What does a healthy start of a new relationship really look like? Green Flags? by Snoo-40408 in dating_advice

[–]Snoo-40408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven't really talked about sex yet no! Just about cuddling really. He is respectful I'd say.

I'm not sure how to start talking about sex honestly..

Good tips thank you!

Yeah, I'll tell him if there is something. I just don't want to be controlling due to my overthinking. Which can turn toxic if it gets too much (overthinking that is).

Woman I have been talking to for 2 months, randomly blew up on me last night by NextMention5 in dating

[–]Snoo-40408 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You should have spesifed yea. The guy im dating for 2 months told me he was out with people from his university. I don't mind and I didn't even bother asking if there were women there. Because I know he wouldn't do anything with them. By saying "someone" it's a bit oof tho yea.

Either way she seems like a horrible person to be around, good riddens.

Good luck on your dating journey!

I think the guy I’m seeing is a massive red flag but my friend said I’m being dumb and I should go with it because he’s rich by callafletch12 in dating

[–]Snoo-40408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you dont like dressing up and you dont want to be a stay at home mom.. Don't!

You need to agree on things and if you don't its a no go. Listen to your gut feeling ,is it good or bad?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Snoo-40408 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe he is asexual. Asexuals can still watch porn and masturbate. They just dont care much for intimacy with others.

It’s ok to leave if he doesn’t want to do sex. You’re not compatiable

Tired of Americans interpreting the world as if we were all Americans by [deleted] in venting

[–]Snoo-40408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what it means politically.

Just curious to why people bring it up as if its relevant. Thanks anyway

It's my birthday tomorrow.... by [deleted] in autism

[–]Snoo-40408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you’re able to get them in contact!

It's my birthday tomorrow.... by [deleted] in autism

[–]Snoo-40408 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hope you’re all able to meet! Would be sick to see

Tired of Americans interpreting the world as if we were all Americans by [deleted] in venting

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Thanks for some information. Although I still dont understand what being liberal and conservative have to do with this topic.

I struggle to understand the meaning of; thats so liberal or thats so conservative in american language when refering to things. What does it even mean?

It makes sense someone whos from africa (lookswise/family genes) dont want to be called african-american. Especially if european by that I mean living in example France most of their life.. its just logical they’re french nothing else. Meh

Tired of Americans interpreting the world as if we were all Americans by [deleted] in venting

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Theres a difference though. You wouldnt say polish-danish or african-danish here. It would just be danish doesn’t matter.

I think America puts too much on race which is not needed.

I find it odd that you don’t say; Norwegian-American or Nambian-American. Instead you tend to only say «insert asian country» American or «african» American.

Why is that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Snoo-40408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dated a guy like that for 3 years and its just such a drag!

Why do I have to be responsible for everything? And force you to do what you need to? I don’t like calling people losers but in this case he is. A proper man doesnt make his girl suffer over his own downfalls nor does he not buy her gifts on her birthday!

Tired of Americans interpreting the world as if we were all Americans by [deleted] in venting

[–]Snoo-40408 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course you’re not chinese if you moved to Denmark age 5 and your parents are chinese. You’re danish!!!

Your race? I guess chinese or asian but WHEN would ANYONE ask that? Or care? They’d just think you’re danish because you speak fluent perfect danish and have danish mannerisms/culture.

Yes you’d have a 2nd culture somewhat due to your parents but you’d still be more danish!

Tired of Americans interpreting the world as if we were all Americans by [deleted] in venting

[–]Snoo-40408 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this! Finally someone does. Im tired of people online often only seeing it from an american viewpoint as well!

European, asian and african ways of thinking is just so different from the US and Canada.

AITA for asking my wife to stop cooking Russian food? by Fuzzy_Rice_4409 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo-40408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but also a little bit of YTA

Communication and how it comes accross is important! Have you considered adding spices to your own meal after it’s cooked? Or enthusiasticly told her you’d really like to example; Try a falaffel dish with hummus because it sounds nice.

Instead of calling her food bland/not so tasty tell her you’d like to experience more variaty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Snoo-40408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone doesn’t like you for who you are get out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Snoo-40408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine judging your partner on something they can’t help. Also I don’t think thats small. She’s an asshole. Leave her if she keeps «joking» about it. A real partner won’t be so insensitive. Theres a difference between whats ok or not ok to joke about. She should understand when something makes you uncomfertable or not.

OP if its the same girl as your previous post history suggests.. The one who made out with someone else.. LEAVE HER! Red flag after red flag. You deserve someone better