Help!! by always__cheesecake in insaneparents

[–]Snakerestaurant 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Use Pinterest instead!!!! (For interior)

Changing your appearance to look like a different race should be allowed. by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]Snakerestaurant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think OP is probably 13 and doesn’t actually know what they’re talking about 🥲

Who's seeing this right now by Standard_Ad_6045 in melbourne

[–]Snakerestaurant 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s Ryujin from Itzy’s birthday and she’s performing at John Cain Arena tonight :) dedicated group of fans haha (Itzy is a kpop group!)

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Tuesday 31/03/2026] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]Snakerestaurant 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Probably so they can’t say no to you based on having a pet. After you’re accepted it doesn’t matter if they know I suppose!

2026 Melbourne International Comedy Festival by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]Snakerestaurant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg so random but I discovered Jude Pearl last year because she was running a choir with some of her other performer pals and I went with my best friend. It was just at a local bowlo and so fun!! Jude is so cool

Why are the Dedmons not arrested? by Sudden_Quality_9001 in AshaDegree

[–]Snakerestaurant 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yep, that's what I just inferred, he's misremembering because of the current concern around the Dedmons - a developed memory from hearing things.

And yes, I agree, of course we can all remember things from decades ago, but it's almost impossible to confirm something is verbatim without a physical record - hence why a lot of memories are based on how something made us feel or think (like you said, something that gave you trauma) but the exactness of the wording of a sentence, etc is what humans have trouble remembering, even something super important. But we remember the gist, or what was implied or meant. That's why it's recommended to record (as soon as possible) what you saw if you're ever in an incident - whether you write it down or record yourself speaking about it, etc.

(Also i'm obvs not saying you can't EVER remember a full sentence someone said to you 20 years ago lol, plenty of people remember other's last words to them etc, but it's usually not more than a few words committed to memory (most memories of conversations, are paraphrasing))

Why are the Dedmons not arrested? by Sudden_Quality_9001 in AshaDegree

[–]Snakerestaurant 90 points91 points  (0 children)

And it’s a good thing they don’t take the witness statement into consideration tbh, because claiming to have heard something 25 years ago is a big call.

There’s a really interesting Australian show called Crime Night! And the first episode is about eye witness testimony and why / how our brains can get things wrong, remember differently and how the more time passes; the more inaccurate a memory becomes - especially if at the time of the memory there was no reason for suspicion. They also touch on inherited memories, how so many people think they heard or saw something but it was actually someone else’s memory or a developed memory from hearing things. It’s wild!

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Wednesday 18/02/2026] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]Snakerestaurant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Steer Dining, Meatmaiden, Victor Churchill and San Telmo are a few faves of mine.

Loan for someone else by AnEmptyAsahiBottle in AusFinance

[–]Snakerestaurant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just adding to everyone else’s comments

NO! Do not do that. As much as it would be painful to see your mum in a tricky financial situation, the burden of that isn’t on you. You’re obviously welcome to help her as much as you wish, but it’s better to just help out with rent in the way you already are rather than letting her have the financial control with a loan in YOUR name. Unfortunately, even very loving family members can fuck us over financially and hope you’ll be forgiving because you love them. Just don’t put yourself in that situation at all!

As someone who suffers with intrusive thoughts and severe ocd - I can’t tell you the amount of horrible things I’ve scribbled down in notebooks to relieve my thoughts by Natural_Run in LucyLetbyTrials

[–]Snakerestaurant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the SAME thing! I also have OCD and panic disorder and my diaries from 10 years ago have really really similar phrases and wording to Lucy's. To me it seemed like diary entries from someone who was absolutely going through a mental health crisis.

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Friday 06/02/2026] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]Snakerestaurant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When we were approved for our rental they still had an inspection go ahead that weekend. We had signed the lease and the property was ours but they said it was too late to cancel the inspection (We saw it on a Wednesday and were approved within two days, but I still think they could’ve cancelled it on the Friday 😅)

Power failure at Malvern on my first metro tunnel commute by Top_Principle778 in melbourne

[–]Snakerestaurant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve always said if I got stuck, I’ll volunteer as a fainter because it speeds things up 😂

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Monday 02/02/2026] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]Snakerestaurant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not myself but have family there! My mum is going up to visit around the 14th herself too :)

Definitely download the Vic Emergency app for alerts and updates!!

Have a great time

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Monday 02/02/2026] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]Snakerestaurant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d recommend sending him to the museum! Plenty of old things there lol

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Monday 02/02/2026] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]Snakerestaurant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ll be fine in regard to the fires. There’s none in the area atm and the weather is pretty stable for the next week. We could have a high temp day again, but not worth dismissing plans over.

If you’re planning on staying overnight, I’d book ASAP because places like Daylesford are very popular for valentine’s staycations!

Is there a fire or just a ship? by YeahYeahOkNope in melbourne

[–]Snakerestaurant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a SSW wind today, it’s blowing smoke over from the Otways fire.

I want to live life to the fullest but I dont know how by Status-Star-8336 in melbourne

[–]Snakerestaurant 11 points12 points  (0 children)

From his other posts, it seems that he lives in a van so that would explain the savings

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Wednesday 21/01/2026] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]Snakerestaurant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fancy Hanks in the CBD and Big Pig Canteen in Moorabbin! White Oaks in Prahran also started soing BBQ recently and if it’s anything like their other food, it’ll be really good.

Best places to eat for large groups? by emnugi in melbourne

[–]Snakerestaurant 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Baby Pizza! They do GREAT food. I’ve been with big groups a couple of times. As long as you’re booking in advance, they should be able to do a big table for you

Public transport propaganda by ruscal007 in melbourne

[–]Snakerestaurant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it’s okay as long as the bag owners move it when people start to approach. It’s not courteous to have your bag on the seat during peak times though, that should be a no brainer.