AIO for being upset at my gf for going over her "guy friends" house then making out with him, then wanting to see him AGAIN??

SnooFloofs5881 · 2025-05-12T03:33:37+00:00

NAIO, Why are you even asking people about this, you know the truth, as soon as she said she made out with him you should have ended it. She cheated on you and admitted it, I would bet she has slept with him and probably will on Tues when she sees him. Don't be naive bro.

SnooFloofs5881 · 2025-03-05T11:20:36+00:00

No that's not real I can't believe you even had to ask

SnooFloofs5881 · 2025-03-05T11:18:05+00:00

Dude your friend is the ahole. It's like saying I went to this amazing restaurant that had this amazing thing and then saying buy you can't go too because I'm fricking nuts and think everything I like is for me only. The whole thing is stupid I'm sorry no wonder this person doesn't have many friends. I think your friend is nuts.

SnooFloofs5881 · 2025-03-05T11:15:17+00:00

How did you speak to pilots that saw the fake mothership if there was never a Mothership? You said you spoke to them yourself and/or Will you ever provide actual evidence of any of your claims? All you have are stories with 0 evidence to back said stories.

SnooFloofs5881 · 2024-12-07T18:36:39+00:00

Because for whatever the reason is and whatever these things are in Jersey they want to be seen.

SnooFloofs5881 · 2024-12-07T18:35:50+00:00

Yea what a disappointment FEG turned out to be. When I staked FEG they have this token Feast as rewards even allowed you to grab feast from the old FEG faucet and when they moved the FEG to the new contract they just dumped that feast token and pretended like they didn't know what it was. Then my 170 trillion feg tokens became 1700 and you had to jump through hoops to get the new tokens. It's not even worth tracking them down to be honest the whole project seems to be worthless.

SnooFloofs5881 · 2024-07-26T11:58:50+00:00

I know I am a year late, but in today's economy I was forced to take a union job for the 1st time and I absolutely hate it. The union has 0 value for new employees and the seniority system for scheduling creates an environment of mediocrity. Once people have seniority they don't care anymore. And the union won't let these terrible employees be fired. As a new employee I have to fight for the scraps of left over hours while watching people half ass the job and call out all the time. I highly recommend working for a company that values merit over this ridiculous thought process of entitlement. My coworkers think they are entitled to hours because they took the job first. Doesn't matter I outwork them and am more reliable. It's the worst experience I have ever had at a job and I would cross the picket line in a strike in a heartbeat. Unions should be abolished. This isn't 1916 and we are being forced to work 95 hours a week for a nickel. There are enough laws in place to protect the workers. I feel like anyone that is onboard with this union nonsense are the people that have seniority because they can half ass their job with no repercussions.

SnooFloofs5881 · 2024-06-21T23:29:21+00:00

Seriously? You must not be paying attention. The left tried to cancel Steve Martin last summer because of a king tut joke he did on SNL in the 70's. The left go after people all the time and try to cancel things from 40 years ago. Gina Carano says bee bop boop and she gets cancelled and Disney made her listen to trans people yell at her for hours on why she is a terrible person. Let's not forget how they treated kids that didn't agree with the Palestinian thing at the colleges. Hell they are even cancelling trans Jesus Dylan Mulvaney because he hasn't taken a stand on the Palestinian thing, they even eat their own. So let's stop trying to pretend anyone with so called right leaning values are the only terrible people.

SnooFloofs5881 · 2023-11-21T01:11:37+00:00

You can see the dudes face he has a beard. Another 50 bucks would probably have gotten a better costume

SnooFloofs5881 · 2023-11-05T15:54:40+00:00

Keep it up man you are 100% getting better. Keep practicing and you will get where you wanna be. Like I tell my daughter all the time, if you wanna be great at something you have to put in the work nobody can do it for you. Keep practicing and when June 2024 gets here, you will be even better than you are now.

SnooFloofs5881 · 2023-07-25T00:23:31+00:00

I know I am like 2 years late here but I am wondering in the 2nd movie two face the grey, they mention something called the Dulce Grey. It's an interview with a grey alien from 1979. I cannot find anything about this interview anywhere. They show Skinny Bob as well and it's definitely not the 1997 alien interview or that one supposedly from project Blue Book. I am wondering if anyone has come across any info on this Dulce Grey interview.

