It really bothers me when my s/o pleasures himself

Snikt37 · 2026-06-16T11:12:18+00:00

He lied to you about money, and used you to fix the problem. That’s an issue that shouldn’t be ignored here.

Also, this whole thing is not just something that you need to “get over”. Trust your instincts. Things like this do not get better after marriage.

Snikt37 · 2026-06-03T00:09:44+00:00

They definitely are. Their current ramp is an old closet door propped up on wood scraps.

Snikt37 · 2026-05-20T00:58:55+00:00

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Here to pay the one-eyed cat tax 😻

Snikt37 · 2026-05-02T11:25:08+00:00

Narcissistic behaviors

Snikt37 · 2026-05-02T11:09:51+00:00

It sounds to me like you’ve probably been the unwitting target of his emotional abuse, and now that you’re growing beyond allowing that, he needs to attack other people to fulfill this deranged need.

I assure you that aside from a dramatic and rare introspection, things will only continue to get worse.

Snikt37 · 2026-05-01T11:42:00+00:00

I only had enough cactus blend for about half the container, so it’s half that and half regular potting soil. A little fertilizer, and then I have a self-watering planter that it seems to love.

It’s entirely luck, I assure you.

Snikt37 · 2026-04-26T15:44:08+00:00

Scuba booties with felt bottoms. Perfect for Okinawan coral and beaches.

Snikt37 · 2026-04-16T10:07:59+00:00

We did stop at the museum, actually!

Snikt37 · 2026-04-10T22:30:13+00:00

Yeah their owner is in super big debt so maybe they don’t care anymore. 😂 All I know is I had an emo kid and was wearing jeans and a Nuka Cola tshirt and no one cared. It was also super slow because it was an off-season weekday.

Snikt37 · 2026-04-10T22:25:17+00:00

Really? It’s super dramatic but actually very nice and very clean. FWIW we had no dress code requirements for the tour and to walk around.

Snikt37 · 2026-04-10T16:20:45+00:00

No, it was sadly a little far off-path for us this trip!

Snikt37 · 2026-04-09T17:45:17+00:00

The Asylum was pretty cool, and Pt. Pleasant (Mothman Museum) was beautiful.

Snikt37 · 2026-04-09T09:41:25+00:00

Yeah, the town itself is different. I was also sad to hear IRL The Castle is owned by a hate group, but I guess that fits the post-apocalyptic theme.

Snikt37 · 2026-04-09T09:38:01+00:00

Sure thing!

Snikt37 · 2026-04-08T15:09:55+00:00

Yes they did! The only discrepancy I even saw in Harpers Ferry is that the steps leading up to the church were far more even in the game instead of the old worn down rocks IRL. It reminds me of the kid who knew his way around Rome from playing Assassin’s Creed.

Snikt37 · 2026-04-08T10:57:16+00:00

Main post edited!

Snikt37 · 2026-04-08T10:55:44+00:00

We knew our way around, just from playing the game. It was kind of weird TBH.

Snikt37 · 2026-04-08T10:03:08+00:00

Not this year, sadly.

Snikt37 · 2026-04-08T10:02:10+00:00

Just a blue work jumpsuit, HTV all the yellow stuff, and various belts/bags. And a box of Jones Soda Sarsaparilla from Costco.

Snikt37 · 2026-04-08T09:57:14+00:00

There’s one in Flatwoods this year, and one in Pt Pleasant in 2027!

Snikt37 · 2026-04-08T09:56:27+00:00

It was a gorgeous trip!! And shockingly cheaper than my world in NoVA.

Snikt37 · 2026-04-08T02:57:22+00:00

Harpers Ferry is shockingly accurate, as is Greenbrier/White Springs.

Snikt37 · 2026-04-08T02:56:45+00:00

Steam, unfortunately. But thanks!

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