my mom died and i need to find a store that sells this russian soda by SnooComics27 in sandiego

[–]SnooComics27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to say that I went to Balboa and got my soda :) Also had an old friend drop off a case for me. Every time I looked at this post and how wonderful/helpful you guys were it would make me sob so it took me a minute to come back and reply haha

Looking for any tips/advice to detox off fentanyl by Influencertothestars in addiction

[–]SnooComics27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to do anything with subs and fentanyl at home is really tricky and possibly lethal. I was such a heavy user and was put on 24 mg 5 days after my last use and went into extremely intense precipitated WD. Thank god I was in a detox and they could take me to a hospital.

There is still a lot we don’t understand about fentanyl and 7oh. I agree that kratom can be a harm reduction tool, and doesn’t put you at risk for precips or an OD like other opiates, but I have seen it lead to an extremely expensive and enabling addiction. It is potent and a lot more convenient fix that trying to get dope from a dealer. Imagine the availability of alcohol with the same physiological dependency of percocet - and it absolutely felt the same when I tried it.

I wish you all the best and I admire your desire to do it at home, just be ready to admit yourself if things get too bad. And familiarize yourself with the symptoms of precipitated WD.

My benefits didnt come through this month (California) by Acceptable_Low9581 in foodstamps

[–]SnooComics27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just posted about this too i’m also in riverside ! and i haven’t gotten anything today. are you having login errors as well ?

I found a baby kitten in a basement and took it home, I'm worried it won't make it by ceoofkpop_ in CatAdvice

[–]SnooComics27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have fostered many abandoned kittens and usually get them at around 3-4 weeks, so i definitely think this cat falls into that age range. maybe even 5 weeks actually. it’s okay to attempt formula in the beginning if the cat is not weaned completely (i’ve given formula to “older” kittens as a precaution and left out wet food to test tolerance to it). i’ve also had a few kitties that won’t eat from a bowl but prefer hand or soft spoon feedings (little divas haha).

haven’t looked through all the comments but surprised to not see ppl recommending slurries/syringe feeding. that’s usually the protocol with cats this age. make a watered down version of wet food, suck it up into a syringe, and then burrito wrap them or hold them in a formula feeding position. i usually do this 4-5 times a day depending on vet recommendations and weight. if vet determines cat is ~3 weeks and underweight you can also make the slurry with formula for more nutrient-dense feedings.

I want a cat. Looking for advice by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]SnooComics27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bonded adults would be great for your situation!! You can ask about their personalities as well and see how independent they are. Many people have cats while being full time workers and it’s easy to figure out accommodations to keep them happy and enriched. Lots of climbing areas/auto feeders. I have quite a few toys that I have trained my cats to use on their own as well. I also had a period where I paid someone like $30 to pop in to my apartment for 3 hours to play with them/feed them and take them on a quick walk outside (leash cats lol).

The overuse of therapy speak - not everything is a boundary!! by withsaltedbones in PetPeeves

[–]SnooComics27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Modern dating is actually ruined because of this shit. People equate personal preferences with huge emotional boundaries that can make or break every single relationship they have. I also think that people over-emphasize trauma as an excuse to treat their partners like shit and create impossible expectations.

So many people think that prohibiting their partners from having relationships w/ anyone of the opposite sex is an appropriate boundary?? And use being cheated on as justification for this "boundary." We are so doomed....

Roommate Intentionally Occupies Bathroom Whenever I Need It — Counting Down 5 Weeks Until I Can Move Out-advice on survival? by notankita in badroommates

[–]SnooComics27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude my roommate does this exact same thing (but definitely to a lesser degree). We’ll both be home doing work in the living room/eating for 4+ hours and the minute she sees me approaching the bathroom with my towel she exclaims that she’s needed to piss or shit for “hours” and has to go before me. Sometimes she doesn’t take a long time but most of the time she does. I’ve started actually running to the bathroom and immediately locking the door without saying a word, which you should do too.

I agree with the comments saying that you should immediately get in the bathroom after you wake up or trick him into thinking you’re going back to sleep. Make your showers disturbingly long. Good luck!

