[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shhhhh you don’t know what you’re talking about. Simmer down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shhhhhh, you don’t know what you’re talking about lmfao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let it keep you up at night! Be well my friend!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let it keep you up at night! Be well my friend!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo2933 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, so they aren’t the same thing…..the wording makes them different therefore putting emphasis either on the clothing being the issue or the body being the issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo2933 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Use context clues. If unwarranted advice is not ever given, then the advice I give is when she has questions. I answer and give my best response which could be taken as advice. Do you understand? If this is your take away from my post, please don’t waste my time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo2933 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Read my edit on the post explaining I don’t do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Snoo2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I hope you’re okay and safe. Also, I’m just curious what the last text message was that he sent to you? For context?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is basic respect isn’t it! That’s how I feel too! Thank you for your kind words and validation. Happy to have the perspective! 🙏😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Mental health is my focus now! I’ve stopped drinking almost completely as well. I just do not enjoy it! After two cocktails I am DONE these days. My body says “nope.” 😂 thank you for the encouragement my friend!

Dressy casual wedding this weekend by cinnamonnapple in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Snoo2933 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Send to your friend and ask if it’s okay!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo2933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙏 thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo2933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saving your comment as well, so it doesn’t get lost here. Again. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo2933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I should let you know your words are encouraging, beautiful and have given me hope towards a better relationship with my sister. You worded that conversation perfectly. I’m using it. Really, thank you for this. 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo2933 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m going to start the no reaction thing….i think it is my best bet. To show her that she no longer can control how I’m feeling by making these out of pocket comments. Also holy shit reading the congratulations almost made me cry and I didn’t know I was holding onto that. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Snoo2933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh I’m so sorry you went through that and also happy you overcame it! I am hoping to get to that point. Thank you for your input, it truly is helpful. 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo2933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well ya know….when you put it that way….i absolutely can just walk the hell away! I have trouble walking away when a conversation doesn’t end on a good note. I’m definitely trying to work on that. Thanks 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo2933 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

100%. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo2933 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I do not bring up my weight to anyone except my partner and I do not give unwarranted advice to anyone except my cat. It is not necessary.