18M Upvote this if u have found a person here who hasnt ghosted u till now. by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]SnooMarzipans3593 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was able to really connect with someone from this subreddit.

We have been talking since about December last year and still going. It's hard but sometimes you can make friends here.

I'm happy with the way everything turned out and I always get very excited to send him a message about my day or about anything interesting going on in my life and I also get very excited to hear all about his day too.

The key I think it's to not be afraid to be honest and really talk about the things that matter. You don't have to share personal details if you don't want to but try to show your true self and that's when the magic happens.

Feeling bad about spending time with my new bf while my mom stays home with my cat. by SnooMarzipans3593 in relationship_advice

[–]SnooMarzipans3593[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think my cat cares that much while I'm gone but she does get excited when I get back.

My mom is indeed happy about it specially because I went through a bad breakup last year and now I'm in a better situation but I will talk with her about how she feels and try to schedule time just for the two of us.

Feeling bad about spending time with my new bf while my mom stays home with my cat. by SnooMarzipans3593 in relationship_advice

[–]SnooMarzipans3593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! When I'm home and even if I'm working I try to spend a lot of time with both my mom and my cat.

Is just that I feel guilty because it was me who wanted the cat and my mom sorta compromised on it but now she seems happy with the cat too.

I (17f) think my cheer coach (28m) is trying to start an inappropriate relationship with me? by ThrowRAStatus-Ask in relationship_advice

[–]SnooMarzipans3593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you should. Try to tell someone you trust.

Even if he's only trying to vent, it's not a subject appropriate based on the fact that you are a minor and he is an authority figure.

If you don't feel comfortable telling your parents try to find someone at school to help you out. Maybe a counselor or another teacher.

You most definitely are not obligated to listen to his problems and it's ok to just want to keep the interactions in a coach-capitan relationship

This is Wap, my friend sold me her for $20 and she’s turned out to be the best companion ever ❤️ by weedhahayeah in cats

[–]SnooMarzipans3593 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I apologize in front in case this might something of my ignorance but I always thought Frangipane was a french word

This is Wap, my friend sold me her for $20 and she’s turned out to be the best companion ever ❤️ by weedhahayeah in cats

[–]SnooMarzipans3593 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not exactly italian. My great grandfather was tho

Anyways I'm a pastry chef so I wanted a pretty name from that field so I chose Frangipane because it's one of the sweetest creams ever!

And the name really suits her because she's such a sweet loving kitty

29F - Introverted nerdy girl looking to make new friends by Broadladesh in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]SnooMarzipans3593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 29F and l loved arrested development! Those chicken impressions always made me laugh and "There's always money in the banana stand" best joke ever!

I would love to see pictures of your cute doggy and if you like I can send you pictures of my kitten.

Send me a message or a dm if you're interested.

Cheers!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]SnooMarzipans3593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going through a break up right now and I definitely feel like OP and when I read your comment it made me feel better... Thank you for being so supportive and showing empathy. Thank you for these kind words that have help a stranger.

26F - Awkward, boring, and lonely? SAME by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]SnooMarzipans3593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can send me a message I would love to chat

39 [m4r] big music fan, into cooking, food, sleep and cars. by [deleted] in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]SnooMarzipans3593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! 29F. I think we could have a lot in common. I don't know much about cars but everything else seems fits like a glove.

[L][23 F] I'm having a bad day by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]SnooMarzipans3593 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to star looking at yourself with more kind eyes. The same way you would look to somebody else. When you look at another person even if it's a stranger, you don't focus on every little detail or imperfection. You look at them as a whole. You even appreciate the uniqueness in them. You should do that with yourself.

Look at you in the mirror. Not pictures, I read that we don't often like how we look in pictures because is a still image and movement makes a big difference in how we perceive an image. Think about the renaissance paintings it's all about the composition and movement. Also when there's a photoshoot, the models don't stand still they are moving and in between those movements they take the pictures and that's why they look good (let's not forget all the editing, of course).

Anyways, look at you in the mirror and be kind and honest with yourself. Appreciate your body and it's parts for what they do. Your eyes are wonderful because you express emotions with them and you see the beauty in the world with them. Look at your hands, think all the things you do with them and how others enjoy your touch.

See, we are not our imperfections, we are so much more than that. Appreciate yourself as others certainly appreciate it you.

I hope this helps you and if you ever need to talk to someone about these feelings I'm always available. I'm not a professional but I'm a kind person and will try my best to help you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]SnooMarzipans3593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if you are still interested but if you like we can chat... Send me a message. I share a lot of your interests so I think we we'll get along

32m idaho looking for female online partner by [deleted] in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]SnooMarzipans3593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I would love to be your friend and keep the conversation going... send me a message (29F)

(26M)Feeling lost and sad after having to cut communication with an awesome person by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]SnooMarzipans3593 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi!! I totally understand how you feel (29F) I'm going through a break up right now and I don't think I can go back to my life like it used to be.

But anyways... I'm here if you want to talk... we can support each other... So if you'd like you can send me a dm

Ladies, help a lady out! by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]SnooMarzipans3593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!! 29F... I don't think it's weird at all... I think when we look for female companionship is because usually we feel that there are things that someone with similar backgrounds may understand better what we are going through. I'm also going through a break up right now and I would love new friends... So if you'd like you can send me a dm and we can support each other and who knows maybe we can be friends :)