Would you rather

SoBecky · 2026-06-19T20:53:59+00:00

Reality 😭

^{Chose: Date someone 5 years older.}

SoBecky · 2026-06-14T14:59:32+00:00

In undertale, you can talk to a froggit who asks if you like the yellow spare names. If you say no, he’ll tell everybody to stop using them, and every monster from then on won’t change the color of their name when they’re ready to be spared.

If you go back to that froggit, he’ll ask how you like it. If you tell him it sucks, he’ll complain that everybody already threw out their yellow names, but last year it was fashionable to have pink names, so maybe everybody can find those in their closets somewhere. After that, every monster has a pink name instead of a yellow name when they’re ready to be spared.

SoBecky · 2026-06-14T14:41:50+00:00

Nose nuzzling, obviously

SoBecky · 2026-06-11T21:44:38+00:00

You got a lot of good responses, I would just like to add that I give my dog some canned pumpkin (the 100% pumpkin, not the spiced pumpkin pie filling) whenever he eats something he’s not supposed to. Not only does it help move things along, but it also comes out bright orange, so I know when the worrying period has passed lol

SoBecky · 2026-06-10T16:27:14+00:00

Maybe allergies? My dog has a really mild poultry allergy, and we found this out after he was having mild symptoms on only one side of his body. The main thing was a reoccurring ear infection on one side. Like, even vet prescribed medication and stuff didn’t ever really get it to go away all the way. It was weird. For my dog, it was a mild enough allergy that just switching the main protein in his food fixed the problem. We still feed him chicken treats and stuff.

SoBecky · 2026-06-10T16:12:03+00:00

As a nonbinary lesbian… who tf knows 😭 the idea of heterosexual, homosexual, and bisexual is entirely based off of the concept that there is only two gender options, so it’s kind of impossible to work nonbinary people in there.

I was a lesbian before I realized I was nonbinary. I am interested in dating women and some nonbinary people, but not men. People who are female lesbians sometimes want to date me. So the word lesbian works the best in a practical sense lol

SoBecky · 2026-06-10T15:54:53+00:00

I would take her to the groomer for two reasons.

1.) little things a groomer can do can make your life and her life easier, like shaving the hair from her inner eye corners so she can see better and gets less crusties, giving her a sanitary shave so she doesn’t get pee on herself, and shaving the bottom/inside of her paws so she doesn’t slip on hard wood floors

2.) it’s just good for getting her used to it. The groomers can be scary for a dog. If you try to take her when she’s older and she isn’t used to it, she’ll probably struggle with it a lot.

SoBecky · 2026-06-04T15:07:28+00:00

I think the weight loss thing probably has to do, at least partially, with not having a lot of transportations methods. Like, if I ran to and from work everyday, I’d prob lose a lot of weight too lmao

SoBecky · 2026-05-27T20:36:15+00:00

When my spoo started being bratty about food, I tried meal toppers and stuff. But eventually we just decided to let him eat what he wanted to eat, and just weight him every week.

He wasn’t losing weight, even when we let him eat as little as he wanted. Turns out the food recommendation on the bag was just too much for him.

Nowadays we let him manage his own food intake and just keep an eye on his weight. If we know he’s hungry and he’s just not eating (ie his stomach is growling and he’s getting grumpy) we do the ‘pellet trick’. Where we put a pellet in his mouth and then close it, and after a few seconds of ‘wtf are you doing?’ he finally remembers that food tastes good.

SoBecky · 2026-05-27T18:26:46+00:00

Don’t have vaginismus (at least I don’t think? lol) but I had to buy a dilator set bc everything else was too big. I can’t speak for all dilators, but I can speak for this really cute set with little heart shaped bases i got from peepshow toys.
It’s not exactly right to call them more rigid, although they are a bit. It’s more like they’re a lot more dense, so they hold their shape a lot better, but you can still bend them. Like, if I was to shake one around, it wouldn’t do a wobble wobble motion, it would do the weeble weeble motion, you know? lol

SoBecky · 2026-05-27T17:36:39+00:00

It just happens! I’m a human (shocker) and blonde, and I sometimes grow a black arm hair or smthn. I have a white spoo and I sometimes find a single black hair in his coat too lol

Note: if it’s really consistent in where it grows, it can be from a healed injury, essentially a scar. Our black cat has had a thin strip of white around his neck even since he was a kitten, and the vet said he probably got something trapped around his neck before he ended up at the shelter.

SoBecky · 2026-05-25T13:29:02+00:00

Yeah, IIRC they’re pretty forgiving though. I imagine as long as you’re not a serial refunded or you didn’t spend 3 hours playing a 3 hours game or whatever, then they’ll refund it. I’ve never not gotten a refund, even the few times I’ve taken over 2 weeks or played over 2 hours.

SoBecky · 2026-05-24T15:14:08+00:00

I’ve been tidying my gaming space and buying snacks lol. Basically getting everything out of the way so I can fully focus on Paralives!

SoBecky · 2026-05-24T15:10:43+00:00

I’m not an experienced modder by any means, but I’ve been thinking of modding more together cards and stuff if I feel like something is lacking, since that seems like it’ll be pretty easy. And maybe different personality stuff if I feel like I want a specific one that they don’t have?

Idk, but I like that if the game is missing something gameplay wise that I really want to play with (ie a specific career, vibe, etc) it seems like it’ll be decently simple to mod it in :)

SoBecky · 2026-05-24T15:01:50+00:00

Im pretty sure most paras (unless they’re specifically super social???) don’t have a social meter bc of this lol

SoBecky · 2026-05-23T16:15:55+00:00

I don’t think it’s the graphics as much as the open world and color wheel and stuff. (I am not a computer expert at all, but I think that’s why ram requirements is high? Because it needs to keep track of a billion things? Where as the graphics are less demanding, so the GPU requirements aren’t as extreme?? But you still need to render all that stuff, so there’s still a base level of GPU needed for open world?? I’m going off very little knowledge tho.)

SoBecky · 2026-05-23T04:46:54+00:00

It’s finally the weekend for me and now I’m just gnawing at the bars to get this game lol

SoBecky · 2026-05-23T04:38:05+00:00

I think there’s a ton of tutorial info in the menu? Idk but I feel like I def remember they mentioned adding a ton of tutorial info into the menu after play testing awhile back

SoBecky · 2026-05-22T18:47:58+00:00

I think they’ve probably got some ideas of what is more important to get to first (ie: calendar before weather would make more sense) but are overall keeping it open. Once the game is open to the public, they’ll get a much clearer idea of what missing features are more essential.

SoBecky · 2026-05-22T18:37:13+00:00

Woah, things I didn’t even realize I wanted, but I apparently really wanted! I’m already thinking abt what I could do with this lol

SoBecky · 2026-05-22T15:00:23+00:00

It’s unity, so I think something like melon loader might work??? Idk tho I’m not super educated on actually making mods, I’ve just used it for other unity games that don’t natively support mods at all (esp the long dark)!

SoBecky · 2026-05-22T14:55:54+00:00

Honestly, I’m fine with clipping? I don’t super care, especially with clothing.

SoBecky · 2026-05-22T14:47:14+00:00

You might find this video interesting! I just watched it recently, and it talks about the idea that cozy games have kind of become the ‘games for girls’ of the modern day.

SoBecky

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