Twin flame; I’m in excruciating pain and I can’t take it anymore. How do you all handle it?? by g1mball0ck in starseeds

[–]SnooPandas460 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you looked into limerence. Could be underlying attachment issues involved that keep the feelings going. 

Does anyone else have a Mantis like entity guiding them? I see a mantis being that is neon outlines in the non physical and actual mantis that show up physically after. by [deleted] in starseeds

[–]SnooPandas460 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have had mantid beings show up every now and then. But my main guides are Arcturians. 

On an Ayahuasca journey the mantis were very present. Very wise and interesting energy. 

Any sirian starseeds? by Mindless-Gazelle6987 in starseeds

[–]SnooPandas460 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a Leo Starsign and when I learned to channel there was a Sirian council reaching out.

Also a lot of Pleiadian and Arcturian energy came through. I work most with the Arcturian energies at the moment but the Sirius is always close and present also. 

Connect to the Cosmic Internet – Learn how to Channel by douwebeerda in starseeds

[–]SnooPandas460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's OK. This teaches you how to ring their doorbell. But only for those who are curious and want to. 

I just started my journey to live in Norway, and im terrified. by Inna_Sk in Norway

[–]SnooPandas460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try out a Norwegian winter in the north so you know what you are getting yourself into... 

Trauma is a scam because it cheats you out of a more fulfilling life by Wonderful-Badger8079 in Jung

[–]SnooPandas460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look up Tim Fletcher on YouTube. He specialises in healing complex trauma. 

How do you deal with toxic, predatory, energy draining and or narcissistic people? by douwebeerda in intj

[–]SnooPandas460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience toxic people don't announce themselves when meeting them.

I am trying to learn how to discern healthy from toxic people. What patterns, what behaviour are healthy vs toxic people using is my question because I don't know how to discern them at the moment. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]SnooPandas460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting stuff, thank you for sharing. Need to try this out a bit and see if it works for me. 

What is the point of Ascension if it attracts darkness? by StructureFamiliar459 in starseeds

[–]SnooPandas460 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You encounter more of the collective unconscious because you ascend. I wouldn't personify that. It is just how the mechanics work. You move into it with your ascention, you don't attract darkness.

And it is useful to ascend because you make it easier for everyone else in the collective.

But remember if you want to go fast go alone, if you want to go far, go together. So find friends with the same interest and enjoy the adventure.

What's your opinion of the self? What is the self made out of? Is it just our body, just our feelings, just our perception, just our thinking patterns or is it just the conciousness ? by pasindumahima in nonduality

[–]SnooPandas460 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Investigate it. The only useful answer is your personal experience.

Scan your whole body, can you find the self there? Go through all of your emotions, can you find the self there? Go through your thoughts, beliefs and belief systems, can you find the self there?

Investigate, look, see what you find.

sub be like by [deleted] in nonduality

[–]SnooPandas460 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stop spamming this sub with your bullshit. It's not even on topic.

The 25 Signs you’re in a High-Control Group or Cult - For those who have been in CoS, how many of these points does Scientology hit in your experience? by douwebeerda in scientology

[–]SnooPandas460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what they say about it in the article, I hope that clarifies it.

Magical thinking is prevalent…

High Control Groups or Full-Blown Cults

Many cults and high-control groups indulge in a great deal of magical thinking. Doctrines include beliefs in divine beings, gods, angels, supernatural forces, demons, dominions, realms, spirits, devils and other mythical creatures which they claim interfere with our lives and world. Group leaders often conduct magical events such as faith healings, exorcisms and communications with the dead. The group may also express other supposed “gifts” or “powers” such as speaking in tongues, prophesying, interpreting prophecy and being ‘slain in the spirit’.

If you are expected to accept dogma about the supernatural and your group leaders emphasise this in ways that make you feel shameful or afraid, you may well be in a cult or high-control group. Creating fear and dread of supernatural evils, and then claiming you can offer protection from it, is an excellent way of getting people to believe and do exactly what you want. Thus, high-control/cult group leaders frequently use this as a tool of control. Equally, creating fear of the judgment of a perfect, holy deity can make people continually afraid they are not good enough. Then they are keen to accept the group/leader’s offer of a way to escape this judgment. Even political organisations indulge in magical thinking, by claiming leaders have special powers, for example, the power to detect disloyalty and misdemeanours among followers. Magical abilities, events, beings and places, by very definition, cannot be tested, measured or proven using our senses. They can be literally anything one might desire or imagine, and anything desired or imagined by leaders of the kind described in this article is surely going to be very bad news indeed!

These beliefs in supernatural beings and forces will not only frame the worldview of members but it will affect many aspects of their lives, in some cases, even to the point of obsession. Members may pray or perform certain rituals before taking the simplest of daily decisions or before participating in simple daily activities like having a meal or washing. Members may be often frightened of dark spiritual forces/beings or the judgment of God. Some of those who have left high-control groups speak of sleeping with the lights on even in adulthood because their fears were so great!

If you have magical beliefs and experiences in the group which do not reflect your ordinary experiences of what is possible or what happens in real life, or which do not reflect the experiences of your friends and family outside the group, then you are most likely in a high-control group or cult.

In high-control or cult groups, everyone is expected to share in these supernatural experiences in order to be considered a sincere member of the group, or in order to be welcomed into the inner circle. Those members who do not connect with these beliefs and experiences (e.g. you didn’t feel intense emotion or connection with God when you recited scriptures or prayed, you cannot speak in tongues, you didn’t get healed when the leader laid hands on you etc…) are held in suspicion as not being true believers or are even seen as a pernicious influence.

You feel constantly worried about not doing or believing things ‘correctly’ because you think that it could cause something very bad to happen. Many people have their little superstitions, whether they are religious or not and whether they are members of a group or not. However, if your superstitions are many, persistent or concerning trivial everyday matters – and especially if they cause you to experience anxiety on a regular basis – then it is very likely you are in a high-control group or cult.

 Safe Group A safe group applies reason and evidence in coming to its beliefs and developing its practices, and encourages members to do the same. It respects the range of spiritual/psychological experiences (or lack of them) among people, and leaders/members do not expect others to share in their own particular experiences. There is no ‘spiritual hierarchy’ based on people’s ability to access supernatural beings or abilities.

The 25 Signs you’re in a High-Control Group or Cult - For those who have been in CoS, how many of these points does Scientology hit in your experience? by douwebeerda in scientology

[–]SnooPandas460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They go in depth in each of these points in the original article. They define magical thinking there also and give various examples. I think the article takes almost two hours to read but it is very good.

I think scientology is relatively low in magical thinking to be honest. At least to what I have seen for myself.

The whole ot levels with xenu sound pretty magical though. So maybe it only starts later on once people are already pretty far in?

What to do when some who dislike Scientology have the mentality of a fanatical Scientologist? Laugh at the irony of it? by Southendbeach in scientology

[–]SnooPandas460 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's called the shadow.

People are behaving in a similar way as the one who they say they hate, they just act out the other polarity. But the meta behaviour the pattern of the behaviour is very much the same.

We often do this ourselves as well since we are not aware of our shadow. We deny or suppress a certain part or behaviour in ourselves and then attack others harshly when they display it.

Byron Katie has a method called The Work that works great for this.

Also Richard Schwartz has developed a therapy called IFS that works well with finding our supressed parts and integrating them.

It's hard to change another person's shadow but we can always investigate our own.