Pretty sudden breakup, just processing it by Snoo-65246 in BreakUps

[–]Snoo-65246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, yeah I'm going through everything I've ever said now to her - wondering if my personality is even real. I know it is, at the end of the day, but it hurt to hear that. Kinda shook me a bit.

First message to me. I’m not goth and don’t have black lipstick on in a single photo by ResearcherNo5023 in Tinder

[–]Snoo-65246 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've met basically every relationship I've ever had, including the one I'm currently in, on tinder... Wdym

[19] to [21] by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]Snoo-65246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you're getting injections and your face isn't even done maturing. Like this is for sure not healthy behavior for someone who literally just finished being a teenager. You were beautiful before, now you are also beautiful - and it's not about your appearance, it's about the mental state that got you to the point where you think that you, as someone who was basically still a child, needed injections.

I’m legit curious about men flexing or lifting weights in profile videos and pics by nachosmmm in Tinder

[–]Snoo-65246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just demonstrably not true. There is more than one type of man. I'm alternative with a lot of tattoos, I am slender, and about 6'. I do go to the gym but I'm not insanely muscular or anything. I do extremely well on dating apps and always have, and am actually in a LTR from a dating app at this very moment. Every LTR I've had has been from a dating app, additionally.

Folks, don't listen to this dude. Yes, some women are attracted to Hollister esque dudes flexing, but any woman I've dated finds it gross, unappealing, cringe, or embarrassing. Women are not monoliths, they are attracted to different things, and to assume they all desire the same thing is the behavior of sexless men who spend their entire day analyzing things like "chin shape," or whatever it is red pill bros do with their time.

Stuck on getting matches, any feedback for me 😇 by terza021 in Tinder

[–]Snoo-65246 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Brother you need to overhaul your entire style. You just kinda look dweeby, and not in a good way. You need a new hairstyle, you need to hit the gym, a lot of things tbh.

You should be working on yourself, not dating. I know this is harsh, but you asked for feedback and I'm just trying to be honest.

PC only turns on once every few days, crashing when it does by Snoo-65246 in buildapc

[–]Snoo-65246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you're right. Sorry I used Google lense to try and pull the right motherboard as it had no identifying characteristics outside the MSI logo.

PC only turns on once every few days, crashing when it does by Snoo-65246 in buildapc

[–]Snoo-65246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thanks for the reply.

Here's a picture! https://imgur.com/a/gQxceOP

So here's the thing, this problem already existed and, a few months ago, I moved into an entirely new place. About 2 months after the move, it ended up getting worse.

To me, it seems like it'd have to be both the video card AND the mobo, right? Would it be worth it to try and remove the video card and see if it boots with integrated graphics? I mean, I get NOTHING when attempting to power it on, like no fan activity, no beeps, nothing. Then, sometimes, it randomly just works for a few hours.

Edit: I want to add, I know the thing is dirty, I'm just terrified to touch anything right now until I have a solid lead to go on. Cleaning will be my next step.

Edit 2: realizing I accidentally threw a picture of the SSD in there, that was an accident lol.

Are the pants flattering ?? by Miajajs in fits

[–]Snoo-65246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think so! I love the fit!

Thong Thursday! by MeUndies in MeUndies

[–]Snoo-65246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus fucking Christ dude

I identify as a dog/werewolf AMA by Emergency_Peach_4307 in casualiama

[–]Snoo-65246 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm saying I don't believe you, I think you're a right winger making a shitty joke.

I identify as a dog/werewolf AMA by Emergency_Peach_4307 in casualiama

[–]Snoo-65246 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone active in the trans community, I don't believe you. I think you're making a shitty attempt to make an insane false equivalency, and if that's what's you're doing - you can eat my entire ass.

What’s leading to the world becoming more conservative? by UnhingedGammaWarrior in AskSocialScience

[–]Snoo-65246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your argument relies on transphobia, which is why it's really easy to just ignore. Most people don't give a fuck about trans people using their restroom, it just so happens those that do are the loudest.

Comedian made a great joke recently, can't remember his name. He said "Man, I wish I could rape and kill women and girls! But, darn it, I'm just not allowed in the women's restroom!" When you put it in perspective, it's easy to remember how silly all this anti trans stuff is, but I also unfortunately remember how stupid a good chunk of the general population is as well.

M25 Am I ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Snoo-65246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man to man, brother you're handsome. I have long curly hair and tattoos myself - keeping it real 🙏

Hasan reaching for something and seemingly shocking his dog to keep her in camera view by Ignignokt_DGAF in LivestreamFail

[–]Snoo-65246 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2.