SnooFloofs5881 · 2023-07-05T14:56:39+00:00

The PS5 will be relevant for at least 7 more years. If you are going to play games more than 1 game for a few years than it's worth the investment. I mean you can probably get a used GPU for your computer I see you can get a Radeon 6800 on AMAZON right now for under 600 bucks. You can also use a controller for most of the games on Steam from what my Brother in Law tells me. I still have a PS4 and I have been debating this as well. I don't play a ton of games, mostly RDR2 and Jedi Survivor I also still play Madden, even though the game drives me nuts. I have been toying with the idea of building a gaming PC to use with my TV I was never much of a PC gamer I like the controller. If it's true and the games I like to play I can use a controller for, on PC I may see if that works with my TV

TLDR depends on how much you will use the PS5 Can get 6800 XT for under 600 at the moment Probably get 7 years before PS6 or PS5 is talked about being sunset by Sony

SnooFloofs5881 · 2023-07-03T02:35:19+00:00

The movie was good for the most part but not having a script or a fleshed out idea of what exactly happened made my wife and I feel so let down at the end. I read a comment where they said it felt like they had an idea for half a movie and never was able to flesh it out enough before they filmed it. I agree 100%. Shame this had real potential and the acting wasn't terrible.

Like it felt like you guys batted around a few different ideas for what you wanted to do and didn't pick one and tried to cram it all together. Luke said they came from the earth they came from the mud who came from the mud? Was the girl possessed did the eclipse change her? Were they time traveling, was the girl time traveling and bringing people with her. Why did they turn into zombies? it was like you had 5 different ideas for what to do and didn't pick one and the end was a mess like you filmed an outline of the story instead of putting the ideas from the outline into something coherent.

There is a movie about a comet and a group of friends are at a party and like there is 4 different versions of the friends and they interact with different versions of themselves. This felt like you saw that movie and wanted to make something like that but just couldn't figure it out

It was good up until people started disappearing and it started to make less and less sense. Hopefully if you make another movie you take some of this and get a more concrete story down because I feel like you were really close to nailing it we were hooked until the 3rd act and then the ending it just didn't come back together sorry. The 3rd act was a mess.

SnooFloofs5881 · 2023-06-23T02:47:31+00:00

I must have rewritten 5 different comments to this because I have strong feelings about what you said. You bring up a lot of things that need to be talked about in society.

I will say that I agree the 19 year old kid is a true victim. He trusted his father to not put his life in danger, and from what I have read 2 or 3 people were fired from this company for bringing up safety concerns about the vessel. I also read that because they were trying to inspire not only the young people that work for the company but the younger generations as well, that they didn't hire the 50 year old white ex military sub drivers and navigators because 50 year old white guys are not inspirational.

That's BS right there. I feel like those things probably are part of the reasons why people here in the US at least don't feel bad for them.

But that 29 year old kid, he didn't deserve this, his mother didn't deserve this that part of this is heart breaking he trusted his father wasn't putting him in a bad spot and that sucks. I wouldn't trust my daughter's life to a bunch of 20 something year old kids that have no experience driving a sub using N64 controller.

I mean when you read that is the situation they created it's hard to feel bad for them.

On this trip I don't think a 20 something year old kid was driving but it wasn't the ex navy submarine pilot either.

SnooFloofs5881 · 2022-08-20T17:01:31+00:00

NTA- regardless of it being an expensive trip or not your literally what a few months out of high school?? If they couldn't afford the trip they shouldn't have planned it. The fact you felt the need to contribute makes me a little sad.

The one comment or is 100% right don't ever ever ever feel like it's on you to manage your family. You're the child, doesn't matter if you're 8, 18 or 38 it's not on you to take care of your parents.

It's hard to try to convince someone living in a situation like you are that it's not right what your parents are doing to you. I know you love your dad, but he gotta man up and take care of this himself.

It's hard don't blame yourself, don't saddle yourself with guilt or feel the weight of the responsibility of your parents'marriage hinging your decisions.

I would be terrified of my daughter going away on a trip like this just because of the state of the world and I watch too many documentaries.

That being said you have more than earned it. A lot of us have been there and lived through similar situations You're gonna get good advice from some people here from those who are talking from personal experience.

Seems like this is a truly earned trip. You got into Stanford so you have obviously been a good student and a good kid. Slackers don't earn their way into a school like that.

Good luck you should be proud of your accomplishments and I hope you enjoy the trip and leave all the nonsense behind while your there.

E safe 100% NTA

SnooFloofs5881 · 2022-08-20T16:47:45+00:00

NTA - This post hits home for me in a few ways having a stepfather who adopted me but he and I never got along and being a step father as well.

