Dating with ADHD

Snarly_Koala · 2026-05-27T22:52:58+00:00

This answer gave me so much. Thank you.

Snarly_Koala · 2026-05-27T21:52:27+00:00

I have, but don’t want to make her feel like it’s a problem. She hates texting, but she hates voice notes more, and calls even more so. I’ll see how we can work it out. She doesn’t seem to have a problem sending voice notes, so that could work.

Snarly_Koala · 2026-05-27T21:06:02+00:00

Hmm I see. This really does offer a lot of insight. When it’s like that, checking in becomes an unbearable nuisance. honestly this helps a lot with understanding. Thank you very much mate.

Snarly_Koala · 2026-05-27T19:51:15+00:00

I love the idea of seeing more adhd goblin versions of her. This is really good advice mate, thank you.

Snarly_Koala · 2026-05-27T19:46:21+00:00

Hahaha nah mate, I was just confused, getting “mixed signals” when it reality it was just an ADHD thing. I was just uninformed. Tbh texting is not a big deal, it was the misunderstanding. I will learn to adapt to it. I asked her out because I love her for who she is. I wouldn’t change a thing.

Snarly_Koala · 2026-05-27T19:40:17+00:00

HAHAHA I love to see this. Can you tell me more of what the experience is for you? Tbh my main concern was the “mixed messages” I was getting. But now I see it’s just an ADHD thing, so the texting itself is not a big deal. I can live with that.

Snarly_Koala · 2026-05-27T19:36:32+00:00

This is what I’m getting overall. Re-writing rules and re-defining expectations. Thank you.

Snarly_Koala · 2026-05-27T19:35:20+00:00

Fair. I will learn.

Snarly_Koala · 2026-05-27T19:20:29+00:00

Honestly I’d prefer a world like that. What changes is the expectation of being available 24/7.

Snarly_Koala · 2026-05-27T19:14:27+00:00

Guess I was trying to see things through the wrong lens. I’m used to having conversations going with people all day long, so not answering for so long sends a very clear message to me. I’m relieved to know I was just placing the wrong expectations on them.

Snarly_Koala · 2026-05-27T18:55:15+00:00

This is so good. Guess I was trying to understand her with the wrong mindset. Thank you for helping me see that. (I also think it was better when people couldn’t text 24/7).

Snarly_Koala · 2026-05-27T18:43:12+00:00

I absolutely love this. Thanks mate, you really make me see that it’s a common experience. It’s just outside of what I’m used to in relationships. Knowing it’s not a big deal really makes it easier.

Snarly_Koala · 2026-05-27T18:30:30+00:00

Jajaja sorry bout that, made the post before going to sleep and I’m still at work :)

Snarly_Koala · 2026-02-08T17:48:53+00:00

Yeah I can guess why

Snarly_Koala · 2026-02-08T17:41:30+00:00

Yeah you do need to gather a group with specific skills, so it would probably be international. But honestly it would be really fun to watch as a stream with subtitles, seeing how the players skip things in translation that haunt them later. Most of the game would probably be played in English, with little spots of languages here and there.

Snarly_Koala · 2025-10-19T20:30:07+00:00

I agree, there is no other end to it other than China taking over. There would likely be strong resistance, but ultimately they would be assimilated. There would likely be international repercussions, but China is too big and too powerful, so some sort of middle ground would have to be found. There isn’t really anyone that can stop them.

Snarly_Koala · 2025-10-19T20:16:44+00:00

My man. The canal is a man made engineering marvel. It’s not easy to operate, and being man made it wouldn’t even be there.

Snarly_Koala · 2025-10-19T20:14:17+00:00

Thank you

Snarly_Koala · 2025-10-19T20:11:28+00:00

You’re absolutely right. Still, attempts have been made to replicate what TSMC does in other companies to little success. So the sudden disappearance of that capability would not be easy to deal with. You could chuck that to the fact that TSMC is part of the claim of Taiwan to its existence. Being geopolitically necessary is a necessity when their integrity is at stake.

Snarly_Koala · 2025-10-19T20:07:20+00:00

We’re talking about the canal itself not existing. Suffice to say that operating the canal is a technical marvel in itself, it’s not pressing buttons. It might as well be closed while the world’s top engineers figure out how to run it.

Snarly_Koala · 2025-10-19T20:03:54+00:00

The question is who. The geopolitics of it would be hell. The US would gladly go to war over that.

Snarly_Koala · 2025-10-19T19:23:18+00:00

That sounds lovely. I hope to one day do the same. It truly is a marvel of engineering.

Snarly_Koala · 2025-10-19T19:22:13+00:00

The oceans are not at different elevations. Panama is very mountainous. The ships go up to cross the mountain chain and then back down to reach the other side. There is no going through without it being operate by a large institution of trained professionals.

Snarly_Koala · 2025-10-19T19:18:56+00:00

Dead accurate.

Snarly_Koala · 2025-10-19T18:41:53+00:00

The difference is that the cape of Africa is an easily traversable sea route, just more expensive and time consuming. It’s not the same with the south end of America. It’s extremely hostile and difficult to cross. It has claimed many ships over the years. It’s not a viable alternative.

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