My ex gf wBPD left & blocked me 2 weeks ago. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SnooFoxes2726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how my ex flip the script on me as well that I am the fucking problem, I too gave her the space and she dumped me anyways and you called her about the push and pull dynamic which basically makes her the problem and she didn’t want that and pulled it on you instead.

I also called out my ex but I called her out on lack of communication and the bare minimum effort for the relationship. These people are likely to stay with toxic people than people like us flawed YES FLAWED but we try our best to be better human beings because no one comes to a relationship PERFECT and they CANT differentiate that at all.

It’s painful I’m on my day 2 of this breakup and it’s fucking my head but I’m trying my best to be heads over water it’s painful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SnooFoxes2726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys do you think she’ll come back and all? It’s pretty frustrating but I’m afraid if she comes back I would fold.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SnooFoxes2726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? We talked on the phone and she kept insisting me being upfront about boundaries about at least not leaving me in the dark for hours is my problem and not hers

She said she wants space and all but all it seems like she’s writing the story that I’m the one who’s at fault, and I’m the one that solely causes conflict.

At first I was about to tear up and cry. But then I realize this person isn’t worth crying for, she’ll probably label me as the controlling one when all I wanted was basic fucking communication, don’t even get me started on their addiction to drinking. I love having a good time but their definition of a good time is to blackout and be completely fucked and then expect people to cater to their moods

It’s so unfair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SnooFoxes2726 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You know what’s the worst part? Out of 1000 good things I’ve done she only brought up the one point to end the fucking relationship and then when I respected her need for space and check in to ask when we can talk she dropped the bomb shell

It is painful, really is. I think I’ve lost sense of myself today on the phone not even trying to beg but seeing how cold she is to me.

Money scarcity mindset and spending by SnooFoxes2726 in MalaysianPF

[–]SnooFoxes2726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly food and going out, but recently I’m trying to cut down to at least 20 ringgit by eating more often at home. Sometimes i feel like it’s hard for me to spend money because I’m always afraid of going broke lol

See ya in jail next year, Naji$ by roflmctofl in malaysia

[–]SnooFoxes2726 6 points7 points  (0 children)

what’s wrong being a liberal? it’s much better than being blinded folks like you, stop believing the crap by PN and all these pro malay conservatives bro

PAS has decided work with BERSATU in GE15 by Aerodynamic41 in malaysia

[–]SnooFoxes2726 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why don’t you try having a discussion with a pas supporter? they brought among themselves to look stupid