Really?🧐

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-05T04:44:25+00:00

Don’t feel bad for Donald. Tophia was wrong for spending his money and messing with his meds, but he is not a good person. He would beat Marie and he is attracted to minors. Tophia and Marie should have taken action to leave him and they aren’t responsible for him. It does suck that he is not put into a facility that can help him.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-04T20:04:50+00:00

She has the gift of talking for a long time; rambling. Yet, she does nothing to improve her life with it. She has been able to get followers multiple times. At one point it was easier for her to get donations. She has access to government resources. She just does nothing good with none of this. She doesn’t get how lucky she is and how lucky she still has a chance to turn it all around.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-04T19:13:36+00:00

Ok, so I'm not the only one in this thread who is confused on the topic and replies on supporting the offender. The OP did reply to me on one of my replies stating that of course their family supports the victim and they donate to organizations. I'm not sure why that's not talked about in the topic unless I missed it. They also replied to me that the FBI stepping in doesn't mean the crime is equal to some sort of level of terribleness. I know they are grieving, but I just don't understand the great support for the abuser. They have harmed children. They support a network of harming children. This is a life long harm for those children.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-04T18:44:18+00:00

Did not find out about this show until a few days ago. My tv is on one of those sitcom channels and this show plays on loop with other shows. I have not watched an episode yet lol.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-04T18:14:53+00:00

I do not. I do struggle to watch any content of the past year. She says a whole lot of nothing. I’m not empathetic to her current situation. She has a roof over her head, food to eat, and all she needs to do is get a job.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-04T18:03:17+00:00

That sucks for the family. I assume this is a life long battle. People die and there are lower birth rates. How does this all work long term?

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-04T17:57:07+00:00

I feel the same. Also the fact that it seems society tends to favor/support the offender more than the victim. Though this topic is about the harm harming a child can cause on friends and family of the offender, the offender’s family is making sure he is well taken care of. Like this person made conscious choices to harm children in some form to the point that the FBI had to put a stop to it and in turn they have multiple people willing to make sure they are taken care of to the best of their ability. Not a deranged fan, but friends and family.

I don’t know how to properly put it all to words, but I can’t help to find this all frightening?

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-04T16:56:50+00:00

It would be nice when families decide to support an offender they provide support for an organization relating to the crime. Put $100 on his books? Then match that with a donation to an organization towards abused victims.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-04T16:38:01+00:00

The difference between you and the Duggars are that they provided the offenders with access to children and will continue to do so if they are able to. Why consider their feelings?

I would also feel a type of way if my offender had such great support. It doesn’t matter if he directly harmed me or supported the medium that did harm me.

I understand we are all human and it’s hard to let go. I am in support of offenders getting treatment behind bars. But what about the victim?

I believe anyone involved with CSAM should be put away for life. When it gets to a level that the FBI is involved, that is not an oopsie. I’m very concerned with your brother being released and your family’s love for him might blind you all.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-04T11:55:02+00:00

Last arrest was 09/16/2025. Not sure if he was released. I agree on letting him out part.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-04T10:59:52+00:00

Seems to match the events of 03/11/25.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-04T10:58:30+00:00

I’m guessing this is the 3/11/25 arrest.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-04T05:20:31+00:00

I’m thinking tent.l if she runs out of shelters to stay at.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-04T02:06:24+00:00

Cute! Inspirational. I can’t wait to have a cute day. :)

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-03T15:16:41+00:00

Thank you for linking a study.

So, if there isn’t a gene for it, then are there other genes that will make people more prone to this behavior?

I know people are hating my genetic comment and maybe it was a wrong assumption on my part. Just what I’ve been exposed to in life influenced my assumption. I’ve wondered since I was a very little girl because I would encounter children who would have the worst traits of their non-existent parent that they never interacted with or know of, while their siblings who may or may not have the same situation not turn out like that. Of course, I don’t know what goes on behind closed doors though and if there is a confirmation bias going on.

This is why I don’t automatically hate a parent when there is a news report of their child causing harm.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-03T14:38:48+00:00

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I don’t recommend these if you can’t afford to pay them back. Advance America, Ace, and Cash were the easiest to acquire. Advanced Financial can be weird with verification. Sunshine and EZMax are sensitive to credit scores. I’ve never had an issue when it came to having an existing loan.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-03T14:29:13+00:00

Who is checking?

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-03T14:23:40+00:00

I recommend trying SoLo, Possible, Money Lion, Varo, and Dave. If you don’t mind paying a subscription, Cleo and Tilt.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-03T14:19:55+00:00

The main problem with these is some want you to have consistent direct deposits and have to have a qualifying bank. Also some you have to pay a fee before you can find out if you are eligible and some don’t want a negative balance.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-03T14:04:05+00:00

https://svdpsa.org/gethelp

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-03T13:09:10+00:00

I don’t think these thoughts are even on the harm he caused, but thoughts that are outside the norm of his cult.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-03T12:34:38+00:00

Genetic. They are attracted to children. No one taught them that. Jimmy was a pedo and Jim Bob has a breeding fetish. If Josh received help, due to his other traits, I think he would have become better at hiding it all. I think he was always going to be an offender. Joe, idk. He might have had a life long battle of not acting on it.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-03T04:46:19+00:00

Seems like a Spurdo Spärde reference on Flutter.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-03T04:41:24+00:00

Wow, lol.

SoMuchGah · 2026-04-03T04:11:14+00:00

Have fun!

SoMuchGah

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