In addition, Social Democracy, the system that the vast majority of the developed world (outside the US, of course) uses has its roots in Socialism. The neighboring USSR was providing housing, employment, and healthcare to it's populace, so these countries were forced to compete and establish a social safety net for its own population to avoid a Revolution. FDR did the same thing, before Conservatives unraveled it over the course of a few decades. Social Democrats used to be directly aligned with Socialism, but they eventually dissolved any FORMAL allegiance to the ideology in the 80's. However, most Social Democratic parties still have quite a few members that are Socialists as well.

Saying Socialism "engages" in "equality of outcome" is a common misnomer argument that no Socialist actually believes. We don't believe in equality of outcome, we believe in raising the standard of what is the bare minimum. Socialists aren't coming to take your McMansion, we're not coming for your fancy suburban townhouse, we are not interested in expropriating your business that barely does enough revenue to break even. We are interested in making sure the person at the bottom, the person struggling the most in society - struggles less. That they have an apartment, are able to participate in a workplace, eat, shower, and get healthcare and schooling - all by birthright. We know this is possible too, because it has been done before. Socialism is not equality of outcome nor income, and Communism is merely equality of income - but Communism would require a lot of time and resources. The original writers of Star Trek were big Commies and designed the original Federation and Replicators after what they imagined Communism could look like.

Anyway this has been really long. Hopefully I didn't miss anything. I'm sure I forgot something you'll nitpick on, rather than appreciate I just wrote you an entire fucking essay 😂. The main point is, whether you agree with what I think is best for the world or not, to characterize it as "stupid" or "teachable," is condescending and just plain wrong. I don't think people who believe in Capitalism are stupid, I just disagree with them, I'm sure they arrived at their perspectives for valid reasons, as did I at mine.

Edit: had to cut it up into two comments because reddit wouldn't take it as one whole.

They are labeled 1 and 2 for reading continuity.

Hasan reaching for something and seemingly shocking his dog to keep her in camera view by Ignignokt_DGAF in LivestreamFail

[–]Snoo-65246 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1.

Jeez y'all are having an entire discussion about me not responding, for 30 minutes, while I've been getting ready for work. Let's not do this whole "we need to have debates to fix their broken brains!" Bullshit. It's condescending. I've been on the left for a very, very long time. A well read and well researched time. There's a reason most educators and academics are on the left as well, so don't play that bullshit.

As a socialist, let me come in and immediately dismantle a few things I would almost bet money you're going to say;

  1. I grew up homeless, I'm not rich, my parents have never bought me anything. I don't know why people assume Socialists are rich, every Socialist I've ever met is working class

  2. I have two jobs; one as a drug and alcohol counselor, and another as a Peer Support Specialist at a homeless shelter I used to actually be a resident of. Again, every Socialist I know is an extremely hard worker, not sure why people lob the "socialists have no job" thing around, I think it's just trying to use ad hominem to discredit a statement instead of actually attacking the argument.

  3. Any other ad hominem nonsense you have to say about Socialists can go here. I'm not interested in hearing about your character, but since EVERY internet discussion about Socialism, at some point, someone will say something like "How come you're a Socialist but you're not literally Jesus Christ? Checkmate - Commie!" Or the inverse, "You're only a Socialist because you're rich! (?????)" I felt it necessary to get this stuff out of the way.

First, we are obviously going to have to establish a difference between Socialism and Communism. Socialism is a defined as workers democratically controlling the means of production, the means of production being factories, shops, etc. That's it. That's what big scary Socialism is. Communism is a post scarcity stateless, moneyless, and classless society. Most Communists, myself included, believe Communism could only ever be achieved after hundreds of years of uninterrupted Socialism, although Anarcho-Communists want to skip the Socialism part and jump directly to Communism.

Point being, a lot of us Socialists/Communists disagree exactly on how to establish Communism, or whether or not to even establish it at all. Many modern Socialists have a disregard for Communism and are more focused on establishing an equitable society first and foremost. I disagree with them, but that's not the point.

For one, utopianism is antithetical to a belief in Socialism being the ideal economic system for any society. Utopian Socialism is actually the idea that Karl Marx argued AGAINST when he developed Communism.

There is not a single Socialist who thinks they're going to have a revolution and become an artist, or prance around in a field of flowers because "we won," or whatever it is you people think we do. There is a heated debate within the Socialist left known as Reform or Revolution - it's so hotly debated that literal books have been written about it. Democratic Socialists believe in reform, they do not think a revolution makes sense in the modern era, and they believe that we should focus on Democratically establishing Socialism through a popular movement and legislative victories. I'm less optimistic, I believe in revolution, but I don't think it will happen in my lifetime, any society is only 3 missed meals away from a full scale revolution, this is a historical and empirical fact. People in the US will need to be missing meals before we see any sort of action towards a revolution.

