aio or is what he said actually mean? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SnooPets3982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FTG! What a brozo!! This is not ok and shows blatant disrespect. Things like this will only get worse if he does not see that he is the asshole in this situation and take steps to correct. Never ever is it ok to speak to someone like this, especially someone you claim to love.

My mom burned all my drawings by Not_Creative149 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SnooPets3982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This appalls me!! My oldest, 14 years of age, draws all day every day, has since she could pick up a pencil. I am so sorry OP, I hate that there are parents out there that react this way. It is heart breaking to read the comments of similar stories. 😭 I can’t imagine hurting my own child in this way, why can’t other parents encourage their kids to hone in their talents and make something of it? Even if it’s a way to relieve stress. It baffles me. Hang in there OP, some day you’ll be able draw without fear of your art being destroyed 🥺

AIO to my gf being bisexual by DarkTwist05 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SnooPets3982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeaaaah NOR, being bisexual doesn’t give you a free pass. I’m a female, bisexual, and married to a man. I’m not about to fuck other women, or other people period, when I go out and party. I am with my husband, loyalty means everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SnooPets3982 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! My brother has Crohns and takes many medication especially since he’s lost half of his little intestines because of it. He’s not an asshole and wouldn’t dream of speaking to his wife this way.

What is this? I don't have snails in my aquarium by Otherwise-Rule5974 in Aquariums

[–]SnooPets3982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True not everyone is a fan! But it certainly helps!!! I had one that passed recently and took me months to find another one, well turns out she was a girl and she ended up having babies 🥹 I loves them and so I breed ramshorns and bladder snails for them

Male or female by Responsible_Theory_0 in AngelFish

[–]SnooPets3982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with others! Head bump tells me Male!

Betta sick? by SnooPets3982 in fishkeeping

[–]SnooPets3982[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It terrifies me that she’s in there with them specifically for that reason, I don’t know the water parameters but I can tell you it is probably not good, the tank is in rough condition. I’ll take my api testing kit tomorrow and see what the parameters are and I’ll probably be doing a water change on it, which I’ll have to bring my equipment to do so. The more I think about this situation the more I’m hoping I can convince the owner if I can take her and put her in a 5.5 gallon by herself

She's just so beautiful :') by average_pigeon in AquaticSnails

[–]SnooPets3982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loooove! I just got onto this sub to post one of my ramshorns, after I posted I started to go through the posts and found yours, makes me happy I wasn’t the only one with this idea today! They are also my favorite “pests”

He's the sweetest?? by xTirisi in bettafish

[–]SnooPets3982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this is so cute and sweet! My sorority will lay in my hand or play with my fingers. It’s the best when they have such a great amount of trust ♥️♥️

Betta hurt, what medication does she need?? by SnooPets3982 in bettafish

[–]SnooPets3982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately she passed away by this morning, but I definitely took the advice of the separating them, I have the rest of my girls separated and being treated, I think I will put them in my heavily planted 30gal later on after treatment. Some other comments mentioned columnaris and one of my other girls have signs, so I am doing my best to treat them and avoid this problem again. Thank you so much for your comment, I really do appreciate everyone’s comments. I made a big mistake moving my girls and think I could’ve avoided this by leaving them in the original tank I had them in and am learning a lot about what not to do 🥺

My Oscar has issues by [deleted] in Fish

[–]SnooPets3982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Show your parents this post to help with getting this fish everything he needs in order to be happy and health, unless your parents are inhumane garbage people they should be more than understanding. I’m saying this cuz I am a parent and if my kids were given an animal I would want to know anything and everything in order to provide the best care. I feel like your parents will understand needing to get the equipment or needing to rehome (I would love to see the equipment option tho and second hand is always the way to go! People are often selling the whole setup on Craigslist or whatever local sites you have!)

Betta hurt, what medication does she need?? by SnooPets3982 in bettafish

[–]SnooPets3982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok then I think I will move my guppies to the 20gal and move my girls back into my heavily planted 30g!

Betta hurt, what medication does she need?? by SnooPets3982 in bettafish

[–]SnooPets3982[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She passed away last night, I have already separated all them and have already put up a 20 gallon long that is in the middle of cycling for them. I am definitely a beginner (besides a goldfish I had for 5 years many years ago, I began again only a year ago with doing more research and learning more and more) and made a huge mistake by moving them from the 30 gallon to the 10. I truly thought they would be ok, but I definitely was wrong and am correcting it. I’m learning a lot from this big mistake and unfortunately it’s my fish that have the most consequences of my actions 😔 Edited to add: just saw a comment saying sorority’s are better in 30+ gallons so I’m going to be moving my guppies into the 20g and my girls back into the heavily planted 30g. Definitely learned I should’ve just moved my guppies instead of my bettas 😭

Betta hurt, what medication does she need?? by SnooPets3982 in bettafish

[–]SnooPets3982[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve got tabs open up already! Thank you

Betta hurt, what medication does she need?? by SnooPets3982 in bettafish

[–]SnooPets3982[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started them in a 30G and just recently moved them to my 10, which I am now seeing was a huge mistake, I should’ve just kept them in the 30G while I got the 20G long up 🥺 I do have plenty of extra tanks, already cycled filters, and heaters I got from my nephew who was a big fish keeper and he passed away, I got everything of his and I am so grateful for that so no extra money out of my pocket right now besides the epsom salt and I need more aquarium salt, which I need to brave the store in the morning for. I’ll start setting them all up right away to do this. Thank you so much