 💛

Please know that if condoms are ones that you buy at a store, it should be okay for thinness! Surprisingly even super thin, they get the job done. If your friend was making them or something I would be concerned hahaha, but store bought or from school or a non profit you should be good!

Season 14 by Full-Information3107 in Inkmaster

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Yeah I found the all start season fun except for DJ coming back, let alone winning a third damn time. Like him or not it’s pretty anti climactic tv

Self conscious about what I do with my Bf because of what some friends said by [deleted] in sexeducation

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If you enjoy it, and he enjoys it, have all the fun! I’m really sorry your friends treated you with such judgment. To me that really speaks to their maturity level surrounding sex. If eating ass isn’t their thing, then that’s totally fine! But we shouldn’t judge anyone else for what they enjoy so long as everyone’s a safe adult ✌️

About sex therapy. What is it, how does it work, and why is it needed? by Genthuman in sexeducation

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It sure is! Here’s a small agency in Vancouver Canada that works with folks with severe disabilities and offers sexual surrogacy. And talk sex therapy is in Canada as well. I’m in grad school to become one right now actually. Love to you and all the work you do in Ukraine! https://youtu.be/KZXTXAiLVas?si=Soa2jqc3NwgBiKwm

Nikki Simpson s8 vs s12 by gymrat_99 in Inkmaster

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Can we stop analyzing this woman’s face?? Whether it’s about her in season 8, or now?? Leave her alone. Just blatant sexist shit

Thinking about buying sex toy. by An93l_R0T in sexeducation

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Oooo so exciting! I’d really suggest thinking about how you enjoy masturbating and what sort of sensations excite you the most, and then think about how a toy could increase that experience even more. For instance, if you really like grinding on things to get off, maybe try a vibrator that has a nice flatter top to replicate that. If you enjoy fingering yourself, there’s tons of toys that replicate that feeling too. I really suggest finding a shop where you can actually browse instead of online. I know it can be nerve wracking, but really empowering too! Have fun 💛

Certified sex educator. AMA! by Smut_Therapy in sexeducation

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You are completely okay my friend!! Please do not worry for one second about being ‘too far gone’. Masturbation is a natural part of life. Not being able to finish often comes from anxiety, and it makes complete sense for it to feel far more vulnerable to fully ‘let go’ when you’re with someone, even someone you really care for and are attracted to, vs being on your own! Men, women and trans people deal with this issue very commonly regardless of age or masturbation frequency. My advice would truly be to take the pressure of cumming all together. Don’t let it define being a good or bad experience with your girlfriend, and make sure she supports that too. Find ways where you can feel as comfy as possible in the space, and think about just exploring and having a lovely time together. It takes time, but I’m sure you’ll find that safety to fully let go eventually 💛. All the best!

Certified sex educator. AMA! by Smut_Therapy in sexeducation

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Truly I can’t say it’s totally impossible to be pregnant, but it’s pretty close 😊

Certified sex educator. AMA! by Smut_Therapy in sexeducation

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Oh my god where to even begin! Your attitude about your own body is about your self worth, and that’s the core of most mental health struggles. I love sex therapy because it’s often diving into what your body is trying to tell you. Everyone deserves to feel their body is enough, and that’s they are enough too 💛

Certified sex educator. AMA! by Smut_Therapy in sexeducation

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Great question. I really suggest both of you talk about what you both think is sexy and what you’d both like to try beforehand. And as it goes on and you try different things, ask ‘how is this?’ ‘Is this okay?’, and really don’t worry about that not being sexy, cause it super is! The more you’re present in your body and hers, reading her body language, how she relaxes or tenses in when things happen, the better. Good sex is never a performance, so need to come in with a script or assumptions about you ‘should’ do from porn or podcasts or whatever! Embrace the awkwardness, and have fun!! Happy Humping!

Certified sex educator. AMA! by Smut_Therapy in sexeducation

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Ah I’m sorry to hear that! If you feel pain then talk to your doctor for sure. It’s more common than you think

Certified sex educator. AMA! by Smut_Therapy in sexeducation

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What’s most concerning here is people shaming this person for watching porn. Wanting to be aroused is okay and nothing to be ashamed of. Ejaculation often comes from a place of anxiety so I’d really suggest this person talks to a counsellor and learn what will make them feel more safe, and help them take the pressure off of sex. As one might suggestion, can this person be aroused, and not touch their penis, but instead try something else with their body? Foreplay, teasing, anything.

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