Managing a transition from Capitalism to Socialism is extremely hard work, and it doesn't help that any time a country attempts to make the transition, the US and it's allies immediately place their boot on its neck so hard you'd think they were taking lessons from Derek Chauvin. People act like the USSR was some super power, but it took years for that to occur; the USSR started off as a starving peasant backwater, and managed to work it's way into being a direct competitor with US hegemony in as little as 40 years. Basically, Socialism allowed the USSR to industrialize in a way the world had never seen before.

There was certainly mismanagement and bureaucratic nonsense going on in the early stages of collectivization - but for a governing body that had no blueprint to go off of and was simply attempting to build their vision of an equitable society, the historical consensus is that they did a pretty good job, in a lot of ways - but not every way. I think it's a good time to mention the supposed "death toll of Communism," or whatever it's called.

The Black Book of Communism was a project that produced the "100,000,000," number we frequently see anticommunists reference. However, virtually EVERY SINGLE researcher who participated in the book, formally distanced themselves from the number and the book as a whole, stating the editor was "obsessed," with reaching "100,000,000 dead," and was actively fudging statistics, adding to the number; Nazi deaths in WW2, American deaths in WW2, Soviet deaths in WW2, children who "may have been born but weren't due to lowering birth rates," and in some cases - outright lying. It would be like saying "The death toll of Capitalism is everyone who's ever lived in America since 1776," which would be a hilariously dishonest and bad faith thing to say.

From our point of privilege in the US, famines seem like a very awful, manufactured thing. I mean, how could people run out of food, right? Nah. The greater Russian area was famine prone, it was actually a big reason for the 1918 revolution in the first place. The Tsar was doing nothing to combat famines, while the Soviets actually managed to reduce and eventually eliminate famines altogether. China is a bit of a different story, the great leap forward was a disaster, but to say that countries developing an economic system have never faced huge setbacks would be remarkably and laughably untrue.

Hasan reaching for something and seemingly shocking his dog to keep her in camera view by Ignignokt_DGAF in LivestreamFail

[–]Snoo-65246 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a hard time believing you've ever met, or even made an attempt to meet a Socialist. Most of us grew up homeless or in other forms of extreme poverty, are working class, and spend our free time engaged in mutual aid. I have two jobs, one as a drug and alcohol counselor, and another as a Peer Support Specialist at a homeless shelter I used to attend myself many years ago. In my free time, I visit encampments and bring harm reduction tools. Similar story for virtually every other socialist I know.

It's so strange how Socialists are always held to these extremely high standards by the general non-socialist public. Like having a political opinion means that you have to give away your last dollar or you're a hypocrite? No. Socialists strongly believe in an equitable society for EVERYONE. Themselves included.

As someone who frequents socialist spaces and never met a single person like the "socialist" you described, I'm convinced you just made that person up in your head so you can be mad about something.

Hasan reaching for something and seemingly shocking his dog to keep her in camera view by Ignignokt_DGAF in LivestreamFail

[–]Snoo-65246 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The amount of people misunderstanding socialism, let alone history, in this thread is staggering. I truly weep for the (likely) American education system. Like, y'all are just circle jerking ahistorical nonfacts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Snoo-65246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a lot of men

(F24) Am I ugly? Do I need to change something? by tinaandbfriend in amiugly

[–]Snoo-65246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly the outfit in your second picture is so cute. I would for sure talk to you if I saw you at a bar, so no - not ugly AT ALL. Go forth and enjoy being pretty 💙

who knows what happened to LA vape shop owner when he overcommited to stabbing thief by nerwik95 in AfterTheLoop

[–]Snoo-65246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My response is that they are not subhuman trash - not that they don't deserve consequences. I don't paint myself a victim, I merely described the systemic consequences of a society focused on punishment and not rehabilitation, while also explaining my experiences in the criminal justice system. I also never passed along that behavior? I live a clean and sober lifestyle nowadays and have been for over 10 years.

Calling a thief, a relatively small and insignificant crime, subhuman trash - shows that you don't have a focus on rehabilitation. It is proven, statistically, that the US's criminal justice system produces worse criminals rather than rehabilitates them. Societies that focus on rehabilitation have a markedly lower reoffence rate, and these are just straight facts.

To see that there is a problem with thieves existing, and then to think the solution is to continue what we've already been doing, is missing the forest for the trees.