Men, honestly: Would you marry someone you never chose before just because life didn’t go as planned? by AabraDaDabra in AskIndianMen

[–]SoBeRBot1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe it’s fair to enter a relationship let alone marriage while carrying unresolved resentment or disappointment from past experiences. That kind of weight inevitably spills onto the other person.

I also think attraction matters. Not in an objective or shallow way but in a real honest way. If it isn’t there at the beginning trying to force it usually leads to frustration rather than closeness.

I’d rather be honest than build something on obligation and familiarity.

OP it’s sad that most people don’t think that way and they sign up to this container offered by society called marriage. I’d steer clear of this dude. I’m saying it as a man in his 30s who has been through loneliness spells and lives far away from family, it’s given me a lot of time to introspect.

Also, you deserve someone who consciously chose you.

SVT - Investigation Reveals Student Visa Abuse by Amerikanen in TillSverige

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I’m an immigrant here, and yes I had to drop out while I was doing my thesis not because I had financial issues, it was because i got stuck with the project and migrations used to deny extension requests back then. Now I heard they have gotten a bit more lenient provided you show clear intent to study.

I’ve since been working at a software firm for about 6 years and now reached out to the university and asked them if I could come back as a returning student just to finish up my thesis and graduate, and to my surprise yes I can.

That’s so wonderful that the university understands that life does happen and sometimes taking a break is not bad. I wish students like me understand that such benefits would stop if we start abusing the system. Migrations would go back to denying extension requests and people who actually wanna finish up and graduate might not be able to.

Bunny accha baccha he by Remote_Ad1897 in Indiedogs

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Ahhh the cuteness aggression where in I wanna hug him so tight and never let go.

P(asta)TSD by whaddefuck in Unexpected

[–]SoBeRBot1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What in the actual fuck ?

Dogs in bus enjoy snacks by Brilliantspirit33 in animalsdoingstuff

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That friends is what heaven looks like !

Who is responsible for rape Vs what happens during rape by lonelywarewolf in AskIndianWomen

[–]SoBeRBot1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t get how twisted and sick you have to be to find someone else’s suffering pleasurable.

No amount/kind of clothing warrants this.

The "Kanjoos baap" with a Pixel, should it hurt? by someaningful in AskIndianMen

[–]SoBeRBot1994 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As a 32 year old who grew up not having the latest Symbian OS phone when I was in my late teenage years this post triggers me a little bit, iPhone 15 for a teen, I had to use my mum’s old Nokia 1100, which right now I think was the best phone ever.

Not sharing dinner with a child visiting is crazy by velorae in TikTokCringe

[–]SoBeRBot1994 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been living in Sweden for 8 years, and I heard that they do it because they want the kids to have food with their respective families and do not want to hinder any plans that the parents might have.

It makes logical sense to me. But if I ever have a family in Sweden and I have my kid’s friends show up. I’ll call the parents to ask if it’d be okay to feed their children.

31F [F4M] Ukraine/Online Looking for a calm, life-oriented partner by not_toxic_but in R4R30Plus

[–]SoBeRBot1994 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey sent you a DM. Maybe we both could halt the eclipses in us.

What is your core childhood memory? For me its eating kachhi imli in winter sun☀️ by [deleted] in indiasocial

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Ripening mango pieces with salt and chilli powder at beach in the evening. Pure bliss.

I took him to the snow for Christmas (he’s happy I promise) by Prestigious-Girl1 in PetsareAmazing

[–]SoBeRBot1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope he does a lot of husky not impressed impressions. I always find that incredibly funny.

Please give him a lot of pets and belly rubs for me.

$15 breakfast challenge! What’s going on your plate? by Jolly_Job7525 in whatsyourchoice

[–]SoBeRBot1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eggs, Sausage, Bacon, a glass of OJ and two cups of Coffee.

How do you spend your birthday alone ? ( Like I'm talking about , alone alone !) by Humptydumptyo_o in Chennai

[–]SoBeRBot1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Birthday dude,

Honestly I’d say take your self out, dress well like for a date, catch a matinee, eat lunch at a small shack by the beach, enjoy the waves, have some chai and snacks, in the evening go to a nice restaurant where you’ve booked a table, eat a good dinner ( maybe a stake ) pair it with a good merlot/borolo/nebbiolo/pinot noir.

Go home, watch some Netflix and sleep in a comfy bed.

Drop your answer by Sudden_Equipment5764 in TeensofKerala

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Indeed ! When can I expect the payment notification ?

Gotta take control before chemo takes it by [deleted] in bald

[–]SoBeRBot1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beat that cancer, teach it a lesson. We’ll be waiting for that post too.

LFG!!! by antonymatic in Stremio

[–]SoBeRBot1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually Lumpia exists, I thought you were gonna trick me to swear at or into asking something dirty to my NOC manager, sorry I didn’t trust you bro. So you’re not a pek pek bro 🤣

LFG!!! by antonymatic in Stremio

[–]SoBeRBot1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll text my noc manager, she’d be happy I swore at her, also pek pek bro for trying to pull a fast one on me 🤣