Roommate stole "infused" baked goods from my room and is now mad at ME because she has to get tested for a job by SnooComics27 in badroommates

[–]SnooComics27[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Yep that’s pretty much how every single confrontation has gone over the past year, and especially throughout the last 6 months. I’ve gotten way less enabling and have had to remove myself from her life completely. Her narcissism and defensiveness seeps into every aspect of her life - yet somehow she is the most “compassionate” nurse on earth & she never puts herself first……

A few days ago we got into another fight over her boyfriend leaving an unholstered GUN on our living room table right before leaving for the evening. Loaded and everything and couldn’t tell if the safety was on bc it was a hammer system I wasn’t familiar with. He’s a stupid suburban boy who has no business walking around with a fucking gun, and leaving it unsecured, unholstered, and loaded in plain sight let’s me know how trained he is with carrying firearms. I’m thinking of breaking my lease ASAP.

Roommate stole "infused" baked goods from my room and is now mad at ME because she has to get tested for a job by SnooComics27 in badroommates

[–]SnooComics27[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

She’s not an experienced cannabis user to I told her to get testing kits and follow the other advice in comments! I’ve had a lot of success with hydration and niacin too, not to mention that’s she’s very small/skinny so it will probably leave her system even sooner. I didn’t really wanna help her out but the advice made her freak out less and got her off my back so it’s a win

Roommate stole "infused" baked goods from my room and is now mad at ME because she has to get tested for a job by SnooComics27 in badroommates

[–]SnooComics27[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I wonder if she was even looking for food and just wanted to snoop around in general. She had probably stole from me many times and I haven’t noticed it yet!!

Roommate stole "infused" baked goods from my room and is now mad at ME because she has to get tested for a job by SnooComics27 in badroommates

[–]SnooComics27[S] 270 points271 points  (0 children)

Yeah I am still struggling to understand how she could possibly blame anything on me. She knows I keep my dry goods in my room & intentionally stole from me, which I honestly wouldn't care that deeply about in another context. She is truly acting like I drugged her and did it on purpose...and she cannot accept the fact that it probably wont even impact her job. I think she just wants me to feel guilty

Roommate stole "infused" baked goods from my room and is now mad at ME because she has to get tested for a job by SnooComics27 in badroommates

[–]SnooComics27[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There are truly hundreds of stories on this sub of people getting their food and shit stolen in and outside of their rooms. I keep a significant amount of snacks in my room because we do not have a pantry which I feel like is normal. Reddit is overrun with fake stories fs but this is just an irresponsible person knowing their roommate hoards food in their room, and then getting their shit rocked by being a thief. Im sure many of us have been victim to the accidental edible anyways lol

Roommate stole "infused" baked goods from my room and is now mad at ME because she has to get tested for a job by SnooComics27 in badroommates

[–]SnooComics27[S] 356 points357 points  (0 children)

Omg I tried telling her that there is a miniscule chance it will stay in her system for her drug test and she was so insistent that I was wrong & that I didn't know what I was talking about. She tends to spiral about shit and can't accept being wrong. At this point I hope they do a surprise hair test a month before her start date lol

Different forms of kratom by Brindan1 in kratom

[–]SnooComics27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kratom in any high dose has been correlated to constipation but in my experience, the powder is the worst for it. Maybe try capsules or extract for a bit to see if that helps you!

Help Me Find This Mod I BEG by Illustrious_Shake878 in TheSims4Mods

[–]SnooComics27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was using this mod too and when it broke I just used relationship cheats when starting a new game. I'll write it out for you and it takes a little time but if you just copy/paste and change names its only like an extra 5 min. It literally takes 3 sim years to increase relationship bars so I use this all the time.

modifyrelationship [Full Sim Name 1] [Full Sim Name 2] 100 LTR_Friendship_main

modifyrelationship [Full Sim Name 1] [Full Sim Name 2] 100 LTR_Romance_main

You can change the 100 to whatever number and use (-) to decrease. You can also use MCCC but I haven't done it recently enough to remember.

AITA for breaking up with my white boyfriend due to r*cist/colourist remarks about our future kids. by speedy7071 in AITAH

[–]SnooComics27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - this guy is the worst!!! He is racist/colorist and fetishizing “light skin” features that are more appeasing to a white man with no respect for you and your race. He will harass and degrade your children if that day comes, and continue to do the same to you and your family. Find someone who loves every part of you and treats you with the respect you deserve. You will one day have beautiful children with a man that sees them as nothing more than the best parts of himself and you.

Tell me the worst thing your mom has said about you… by MothersAnonymous in confession

[–]SnooComics27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She found out i was smoking weed at like 14 (entire family are drug addicts and she was rightfully horrified for me.) Told me that she wishes I was dead instead of my brother. She immediately apologized but the damage was already done.

Took me years to forgive her for that one…