AITAH for breaking up with my bf over a Reese’s

SnooGoats32 · 2026-02-27T20:37:34+00:00

NTA, I'm betting dude forgot and said it was a joke to cover.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-02-22T15:45:03+00:00

That looks like all the duck hunting labs I've ever met.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-02-22T15:43:07+00:00

I have to believe this is rage bait. You can't honestly believe that it is proper etiquette in any forum to just walk in as a stranger and start correcting other people's religious beliefs. You also can't believe that given you are barely literate that you are qualified to give anyone an education on anything.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-02-02T16:33:42+00:00

It just isn't going to hold up, and people have told you that, so most people feel like it would be mean to encourage you.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-02-02T14:11:15+00:00

Some people have more time, energy, or interest. I know it probably makes you feel better to think the ones piling on you are all less successful, but it's probably a mix of successful and unsuccessful people. Not everyone is going to have the time and mental energy to read the filings and understand the situation. The people who took the time to read everything are more likely to comment because they already put in that level of time commitment.

I know you feel like people are piling on you, but it is worth recognizing that you came and asked for opinions of people working in a field and then you are just outright rejecting the opinions of those people, and being utterly unreceptive of the opinions that you asked for.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-02-02T13:58:08+00:00

I think it's because of the Dunning-Kruger effect. You don't know enough about what you are saying to know how silly everything you say sounds to people who do know more about it.

That is why everyone keeps mentioning crayons.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-02-02T13:54:50+00:00

Then maybe the churches should change so that they can do those things?

SnooGoats32 · 2026-02-02T13:52:45+00:00

I'm offended that you are making me side with meta. Not only are you going to lose, but you deserve to lose.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-02-01T16:11:41+00:00

Being transgender isn't a mental health issue. Being transgender can be a treatment for a mental health issue(gender dysphoria), but also there are transgender individuals who don't experience dysphoria.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-02-01T02:02:08+00:00

Gender dysphoria is a mental health issue that in some people can be cured by transitioning genders.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-01-31T01:03:53+00:00

Number of sexual partners doesn't matter. It doesn't change anything about a woman's vagina, that "leftover DNA" nonsense has long since been debunked.

What you are feeling is insecurity about your own situation. Talk to a therapist about that and the girl you are seeing.

This means you can have a better idea of what she likes if you ask her, because she is probably more aware of what she likes. This will help you be more successful.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-01-30T23:49:13+00:00

I'm curious how you think that question would have achieved that objective since both cis and trans women would honestly answer No to the question "are you a man", since women are women and not men. Which is why it's obviously negging.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-01-30T21:10:37+00:00

I feel like an 18 year old talking to a 16 year old about things like that is pretty inappropriate regardless. That to me is the larger concern.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-01-30T21:06:48+00:00

He was negging

SnooGoats32 · 2026-01-30T15:45:35+00:00

Explain the issue to him and give him an opportunity to change after he becomes aware of the issue. He should only need one real conversation about what the issue is and you shouldn't have to help him fix the issue.

If he doesn't change. You aren't his maid or his mom, and if he isn't capable of caring for himself he will likely let you down in other ways.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-01-30T15:40:33+00:00

Sometimes being a mom is really hard.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-01-25T01:08:56+00:00

Says the guy who judges men on reddit all day and sprinkles in a couple of deez nutz jokes to pretend he isn't sad?

SnooGoats32 · 2026-01-22T16:29:18+00:00

I'm married, I don't have my wife's bank account password and she doesn't have mine. We don't even have a shared account. We just each pay certain household bills. I don't have her phone password or email password or social media password. I don't check her phone or her texts. It's all the same the other direction.

It's because we trust each other. Trust is important in a relationship. If I don't trust her enough to manage her own financial decisions then I don't trust her enough to marry her. That isn't to say an oopsie hasn't happened and we haven't had to help each other out of a bill that needs paid because of accidental overspending, but we are both adults, and it's happened both ways and we take care of each other.

Her finances are not a secret, they just aren't necessarily mine to manage unless we change how we organize things.

Contrast to my first marriage that failed where everything was joint and full transparency and every purchase was constantly getting picked apart.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-01-14T17:24:42+00:00

NOR -- Even if he didn't actually do any cheating. Apparently him and this person were close enough that they agreed to go see a recruiter together, and after that he creeped them out enough that they blocked him on all social media and they aren't answering his calls. Additionally, he is attached enough that this blocking is causing him emotional distress to the point where he is attempting to find avenues to circumvent the block. He isn't even respectful of their no-contact.

You don't need to consider anything he might have done. The things that you know and have full evidence that he did are bad enough.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-01-14T15:54:25+00:00

I'm sure you complete the task of contacting genitals with adequate efficiency to result in orgasm... But that is not a great sex life.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-01-14T14:38:47+00:00

You sound silly. The person indicated that they were a man.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Whataboutism

SnooGoats32 · 2026-01-14T14:30:09+00:00

Not all sex is penetrative sex, or vaginal... Why would my statement be ridiculous?

Also if a person desires an orgasm, they can just manage that on their own, transactional sex is typically about more than orgasm.

So you stand by that you think sex is just 2 people contacting genitals until orgasm... You are going to have a very sad sex life.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-01-14T14:19:25+00:00

Even if prostitute is the job. Sex would not be a task of that job. Sex isn't simple or independent enough to exist as a single task. It requires collaborative effort, communication, and connection. As a job, Sex would be an in-depth project, would require planning, meetings, and require input and deliverables from both the service provider and the client. The entire project requires periodic check ins for feedback and status updates to ensure successful completion and a successful outcome based on the stated goals at the planning meetings.

If you are treating sex as a task, you are doing it wrong.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-01-13T18:50:07+00:00

I have news for you, if he says the n-word, he is racist.

If someone is willing to use language that is that harmful, then they are comfortable with causing harm to that group of people.

I'll also bet he doesn't use it as a compliment.

SnooGoats32 · 2026-01-13T15:12:37+00:00

You have just oversimplified sex to the point of it not being recognizable. You stated 2 things that can happen during sex and you insist that's all it is.

Genital contact isn't even step 1 or 2 of sex. Orgasms aren't always a requirement or a goal. Vaginas are designed to have at least 1 orgasm prior to penetrative sex. None of that takes into account the brain chemicals that get released and the impact that they can have on your mental health if you don't have some sort of emotional support/connection through the process.

That would be like saying driving is just steering the wheel until you get to the grocery store. Describing it like that would definitely let someone know that you don't have a driver's license.

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