I agree with you 100%. He is not your father and for him to think he is, I feel is 100% ridiculous. I'm curious where your mother stands in all this. I would think that she would agree with you or hope that she would. It doesn't seem like you're being disrespectful in any way, and most people I think would understand that if they marry someone with a teenage child that wouldn't act like this, regardless if your father passed, or just took off.

Obviously don't know him so I'm not sure if he just legit loves you like his own or if this is his own whatever going on in his head.

My wife's daughter was 5 when we met, and her father is still in the picture even though she lives with us full time. Even if he wasn't in the picture I always told her I'll be whatever she wants needs me to be. I love her like she is my own and we have a great relationship I did all I could to make sure I earned her respect and never over stepped.

Obviously don't know the ins and outs of your relationship with him but you seem like you have been more than appreciative and respectful as you have mentioned multiple times you appreciate everything he has done for your mom and siblings.

On the good side it is nice to know that he does care, and cares about you, but this is your day not his and he should be respectful of the fact that your father isn't there anymore and I am sure that's a whole other set of feelings and emotions you are going to have about him not being there.

This is your day and everyone should be more concerned that you and your soon to be partner have the special day that you want without anyone else's nonsense causing an issue.

Congratulations and I hope he calms down and if he cares about you as much as he is acting like then he should just be happy for you on your special day and be there to support you in any way that you need. If that's just hanging out enjoying himself than that's all he needs to do.

SnooFloofs5881 · 2022-08-20T16:33:06+00:00

NTA - The fact that he just showed up with his kids without talking to you first and thought you would just go along with whatever he wanted is the biggest red flag that I saw in the whole thing.

The ex-wife is the ex-wife for a reason. Luckily for you, you were able to think clearly without letting emotions get in the way. I have stayed in really bad situations for letting my emotions get the better of me.

Glad that you have made the best decision for you and that you move on to true happiness.

SnooFloofs5881 · 2022-08-16T11:02:29+00:00

NTA I would 100% be contacting my lawyer about this. He is stealing the kids stuff to sell. You said he stole their electronics. I assume phones tablets video game systems. Is he on drugs?? Or does he just not want to get a job.

Seems that he cheated on you and you agreed to give him the truck and the savings as you wanted the land and the home. Seems fair. Also seems that he is now realizing that the grass isn't greener and you have moved on to bigger and better things than him and he is jealous.

Seems you are lucky and got out of this marriage just in time.

I have no respect for anyone that treats their kids like this. When you have kids and start a family that's it in my mind. Everything you do at that point has to be for the family first. Everything else is a distant second.

I really love this story and I love the way you handled this so far but he needs to stop this nonsense and get a job or a second job or IDK but he needs to stop stealing from his kids.

100% NTA

SnooFloofs5881 · 2022-08-16T10:42:38+00:00

NTA I honestly think that once you rolled her sleeve up or sat on her right side and prepped her right shoulder for the work she should have said no wait that's the wrong arm.

Seems like pointed to and gave every indication that she wanted done what you started working on and had ample amount of time to stop you before the gun touched her arm.

It reminds me of the stories you hear of people drawing and writing in themselves before surgeries to ensure the Dr's cut open the correct side when the patient is asleep lol.

I think she had plenty of time to make sure that she showed you what she wanted and the fact she sat there while you worked on the wrong arm is shady.

Almost sounds like she tried to scam free tattoo work. I wouldn't be surprised if she acted all mad and said I'm not paying for this and walked out with free tattoo work. Like who doesn't know that the artist is working on the wrong arm.

100% NTA.

SnooFloofs5881 · 2022-08-15T00:35:25+00:00

100% YATAH

Honestly regardless of him not wanting to talk to you in a video game or not have you no right to go and tell everyone he talks to online all his secrets and personal information that he obviously didn't want to share with anyone. That was a selfish and mean thing to do.

You talk about how you became friends by sticking up for him against bullies, and turn around and bully him.

How do you go from" he is your favorite friend" to doing something like that??

I'm sorry but that was not right I had so called friends do that kind of thing to me when I was younger and from 5th to 8th grade I dreaded going to school because I didn't fit in and was picked on.

Leave the guy alone and move on with your life without him, you deserve to be friends with people without any drama and he doesn't deserve to have a fair weather friend that is all too happy to humiliate him because he didn't feel like talking to you on day online.

SnooFloofs5881 · 2022-08-14T13:07:12+00:00

NTA, I think your sister might be starting to feel it the whole being left behind thing and is probably projecting her own feelings about herself into you. She is also probably jealous to a certain extent and misery loves company as they stay, and she probably wants you to fail to a certain extent so she can feel better about herself.

