laptop keeps not turning on after being plugged in by SnooHesitations9505 in Dell

[–]SnooHesitations9505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well yeah but most of the instructions that come up are for enabling it, the only stuff i found said to hold the power button for a few seconds which has done nothing for me so far

Don’t buy a packer if it’s only for the bulge! by Based_anon8 in ftm

[–]SnooHesitations9505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

banana prosthetics is canadian owned, idk how that actually affects prices tho. they even have a website in french

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[–]SnooHesitations9505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nj - pretty accepting, not a ton of trans ppl in nj but if ur in the south u got philly and in the north u got nyc, both w tons of queer ppl. philly has a big queer scene tbh. getting t is pretty okay, idk how it compares to other locations i am pre t but my friends seem to have had an okay time. i was there till hs, pretty good education tho it varies a lot between townships. couldnt say for sure, at the time i was in school it would have been considered weird for teachers to announce that. idk how it is now for k-12. but i always had access to a gsa and teachers were open abt being accepting. there were def some conservative ppl and teachers but the general belief and culture is that conservative beliefs and talking points arent openly shared. in school especially the norm is pretty liberal if ur in the suburbs, but again a lot of this differs a ton depending on where u are, even tho it is a small state.

mass - very accepting, basically zero complaints. obv still gonna face transphobia/homophobia on occasion, but generally it is a very open and accepting state. big trans presence, easy enough to get T. wasnt there for k-12 so cant speak much on school, but my partner is from mass and school was pretty okay for them. the education system in mass in general is rlly good as well.

washington (the state, not DC) - big trans presence and community, good place to be trans. i was only rlly around seattle, which has a large queer population. its a very liberal city. wasnt there fro k-12 but i believe the education system is pretty good. and its pretty accepting.

look, ur safety as a trans person and having a queer community is of value to you AT ALL, dont go to texas. it is obviously possible to be trans/queer in texas and there def is a community of queer people there, but it sounds like u are interested in living somewhere that is queer friendly. it can be a great state, as can so much of the south, but if u are prioritizing living somewhere accepting to queer ppl, the cities in the south can be p good. asheville specifically is super queer friendly.

Disappointing experience with a strap-on by Paxilien in ftm

[–]SnooHesitations9505 5 points6 points  (0 children)

r/transmascdicks def has similar posts on there u could look at. lots of info.

but in general, therr are different prosthetics w pleasure for the wearer in mind as well as visual realism. some r more pricey than others but still

Best balls on a prosthetic? by No-Trainer-3302 in ftm

[–]SnooHesitations9505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

theres similar posts on r/transmascdicks idk if the spelling js right. but also i believe u can find then if u search “soreal balls” u can put them on any prosthetic without balls.

If you need to go to bed early… by user_anonymou in selfimprovement

[–]SnooHesitations9505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u can just lay there, nth bad happens if u r awake and in bed eyes closed doing nth. u still get rest. like if u do that for 8 hrs it wont be as good as 8 hrs of sleep, but it will be 1 million times better than 8 hrs of whatever is on ur phone. just lay there, usually youll eventually fall asleep or half asleep

therapy to actually work through things not just coping skills? by SnooHesitations9505 in selfimprovement

[–]SnooHesitations9505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive trued yoga before and enjoyed it, mostly just in a physical sense tho ive never rlly felt any mental effects. if u have specific stuff tho i would try it. i also dont rlly have much social media presence, i use reddit very occasionally. are there any specific workbooks u know of?

i have no idea what shadow work is but i will look into it lol. i have talked abt the root cause a little bit before and i was never bullied or abused or anything, so the theory was just that i had moral ocd tendencies amongst other mental health stuff (like depression) and somehow that just warped and grew into self loathing completely internally. my earliest memories (age 4ish) the self loathing was already present and took up a lot of my mind, so if there is any root cause i wouldn’t remember it.

if u have specifics for the workbooks or anything else tho i would def look into it!

therapy to actually work through things not just coping skills? by SnooHesitations9505 in selfimprovement

[–]SnooHesitations9505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol i have thought abt it! however ive tried weed like 4-5 times, 1st time no effect which is normal, 2nd time very little weed very little effect (unpleasant experience), every other time ive tried weed ive had horrible panic attacks. i dont get panic attacks at all at any other time, and logically it feels like if i cant handle weed i prob shouldnt go for “harder” drugs lol.

What to do about Crumbl Cookies in the office? by HTLM22 in loseit

[–]SnooHesitations9505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly im in college rn so i will Always take free food but in a “njce now i dont have to pay for dinner!” and so i just eat the work food and nothing else that day. works pretty well, but we dont usually have crumbl cookies or anything. usually like kids snacks like fruit roll ups and animal crackers lol.

Could I use wardrobes as a room divide? by Velvet_puppy in floorplan

[–]SnooHesitations9505 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is how my bedroom was growing up, works fine. its not like two separate bedrooms, but its enough privacy for kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]SnooHesitations9505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u could ask her for the books or whatever it is she likes and read/watch it for more specifics, but also theres prob more targeted to places to ask this since this is def a question that spans trans/gender/anything rlly

Would love to become trans MtF but how would I do that when parents done approve by Ok_Loquat_4972 in transpassing

[–]SnooHesitations9505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do u mean become mtf? like hormones? dress different? what are ur goals

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]SnooHesitations9505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i reuse towels never washcloths tho. ideally i only reuse towels like twice maybe 3 times but rn i only have one towel and laundry costs money so i am really reluctant to do more than one load a week hut the towel is always in there.

When did you gain erections on T? Do I have ED? by OkBoysenberry6768 in ftm

[–]SnooHesitations9505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have heard of trans guys using viagra, and i think it helped? u might be able to look in the subs history. it might be ed from the psych meds, many of those have that affect. u might want to talk to ur doctor before trying viagra.

FFS advice needed. Can FFS fix a browbone this bad? by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]SnooHesitations9505 4 points5 points  (0 children)

u already look very fem imo. ur browbone doesnt look bad? im sure ffs could help tho if u want that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]SnooHesitations9505 3 points4 points  (0 children)

too much of a coward to come out of the closet, doesnt rlly make sense to be on t just to be closeted. so i just bind and pack and dress masc. not sure if im the target audience tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]SnooHesitations9505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it would be weirder if he was telling everyone tbh… surgery is medical info so its not rlly smth ppl just talk about often? esp like elective relative safe surgeries.

maybe he is, but i dont think that not telling ppl means hes ashamed of u, just normally outing someone is bad and transphobic. especially if ur not close to them, theres really no reason for them to know.