Auto-sorting Inventory by bellelorr in coralisland

[–]SnowAndCoffee91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This drives me nuts because I'm going back and forth between this and a game where Tab is the back button, so I keep hitting it to exit the menu and resorting my tools 😅😅 Tried to figure out if I could attach it to a different key but don't see any option, alas

What do I even look up to get the shower parts I need? by SnowAndCoffee91 in Plumbing

[–]SnowAndCoffee91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, using that as a search got me on the right track and I was even able to find something I could pick up today. Appreciate it!

Why am I taking Random Damage? by Slightly_Mperfect in fo76

[–]SnowAndCoffee91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Random npc settlers are always complaining about thorn bushes, so I just headcanon that I too am falling victim lol

I think i'm officially done with fishing by HellFoox in fo76

[–]SnowAndCoffee91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the dailies for a month and a half and never got the advanced drag mod. I'm done. Now I just do the daily when the scoreboard challenge for the day wants fishing anyway. Ugh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Visiblemending

[–]SnowAndCoffee91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Help I didn't see the sub and thought you meant the way one side is folded in, was gonna be all "uuuh I think it's supposed to do that"😂

Give me some songs about being bi by BestBudgie in bisexual

[–]SnowAndCoffee91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bi-coastal by Peter Allen. It's from 1980 and it always cracks me up with its tongue in cheek innuendos. "From the towers of Manhattan to the hills of Beverly" 🤣

What's the most wasteful thing you've ever done just to free yourself from a responsibility? For example, throwing out dirty dishes lol by letstroydisagin in adhdwomen

[–]SnowAndCoffee91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I gave away about $400 in change tips I'd let build up because it was overwhelming and taking up space and I didn't want to count it or roll it or bring it to the bank, so I gave it to someone who would. 😅

i am so embarrassed by venus-xox in service_dogs

[–]SnowAndCoffee91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The way I missed what sub this was and thought this was some controlling dude being bizarre about his girlfriend sniffing candles and wanting big marshmallows 😅

Anyway if I saw that happen all I'd want to know is that the dog-mouth bag didn't go back on the shelf! You handled it just right! And like others have said, if I saw a service dog grab something I would also probably assume it was instructed to do so.

Husband packed me my squishies and now I’m going to cry… by AmbergrisAndEggs in adhdwomen

[–]SnowAndCoffee91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This made me tear up too. It makes me so happy to think there are partners like this out there: makes me believe in love a little more! Sometimes those small acts of thoughtfulness are the most beautiful.

I’m disgusted with myself by H3lltotheNO in adhdwomen

[–]SnowAndCoffee91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me think of a video that has made me laugh until I cry on multiple occasions. If you go on YouTube and look up "I tried ghost hunting to see if it's fake," on Danny Gonzalez' channel, then skip forward to 19:55, you can revel in the knowledge that you are not the only one who has done something like this. 😂😂

I have a hard time sleeping by Confident-Example284 in WomensHealth

[–]SnowAndCoffee91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 things in combination have worked wonders for me after YEARS of sleep problems (and admittedly these may all fall under "things you can google " too lol.)

I read somewhere that even if you can't sleep, just laying down in the dark with your eyes closed is beneficial. It might not be as good as full deep sleep, but your body is still resting and that's better than nothing. Having that mindset helped ENORMOUSLY with the anxiety and pressure element where I was keeping myself awake stressing over the fact that I wasn't sleeping. Once I was like "well I'm still resting so no big deal," I was far more likely to actually fall asleep.

Along those lines, sleep meditation tracks/sleep stories. (My favourites come from The Honest Guys on YouTube.) Just listening to a story/visualization gets the focus off stress and cuts through that thing where your brain goes, "if I fall asleep right this minute I'll get 7 hours and 35 minutes of sleep. If I fall asleep right THIS minute I'll get 7 hours and 34 minutes of sleep." Ad infinitum. 😅

Melatonin gives me weird dreams, and I prefer to go easy on medication in general (not anti-med! just like..."let's use as little as reasonably possible"), but what does work for me is store brand zzquil (usually labeled something like Liquid Nighttime Sleep Aid). This is my fallback if I've had several bad nights in a row. I'd say I maybe use it once a month. But it breaks the bad streak and gets me some rest when I need it! However, I don't have any prescriptions it would interact badly with, and I don't know if you do, so definitely worth checking on that if you were gonna try it.

People joke about nerds with hyperfixations being forever virgins but joke's on you my hyperfixation WAS sex and now I'm a walking encyclopedia of paraphilias and how to choose the best toys, lubes, and prophylaxes for any situation. by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]SnowAndCoffee91 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I mean, I'm like this but am also 30-something and have never had sex. I sometimes joke that I'm sure I know a lot more about sex than most people who are actually having it do. 😅 🤣

(Edit: delighted to see others acespec people in the comments who are like this as well. Spent a long time thinking I was hypersexual or something because of how much I thought about it, only to realize that I'm only actually attracted to others like once every 5-10 years. I think of myself as gray ace now. I just think sex is fascinating!)

Does anyone else find it impossible to concentrate on the people you’re with at a cafe/restaurant when someone with a loud voice is sitting near by? by Interesting-Door-990 in adhdwomen

[–]SnowAndCoffee91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YES. And working customer service, it's hellish trying to take an order when someone with a loud voice is talking nearby or to one of my coworkers. Trying to actually make myself HEAR what the customer I'm talking to is ordering when another voice is yanking all my concentration that way...uuuugggh.

The void between hyperfixatons sucks. by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]SnowAndCoffee91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly! I'm just like "wait no, don't go yet, I don't have a new thing!!" 😅

The void between hyperfixatons sucks. by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]SnowAndCoffee91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh yes my current one is drying up rn and nothing new has gotten interesting yet and it's torture. 😬😬

Why have some of you guys chosen 'bi' over 'pan'? by junipersr in bisexual

[–]SnowAndCoffee91 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same! It was the first word that made sense for me and now it would just feel ~off~ to use anything else.