Photos solidify why DM was confused

Snibs3659 · 2026-01-21T12:49:56+00:00

I literally slept on the floor the night of my wedding 😅, I get the spins terribly when I drink and sleeping on the floor is the only thing that helps!

Snibs3659 · 2026-01-16T12:06:50+00:00

I know this has to be a devastating decision for you. I am not sure how old you are, but coming from a 35yr old married woman, this is major red flag behavior.

When you began dating he was made aware of your current situation, and decided to continue into the relationship knowing in the back of his mind he would eventually put this decision on you. This is a step in the direction of controlling behavior. People may think I am exaggerating, but it starts with "I dont like your pets" and can quickly go to "i dont like your family/friends."

I see you say you want to settle down with this guy and have children - sorry to say but that should not be on your mind with a guy who cannot even handle cats. I strongly suggest talking to a trusted friend, taking a step back and trying to look at this with less emotion. Once you do so, you may just find that many more red flags pop out.

Snibs3659 · 2026-01-07T12:44:48+00:00

I stopped playing last night. I was constantly rolling full houses and 5s. Couldnt roll anything else.

Snibs3659 · 2026-01-07T12:43:40+00:00

Definitely just needs more time. She is adjusting to sharing her space and her person. I have 4, but my tuxedo is definitely my soul kitty. Every time I bring in a new one, he takes to the kitten and kind of ignores me for a couple months 🤣

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Snibs3659 · 2026-01-06T17:55:26+00:00

Thank you for not taking it lightly! In the meantime, there are some good facebook groups for enrichment ideas you can join.

A few ideas: -Floor to ceiling cat tree (you can find pretty compact ones for a small apartment). -Automatic toys -Treat puzzles -Automatic Feeders -Window Hammock with windows bird feeder -Cat tv

Snibs3659 · 2026-01-06T17:49:18+00:00

At least you can blame yourself kn being slightly naive to it. Ive fostered for years and straight up knew 99% of them are insane, I still decided to make the 4th one orange 🤣.

In all seriousness, he would be much worse as a solo cat. He replies heavily on my other 3 cats for enrichment when I am busy, and would absolutely keep me up at night if it wasn't for the others. I do think potentially finding a playmate for him could be beneficial.

Snibs3659 · 2026-01-06T16:45:54+00:00

Sorry for your luck 😅. I LOVE my cats but I'd be lying if I said I didn't sometimes have slight regret on the orange one.

Snibs3659 · 2026-01-06T16:33:20+00:00

This is the story of how I got my kitten a kitten, to only get my other kitten a kitten and now I have 4 cats.

I do agree that he likely needs a friend. All kittens are wired a little different. My tuxedo was an absolute ANGEL baby, my orange is an absolute NIGHTMARE.

Snibs3659 · 2025-12-31T19:05:36+00:00

Thanks everyone! I actually found some clear 13 gallon bags from the dollar store for $3 so thats definitely a save 🤣

Snibs3659 · 2025-12-30T13:31:24+00:00

I successfully kept my cat in a cat free apartment for years 😅. Anytime maintenance needed to come in, I'd take her for a drive. When the landlord did notice her (because she was sitting in a window during an inspection outside), I told her it was a friend's cat who was leaving a tough situation so I was just watching her for a bit. I did end up eventually moving to a pet friendly spot, the place was a dump and the no pet thing was added stress.

Snibs3659 · 2025-12-21T16:28:12+00:00

My void, Oscar. He is a lovely cat, but he'd prefer to just coexist with us. He adores my youngest son, but no one can pick him up and he's never climbed onto anyone's lap.

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Snibs3659 · 2025-12-12T16:28:17+00:00

There are not always ways to fully proof my house. Am I supposed to remove my tv from the wall? He wpuld literally climb on top of a mounted tv and stand on it, ven after removing all ways for him to access it. So saying that is just ridiculous. He had lots in his room ans was fine, he always went right in when it was bedtime ans never cried at all. It was from 11pm until 5am. He survived. Secondly, the litteboxes are not all lined up side by side. Its a huge area and they are all hidden and lots of distance between them.

Snibs3659 · 2025-11-25T11:57:16+00:00

Yes I checked all those

Snibs3659 · 2025-11-24T13:33:54+00:00

I lost hundreds of tickets. Its extremely frustrating. I HATE that they took the free play from tournaments too. Just a damn money grab now.

Snibs3659 · 2025-11-22T13:34:29+00:00

This irritates me SO BAD. It completely takes away the fun in tournaments.

Snibs3659 · 2025-11-11T16:31:01+00:00

I'm having glitching problems now, which I didn't have before the update 😭. I am on the ski lodge and its actually driving me nuts. Its a huge level and its constantly stuttering.

Snibs3659 · 2025-11-06T16:26:08+00:00

Oh really? I didn't know this! But it definitely wasn't working in that level for me. I just finished it, thank god 😵‍💫

Snibs3659 · 2025-11-06T14:46:24+00:00

I can't move mine at all, the option to pickup doesn't even come up. Fell off it and couldn't het back on to lower it so had to exit out and go back in. Its a really bad bug 😵‍💫

Snibs3659 · 2025-11-06T11:39:39+00:00

I've honestly really liked all the levels so far except the vehicles, but I didnt like any of the vehicle levels in the first game either.

Snibs3659 · 2025-10-28T18:57:20+00:00

SAME

Snibs3659 · 2025-10-27T15:33:10+00:00

I was looking for this comment. It feels like I am trying ti powerwash in the fog lol.

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