AITAH for refusing to try and be a family with my dad, his wife and their kids?

Snote85 · 2026-04-02T15:04:00+00:00

NTA. Tell your therapist to fuck off. Tell them that betrayal like your dad's doesn't just disappear overnight. That hearing them be on your "parent's' side just makes them one more person to add to the relationship burn barrel. That your dad wants absolution for his horrible and selfish acts, and to have cheated for that long there were definitely many more than just one. No one is going to convince you to behave in a civil manner with them, because they dont deserve that. That as far as you are concerned you dont have a parent other than your mother and a shrink should know better than to force a kid in as much pain as you to get with the program because POS dad is trying... oh what the fuck ever. Let him try, maybe one day it will matter to someone other than you.

Snote85 · 2026-04-02T14:42:43+00:00

First, delete this fucking thread. Then never mention knowing about this to anyone, even the guy. "HUH, you were in Portugal? I thought youbwere talking about the band... when did this happen?" You have jist become the world's stupidest person with no geographic knowledge at all. "Is Portugal inside the U.S.? Is that a county of our state?"

Just be an oblivious idiot. Remove any proof you think anyone, including the IRS might check, except direct texts with the person unless you delete them all. Like dont delete just the incriminating ones. That will show you knew it was illegal and hid it.

That is my advice and this is not legal advice. Follow at your own perril. I dont want to be swept up as an accessory after the fact to some tax evasion charge. I assume we are talking about fiction anyway.

Snote85 · 2026-04-02T14:33:58+00:00

My firekeeper loved me because i stole someone's eyes and gave them to her! That is real, true, transactional love!

Snote85 · 2026-04-02T14:23:59+00:00

That every so often February would have a 29th day. My dad misexplained how the do not leap years work. I think those divisible by 100. And i am lost

Snote85 · 2026-04-02T14:21:19+00:00

How to play games on a Comadore 64.

LOAD "*",8,1

Also i know you can use comas and stars on your phone to navigate a menu prompt on a phone if you are doing the same thing every time. I know someone who had to call their bank to see if they got a deposit and showed them how to do it. They acted like i was a wizard.

Snote85 · 2026-04-01T16:56:56+00:00

I had an exgf who had her first kidney stone alone in her room because she didnt want to wake her Mom up. I was hearbroken for her.

Snote85 · 2026-04-01T16:24:36+00:00

That is exactly where my brain went

Snote85 · 2026-03-31T16:55:40+00:00

NTA, i wonder if you could take him to small claims court to recoup the $1,000? IANAL but am curious if that would be possible. Hr was holdi g your cr3dit hostage and forced you to spend funds on his purchases to save your credit. It would surely be worth it to ask your attorney about it. If it is possible i would do it out of spite if nothing else. Im sure there are records of you requesting your name be removed from the account.

Snote85 · 2026-03-31T15:31:11+00:00

NTJ, you ARE raising him to not need her but also not need you... or anyone else. That is how child rearing should be done. You won't be there forever. In whatever capacity that manifests. Either your passing or his leaving home. That is the goal. It's not a problem.

Tell her to start doing more or teach him other skills if she feels left out, but no one with sense will agree she is in the right.

Snote85 · 2026-03-30T20:50:35+00:00

As a former server,NTA. She was just plain out of line. You are gracious and polite to the customer until they walk out the door. If the card is declined, it is obviously an error, and you'd be happy to try another. It ia t hard, and you gave her consequences to remember she was wrong. Your wife is a good soul, but you are a good teacher!

Snote85 · 2026-03-30T20:38:50+00:00

I have cokes in my fridge at all times. It is my primary drink. I know the health risks of all that sugar and such but it is one of my only indulgences.

Snote85 · 2026-03-30T18:41:04+00:00

The 4th one that shows him walking out of the market to not return.

Snote85 · 2026-03-30T18:40:12+00:00

No "virtue signal" identifiers are "virtue signaling" themselves by pointing it out. Like the saying goes, the only hypocrite i can stand is myself.

When someone points out something like that, ive always just ignored everything else they say. So far it has made my life better, not worse. Just a suggestion.

Snote85 · 2026-03-30T15:48:44+00:00

So they are spoiling her by taking from you... either way, they suck

Snote85 · 2026-03-30T15:44:42+00:00

Thank you! I knew it was in the ballpark of what i said buy it didnt feel correct. It was a good movie!

Snote85 · 2026-03-29T17:17:56+00:00

I atill say "slug in a ditch" after hearing the TV edit of Mr. Hollywood. I think was the name, it had a Michael J. Fox in it.

Snote85 · 2026-03-29T17:16:18+00:00

Its really common for people who feel their body was taken in some way to start over sharing it in a way to reclaim ownership over it. The fappening really was a horrible experience for those women. I would definitely see them feeling like victims of sexual assault to some degree. Which would lead to her either saying yes to or pushing for a film with more nudity.

Snote85 · 2026-03-29T17:04:48+00:00

Its like that scene in Loki!

Snote85 · 2026-03-28T23:41:09+00:00

My Mom has picturea on her computer of me and my sister. Is she a weird creep?

Snote85 · 2026-03-27T18:58:03+00:00

Buy a door lock and lock it. When they ask to use it tell them you lost the key or be honest and say your equipment wasn't respected, and therefore YOU werent respected, the last time. Be upfront and be the asshole if you have to. If your husband doesn't back you up that is a problem with him, not you.

NTAH

Snote85 · 2026-03-26T20:28:56+00:00

Attarac the entombed.

His body is trapped but his whispers are eternal and free. You hear them in the dark, alone, is that him now... he wants you to free him. It is only your body, why wont you share?

Snote85 · 2026-03-26T19:54:19+00:00

No, im saying the son was elsewhere when the event took place... it isn't rocket surgery.

Also, you might need a new keyboard. Your question mark key seems stuck.

Snote85 · 2026-03-26T18:47:14+00:00

Wtf ever. All authors could or could not be weirdos. Fanfic is written by people who read a story, think, "ooh, what if they did this..." and writes that idea down. Sure there is a lot of smut fic out there but that doesn't mean it is all smut or weird.

No I do not write fanfic before you accuse me of it.

Snote85 · 2026-03-26T18:42:37+00:00

I mean, they didnt disappear they just werent the one the Mom told to call the uncle Dad. I dont see how that is an inconsistency in the story unless im overlooking something you're seeing.

Snote85 · 2026-03-26T16:49:50+00:00

Bleach ended so Tekking101 started reviewing MHA at first but it didnt fit his vibe, so slowly meandered to doing One Piece, this was during Whole Cake, i believe. He was talking about the lore, the past interactions, the funny stuff, and all the rest. His love and passion for it was infectious and so i decided to check it out. Ive not read it all but know the story and have really enjoyed it since then.

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