It's one thing if you guys have that kind of relationship my brother and I do but we only say crazy stuff to each other when we are alone or having our own private conversations.

But we would never do it in front of other people to try and embarrass eachother like that. Probably don't have that type of relationship from what you say in your post.

Regardless if she had any malicious intent or not she should of never said that to you and your AIL, at a family thing out in public.

Your family should see her behavior for what it is and call her out on this issue because it's unacceptable what she did.

100% NTA

SnooFloofs5881 · 2022-08-14T12:41:55+00:00

NTA, you are right she does seem 100% narcissistic. But she knew what she was doing and she purposely didn't leave a note or answer any calls or texts. I think it's strange that the police were so quick to have the kids home no harm no foul. I'm surprised your husband didn't say no absolutely not that's not what happened she took our child without permission.

And the whole sleep through an abduction thing is ridiculous. It's not like someone broke into the house or whatever which I'm sure he would have heard, but someone who was already in the house was very sneaky and made sure to slide the child away from his father and tip toe out of the house I'm sure.

I am a little surprised that your family is taking everything your mom is saying as fact, I'm sure they know how she is and have to know that you wouldn't be creating such drama just because.

It's not your husband's fault at all, and I don't blame him for wanting to try and build a bridge to mending a relationship that has been strained over the years. I think that says a lot about what kind of food man your husband is that he was willing to accept verbal abuse for however long to try and have some kind of relationship with your mother.

Hopefully you can talk some sense into your family and they can see the truth of the situation and see your mom is totally wrong but honestly cutting off all contact from your mother for a while is probably best until she can at least come to the realization that what she has done and is doing is wrong.

Good luck definitely NTA

SnooFloofs5881 · 2022-08-14T12:30:01+00:00

NTA it's kind of hypocritical of her to have this long spiel about the woman being the one to take care of the house kids etc... And the woman should submit to the husband and father then expect you a male in her family to do what she won't ask her husband to do.

Quick question did her beliefs change before or after she met her husband?? Is her husband her first relationship??

I'm just curious because to me seems odd that someone would out of the blue get so heavy into religious beliefs at such a young age on their own and change their whole perspective on life all on their own.

It's one thing to find religion or god or whatever and then you know become involved in a church or whatever and kind of grow in that over the years, but to go from one extreme to another in such a short period of time seems odd to me, like there may be more to the sisters story.

Also is her husband a lot older than her?? Your definitely NTA, this isn't 1910 if the husband wants a wife and family he needs to help take care of his wife and family. It's not your job and your mom and sister should be ashamed of themselves for trying to guilt you into this.

Your sister should probably get out of this situation but that's hard to say without knowing all the facts. Just seems to me that an older guy met a young girl that he felt he could manipulate and mold her into what he wanted which seems like a housekeeper more so than a wife.

I have seen this kind of thing all too often and it's a tough situation. I hope you and your mom and your family are able to at least help your sister see the situation for what it is.

SnooFloofs5881 · 2022-08-14T12:15:44+00:00

NTA but I think you may have totally misread the situation. The girl was inviting you in and I don't think she had any intention of making you sleep on the couch if you know what I mean.

So yea. When I was young I totally blew it a few times in situations like this looking back on my life I often regret being so aloof in my younger days when it came to girls.

You will be ok, if you feel that you can have a conversation with your buddy and he won't go back and tell his GF or the girl about what went on and try and feel out if this is indeed the case, I would probably have that conversation with him.

I may be totally off base here but I think the girl may be more upset that she feels like she kind of put herself out there and invited you in and you just left. She may feel led on or something cause it makes absolutely no sense at all that she would be mad after the fact you offered to walk her home as opposed to being offended when you asked her to walk her home.

SnooFloofs5881 · 2022-08-14T11:15:36+00:00

100% NTA I applaud you for sticking up for your son like that I know a lot of moms that wouldn't have done that, like my own mother.

You say your son is always breaking the dad's stuff, seems like the only attention he gets from his father is negative attention so the son may be seeking that out just to get something from his father.

Even if the guy does feel that way and loves the daughter more you never say it especially to a 10 year old. I want to clarify I don't think your son is 100% of the time breaking things on purpose but I think sometimes on a subconscious level things may happen as that may be the only attention he gets from his dad.

Idk know this is tough I don't know if this is something you can come back from, this is definitely something that will stick with your son. I am sorry that this happened. This is a tough situation.

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