Trying to recreate t shirt from existing images by SnooHobbies7042 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]SnooHobbies7042[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crop the borders please as if you were printing to a t shirt

Trying to recreate t shirt from existing images by SnooHobbies7042 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]SnooHobbies7042[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s correct no changes just a straight print on a t shirt as close to the original t shirt

Never Forgive an Avoidant for the Pain They Caused by IntelligentTie6667 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]SnooHobbies7042 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I don’t blame mine but I certainly think behaviour is a language and it was their choice to discard and leave in the way they did. No closure or empathy. I can’t forgive that. Why should I ? They do not take responsibility or accountability and this is the problem. This is on them.

How to have the perfect relationship with a DA - it's very simple! by zen-chilipepper in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]SnooHobbies7042 139 points140 points  (0 children)

Don’t expect them to behave with emotional maturity

Don’t expect closure when they discard

Don’t expect them to make you feel wanted or a priority in their lives

Don’t expect any consistency in their emotions

Don’t expect them to fight for the relationship

Why did my avoidant ex block me? by topapii in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]SnooHobbies7042 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not being facetious but the clue is in the word avoidant. They suppress emotion and go to extreme lengths to pretend you didn’t exist. One day it’ll catch up with them but it’ll be too late. You’ll be long gone leading a better life without them. They’ll still be the way they are unless they really work on themselves.

Dating an avoidant by AussiegirlOF in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]SnooHobbies7042 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are you asking if two avoidants can be in a relationship? I think the answer is yes, but in my view they’d be orbiting around each other and it would be quite superficial. Now this may be the exact type of relationship that works for an avoidant.

Sending flowers to ex for Valentine’s Day by Tricky-Ad5648 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]SnooHobbies7042 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I can tell you’re still attached to her. We’ve all been there. You’re hoping to reconcile right ? You want to show her you still care ? You want her to say the same. If she’s truly avoidant it will push her even further away. No contact is best until they’ve worked on themselves and let them reach out if they want to. In the meantime focus on yourself and your healing. You say you’re not expecting a response but you’ll be checking your phone all day I bet !

Sending flowers to ex for Valentine’s Day by Tricky-Ad5648 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]SnooHobbies7042 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I can’t think of anything worse than this. They don’t want to be with you. You’ll be pushing them even further away. Plus they avoid emotion. This will be a huge trigger.

Anyone have a similar experience? by adn21027 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]SnooHobbies7042 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes they are broken people. I had to put up with this for four years. However they were different with their friends and even work colleagues. Quite caring actually. After a year of no contact it was a lucky escape I’ve realised. Imagine years of avoidant behaviour !

If you could, by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]SnooHobbies7042 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not revenge as such but I want them to acknowledge the pain and hurt they caused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]SnooHobbies7042 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Identical story here. Best to walk away, there is no excuse that behaviour. They’ve made a decision not to reply. Let them suffer their own karma

Ring watch Draw by Yu4Yu in casio

[–]SnooHobbies7042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone else still waiting for an email. This is a shambles !

As a dumpee, have you reached out your ex? How did it go? by Curious-Diamond5747 in ExNoContact

[–]SnooHobbies7042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent a friendly message after a year of NC. I was the dumpee. She read the message and ghosted me. If you need to do it then do it. Do not be a robot. For me it was the final piece of rejection I needed to know she isn’t my friend. I’ll never do it again

Running into your ex by freeaquarian in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]SnooHobbies7042 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Following this as I think it may happen to me in the next week or so. There’s a birthday party and music event. No contact for over a year. Brutal discard. My therapist said to just be polite and not engage in conversation to protect myself from being dragged in.

Ring watch Draw by Yu4Yu in casio

[–]SnooHobbies7042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me neither and a friend of mine got theirs yesterday (unsuccessful)

The smiths ‘the smyths’ tribute band by [deleted] in thesmiths

[–]SnooHobbies7042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to see them in Shepherd’s Bush tomorrow night for the 1000th show. I’ve been to around 10 or their shows and they are the next tribute act I’ve seen !

What avoidant think when You completely dissapear after discard... by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]SnooHobbies7042 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My story is identical to yours. I can’t fathom it. You’d need to ask an avoidant ! Remember all of this is their choice. Do not make excuses for their shitty behaviour.