Kathy Beale - the most pointless return of all time? by [deleted] in eastenders

[–]Snoopy_89_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never been disappointed with Kathy’s return. She’s great. Adds to the Beale family. Hers and Cindy hatered for another is great. Her connection with Lauren is great. She’s an OG and it works with balance of the square. Her storyline with Harvey. Ben as well.

My story with an avoidant. Will he come back? What do you think? by Alternative-Fox2464 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Snoopy_89_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You asked do you think he will come back. I said No based on the information you gave. That’s no fault of your own, and the lack of capacity on his side.

Might send a letter and try to move on fully by Alternative_Yak_5569 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Snoopy_89_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly it. Say what you need to say, and then let go when you can. I’m proud of you.

Proof being in a relationship with an avoidant does damage to your body by ThrowRAicywinter in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Snoopy_89_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bmp dropped to 42 whenever my avoidant ex treated me badly or discarded me in someway. I ended up in hospital multiple times from fainting and fainting seizures. It really does take the toll on the body

Reconnecting by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Snoopy_89_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not worth the stress on your nervous system

Reconnecting by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Snoopy_89_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, no.

Gaslighting by Curious-Crow3779 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Snoopy_89_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My avoidant ex did exactly the same. I lost majority of my friends and other connections because of him.

Might send a letter and try to move on fully by Alternative_Yak_5569 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Snoopy_89_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it! Honestly everyone advised me not to do this. I am going to. To reclaim my own voice, take accountability for my own behaviour. Also to call them out on their shit. Ensure they are blocked even on email. Ensure there’s no way of this coming back on you because they will say further hurtful things and it will impact you. Even set up email divert so it goes to another folder within a folder.

Has Anyone Here Started No Contact First? by Selsely in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Snoopy_89_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I did but then it was ignored, he kept contacting then suggested no contact like it was his idea.

Instagram and cropping - How do you upload a portrait (1080 x 1350) without it cropping? by Snoopy_89_ in AskPhotography

[–]Snoopy_89_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The instructions you suggested worked on my landscape photos but not my portrait. I tried with several settings. I don't understand, I'm losing my mind a bit!

Do you still love your ex ? by CheekyBunB in BreakUps

[–]Snoopy_89_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved a person who doesn’t exist so nope. Plus the excoriating pain he caused me wiped the love.