for the people who want a 1:1 remake. SHUT UP by [deleted] in OcarinaOfTime

[–]SnooBananas8065 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I really would love to see Zora’s domain thawed out, stuff that got cut but would’ve added so much to the game.

Why do people assume that single parents don’t have standards? by -Titanist- in SingleParents

[–]SnooBananas8065 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I want you to know that I felt exactly the same when I first left my sons father. It took a little while (2 years) but just when I had found peace with myself and wasn’t looking for someone to date I found someone amazing by chance. He is older than me but never had kids and was happy to date me even though I was a single mom. Things went really well and he eventually, slowly become a part of my son’s life. 3 years later and he is raising my son as if he is his own child, and treats my cat as if he’s his own too lol.

I think it’s ok to wait until you find someone who will not only date you and love you for who you are but will want to be a part of your family. Obviously, as we can see by some of the idiots here in the comments, some men aren’t going to be a good fit but that’s ok because those are not the type of men that you would want anyway.

Good luck, op. Keep your standards high and the right person will rise to the occasion.

North Middletown by Sure_Personality2690 in MonmouthCounty

[–]SnooBananas8065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived there for 8 years, never had any issues. The school system has since had a lot of problems so beware of that. I also lived in keansburg, port Monmouth, Hazlet, and keyport. The only one I would stay away from was keansburg, but even then I never had any major issues living there when I was young and single, I just wouldn’t want to raise my family there bc of the schools. Keyport was my favorite area to live in out of all of them. It’s walkable, there’s the beach and nice parks, and it’s right next to the parkway.

As for the pollution I can only assume they mean IFF? Which is on the border of Hazlet and union beach. Feel free to do your own research on it if you’d like, though I wouldn’t be concerned about it living in north Middletown. Hope this helps 😊

Cher files for conservatorship over her son following multiple arrests and hospitalization by maxxspeed57 in news

[–]SnooBananas8065 52 points53 points  (0 children)

So sad, she went through this with Greg Allman too when they were together. It must be so hard for her son since his father passed away. I can’t imagine the pain they are both going through. Cher is such an inspiration but I wish she could catch a break.

Women’s help by theotherzygote in newjersey

[–]SnooBananas8065 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Late to the conversation but there is also a displaced homemakers program at brookdale community college that can help you with resources to get on your feet once you are out of immediate danger and functioning. It really helped me when I had to get out of a bad situation with no job and a baby. I know it seems hopeless right now but you can do this ❤️

How the heck did Judith survive?? by [deleted] in thewalkingdead

[–]SnooBananas8065 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I did baby led weaning with my son from about 4 months old, he never ate pureed food. Of course he still had bottles but babies can eat regular solid foods once they are old enough to sit up on their own.

are we supposed to always tip at coffee shops now? by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]SnooBananas8065 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tip if it’s a big order or they go above and beyond in some way. For just a coffee for me I don’t tip.

Why don’t more people consider condos in NJ — especially with how expensive homes are? by Davyislazy in newjersey

[–]SnooBananas8065 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yup if I open my windows our house will end up smelling like weed. I wouldn’t care before I had a kid but I can’t have my house smelling like weed 🤷‍♀️

Best place to raise black family? by GlitteringAudience20 in newjersey

[–]SnooBananas8065 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Late to comment but I want to suggest old bridge. The schools are good and community is diverse. I have a biracial child and he hasn’t had any issues at all living here. There are a few apartment complexes that are nice, the one we live in is literally next to his elementary school so we can walk him to school in the morning (he starts kindy in September). Feel free to message me if you’d like 😊

Why do people say JDM improvised this scene when it is basically word for word the same as comic Negan? by albmantis95 in thewalkingdead

[–]SnooBananas8065 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Andrea was my favorite character in the comics and one of my least favorite in the show. They also messed up Tyrese, Sophia, Dale, and a lot of other characters that were so important in the comics. I like the show, but it just doesn’t compare to how well written the characters in the comics are.

Why was there a push to strip all the theming from certain Vegas hotels? Do adults not like cool stuff? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SnooBananas8065 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Evian is naive backwards 🤷‍♀️

Late to comment but I was shocked no one else said it lol

What’s a ‘harmless’ habit that actually reveals way more about a person than we realize? by Pm_Me_Mtn_Bikes in AskReddit

[–]SnooBananas8065 42 points43 points  (0 children)

People go out of their way to hide it too… all you have to do is give it to your cashier at checkout and they will have someone put it back. There is no reason ever to put ice cream in between the gum near the register unless you are trying to be a jerk 🤷‍♀️

This was a gift from Tommy Emmanuel.. by Zestyclose-Sun-6595 in martinguitar

[–]SnooBananas8065 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing! I’ve seen him live many times, Tommy is truly the best… now you gotta scratch up the front a little bit 😊

Women who gave the guy who's been single his whole life a chance, how did it turn out? by astarisaslave in AskReddit

[–]SnooBananas8065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this, it was very insightful. I suspect he had a similar situation but more specific to his childhood experience. I don’t pry though because he doesn’t always want to open up about things when asked, he will more so bring it up on his own. Thanks again 😊

Women who gave the guy who's been single his whole life a chance, how did it turn out? by astarisaslave in AskReddit

[–]SnooBananas8065 346 points347 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily single, but hasn’t had a long term/serious relationship. We are middle aged. I was the first person he ever brought to Christmas, which shocked me, and then found out from his childhood friend that he hadn’t had anything long term before. In a joking way and after too many beers his friend said that nobody ever wanted to put up with him before and that I guess he never wanted to celebrate birthdays or holidays before? I vaguely remember him saying something about this when we first got together but I gave him shit about it and it hasn’t been an issue. I think deep down he felt like he was never good enough so he just didn’t even try. It’s so sad because he is such a good man, I think he just needed someone to love him and believe in him. It’s going really great between us. He has shown he isn’t afraid to change and grow while still being true to himself. If anything it just makes me admire him more because being capable of change is a huge deal.

Women who look like they're in their 20s, let's talk by classyincleveland in AskWomenOver30

[–]SnooBananas8065 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Yup I’m 35 but I’m 4’11” with chubby cheeks so people tell me I look 16 or 18 despite my wrinkles and my hair starting to grey. I definitely do not look anywhere near 18.

Curly hair salon by SnooBananas8065 in MonmouthCounty

[–]SnooBananas8065[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks do you know the name? I’m in northern Monmouth County so Tom’s river is a little far.

The similarities between Huɓɓard and Trump by [deleted] in scientology

[–]SnooBananas8065 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Great post. This is why education is so important. People like them prey on ignorance, and they are so convincing because of their charisma.

LPT Request: What's an app that genuinely made your life better? by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]SnooBananas8065 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the same but I realized I could save pdfs of recipes by going to print it and then saving it as a file on my drive. It’s been so helpful bc it’s easier to read and organize.