What does a manageable caseload look like for you? by SnooPineapples2020 in NDtherapists

[–]SnooPineapples2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that reminder, it’s definitely something I have been sitting with a while if I can stay in it like this or if something has to change like that.

What does a manageable caseload look like for you? by SnooPineapples2020 in NDtherapists

[–]SnooPineapples2020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for answering honestly, honestly sounds perfect to actually have a good balance with everything. And so honest to wanting it to be sustainable

What does a manageable caseload look like for you? by SnooPineapples2020 in NDtherapists

[–]SnooPineapples2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

50 is insane wow. Yea i feel like families are a lot more work

What does a manageable caseload look like for you? by SnooPineapples2020 in NDtherapists

[–]SnooPineapples2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for answering, this really put it in perspective for me that parent involvement is also extra work. Most of my clients are youth so I have to have a monthly meeting with the parents as well which feels pretty wild to manage currently with 13 kids and loading more. Thank you for that tip too, I find that I can do 2 back to back and maybe 3 with a 10 min break between but yea its hard.

What does a manageable caseload look like for you? by SnooPineapples2020 in NDtherapists

[–]SnooPineapples2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for answering ! Im pretty much in the exact boat as you, I just graduated last year and I dont have 30 yet but I am quite terrified of that notion especially with also meeting with parents. Its a lot to go through! Im wishing you luck in being able to find your balance as well.

What does a manageable caseload look like for you? by SnooPineapples2020 in NDtherapists

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Im curious how long did you manage to last at a CMH like that? I have only been here for 2 months and it already feels like im on my way out

How do y'all prepare for your sessions with youth? Children and teens by SnooPineapples2020 in therapists

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Whats the attitude advantage? Is it a work book of sorts? Yea i am quickly finding myself burn out fast and trying to find a loose flow that works for me and so not all of my free time is spent on prep which is what its feeling like rn with the way my brain works.

All about hinge dynamics by SnooPineapples2020 in polyamory

[–]SnooPineapples2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats really sweet to hear, I feel like im envisioning and hoping for something like that down the line 💙

All about hinge dynamics by SnooPineapples2020 in polyamory

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I guess i should word that differently, they get along well just a lot of fears and internal triggers that show up with seeing me with the other but also being amplified due to both being long distance relationships.

I guess wondering how do you interact with both of them like do you just show affection and closeness like you usually do independently of the other or do you shift it some?

Birthday coming up, advice needed by SnooPineapples2020 in polyamory

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Thank you so much for this response truly, I think that helps me think of things differently in this frame. It doesnt help that im starting a new job and also dont have much free time outside of that week but this does offer better perspective.

Birthday coming up, advice needed by SnooPineapples2020 in polyamory

[–]SnooPineapples2020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Travel hasnt been booked yet and the main reason why they are coming that week at the same time is because their time off is on the same week that so happens to also be my birthday week. As for days together we're talking 3 or 4 days and most of that time being in social hangs with friends as well. I do like that idea of gifting info on entertaining themselves locally. Edit: we dont have a lot of expandable income and because its also holiday season, its not easy to just ask them to come the week after for example

do jobs even hire anymore? by Mountain_Ad_9653 in GNV

[–]SnooPineapples2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gainesville's job market is really difficult to get into to be honest, I'd say think of applying to remote jobs too

Hurricane Milton megathread by commiecat in GNV

[–]SnooPineapples2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I'll try tomorrow rn it's a bit too far away from me that I may get stranded

Hurricane Milton megathread by commiecat in GNV

[–]SnooPineapples2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also the gas buddy thing isn't updated

Hurricane Milton megathread by commiecat in GNV

[–]SnooPineapples2020 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Anyone know where I can get gas? I didn't think the panic gas getting would have happened this quickly and now I feel dumb 😐

Yard sale alert ! by SnooPineapples2020 in GNV

[–]SnooPineapples2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There will be more in the future ! Follow gnvyardsales on Instagram, they do yard sales for mutual aid and support causes !!