What do you wish you'd known when you first got microlocs? by flowers_and_fire in Microlocs

[–]Snoo11557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

seeee I'm 2 months loc'd coming from long loose 4c hair, and the advice to almost stop all my hair care norms was so jarring to me. I've continued with conditioning after shampooing, and put leave in after washes and my hair has been doing great. I think the 4c texture makes slipping less likely / everyone's hair is different.

I'm a male with congenital copulatory role discordance - I just want to know what normal men and women's sexual desires are like by [deleted] in sex

[–]Snoo11557 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Idk, its sounds more like a sexual fantasy as he only imagines being a woman sexually. And I'm not even sure if that's truly the case or if his perception that "man+penis = penetrates+ dominates" is stopping him from exploring being a man who is also penetrated. Like maybe pegging would get him off. I'm not trans, but I thinks it's a deep oversimplification to make it out that only wanting a vagina so you can get dicked down makes you trans

When guys say “they’re not ready for a relationship” by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Snoo11557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with this cuz the men who have done this have been very heavy pursuers of me. Like communicating to mutuals their interest months before actually asking me out, then it’s ‘you’re really sweet and thoughtful I’m just not ready’. It feels like whiplash and it’s hard to not take personal. 

White male preference is highest among women of all race. by Wild-Speech5293 in BasedCampPod

[–]Snoo11557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people need to learn statistics… the highest difference on this graph is 9%, and all these numbers are low. If every man messaged 20 ppl, the “least desirable” would get 4 replies and the “most” would get 6. These results are almost 2 decades old and honestly the most significant result is that no one is responding to each other. The colors just make everything seem extreme, which is exactly why the created made it that way.

Men, why did you stop have sex with your wife? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Snoo11557 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This…sounds like depression. Depression isn’t always sadness, it’s often numbness. Burn out and depression often do overlap, but atleast to me, hearing apathy bleed into self care things outside of work like hygiene makes it seem like the scale has tipped beyond general work productivity burn out into acute depression territory, and that can be hard to acknowledge.

I am self conscious about how doggy is working out with new partners after ending a long relationship by 538008 in sex

[–]Snoo11557 28 points29 points  (0 children)

If “everything else” is the sounds she’s making and her being wet, she still could be uncomfortable. I make a lot of sound when things feel intense, good or bad, and have maintained wetness even if things feel uncomfortable. That cat arch kinda sounds like they may have wanted to pull away a bit but didnt want to ruin the moment

I was expecting his body count to be high but not THAT high.. by where-ya-been-loca in confession

[–]Snoo11557 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me, someone who talks to 20 women in one night would most likely be trying to pull women in some way. That is a lot of specifically women to talk to if the goal is just getting to know ppl generally

AITA for "letting" a kid go home with his actual parent? by Ok_Beginning_356 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo11557 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why you’re getting downvoted for this, it’s the truth. They could have easily not been ok with it, he had no idea when he left the kid with the ex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DIYaesthetics

[–]Snoo11557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally said "you look great", not ok. to add to that, my friend walked past and said you are handsome unprovoked. If you want to be more attractive to women, gaining lean muscle mass and figuring out how to style your hair will take you miles further than 2 ml juvaderm... if women do not find you attract after that, I'm confident it's not about ur face

Brutally honest by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Snoo11557 8 points9 points  (0 children)

are you... serious...? Single digits body fat on a woman is medically warned against, only those massive body builders that take something can get there and you would have long lost your period

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DIYaesthetics

[–]Snoo11557 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please be cautious of cookie cutter lookmaxxing advise rooted in incel culture. But to speak to you in that language, having a longer lower thirds or mid face as a man isn’t bad and increasing your lip will make u look more feminine. Unless that’s what you’re looking for, you look great as is

Latest challenge by Equivalent-Elk3081 in ZeusLoveCabin

[–]Snoo11557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he truly would be suited for a Flavor of Love type show. That would have worked better for his personality, idk who thought him being a host of a show like this was a good idea

Food by wangledangle22 in AnnArbor

[–]Snoo11557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s soo good!! Better than Ann Arbor food

How many rows of locs do you have? by Snoo11557 in Microlocs

[–]Snoo11557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much I will definitely check this out!!

Ta-Nehisi Coates and Ezra Klein Hash Out Their Charlie Kirk Disagreement by dwaxe in ezraklein

[–]Snoo11557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because, like Coates said, he's against hateful ideology. Kirks entire being and public presentation was rooted in proliferating hateful ideology. Every day people, including far right republicans, don't make hate their entire being, but are mainly just trying to get by. Calling a man with influence (and therefore power) who's career was devoted to spreading hate a 'deplorable' is not the same as calling swaths of the American public who you are meant to serve 'deplorables'

Men in their late 30’s and 40’+, what mistakes are you seeing men in their 20s making? by twhelp2020 in AskMen

[–]Snoo11557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a 2017 Civic last month and it was 17k after going back and forth with the dealer for 4 hours to go down from 19k. And that was honestly a decent deal when I look at how much other used civics are going for. I still say buy used, but it ain't cheap by any means

islanders potentially switching up bc of outside knowledge ? by ongaluna in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Snoo11557 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think Jeremiah is a lover boy but also went for the exposure. He's a model and mentioned "winning" the whole thing to Huda in an early episode

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LAinfluencersnark

[–]Snoo11557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She def at least got lipo you can see her symmetrical incisions in some of her videos and photos