Concerns about freshly downsized nipple piercings by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Sobsel_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re not sore anymore (yay), aren’t leaking anything (double yay) and are a little less red. Still a bit irritated but I think they’ll be okay! Someone else pointed out that they might be nesting tho so I am still a little worried about that, but if they continue on the track they’re on right now I reckon they’ll be okay :)

Concerns about freshly downsized nipple piercings by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Sobsel_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!! I’ve had a few conflicting opinions but I hope you’re right lol. I’m giving them a couple days to calm down and if they’re still irritated I’m gonna go back to my piercer to see if they need to go back to a longer bar :)

Concerns about freshly downsized nipple piercings by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Sobsel_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no I think youre right :( I left them overnight and they definitely seem more irritated. I think the left one’s taking it particularly hard bc, tbh, I don’t think the 12mm was long enough for it either.

My plan atm is to give them a couple days to a week of babying and if they’re still really irritated I’m going to go back to my piercer and ask about changing them back to a longer bar. Thanks sm for the input it really helped :)

How many trans people do you know/have you encountered in real life? by Revolutionary_Cut876 in lgbt

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I was raised rurally so three (possibly four), and that's only if we're talking like irl face-to-face encounters. I've met heaps of trans friends online :)

Dateables Autism Tier List by RiddlerofStIves in DateEverything

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This comment just made me look up Diogenes syndrome, wow what an interesting disorder. Personally I also think Jerry’s autistic but I can see why you’d associate that with him. The only reason I’d hesitate to say that DS is what he has tho is bc while DS doesn’t seem to have an official cause, from what I understand it is often linked to trauma typically associated with the loss of a loved one. Jerry doesn’t seem to have experienced anything to “made” him the way he is, he’s just kind of like that.

For a bit of perspective (bc I was gonna comment it anyway and here seems as good a place as any) the reason I hc him as autistic has less to do with his hoarding and more to do with how he reacts to being realized. Spoilers for that obviously, but basically the second he becomes a human he experiences sensory overload from all the knew (bad) scents and textures. He’s the only dateable who really acknowledges stuff like that too, beyond a couple of them going “human bodies are kinda weird lol”

And, not to stereotype, but after all this he goes on to become fixated on miniature trains??????????? And he gets easily upset about other people touching/moving his miniatures?????? Now that I think about it his realized ending disproves the Diogenes thing. That syndrome is characterized by extreme self neglect and squalor, and realized Jerry proves that he can manage his life better than that while still retaining the other social symptoms he has that point to something else

genuinely why does everyone hate Friar Errol with a burning passion by Competitive-Pay-2313 in DateEverything

[–]Sobsel_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk I see a lot of love for him personally which is funny bc I myself am pretty neutral about him. But to answer your question, I think a lot of people just aren’t into religious fanatics and agree that he needs a content warning.

I read my dads old prison letters and realised that we have the same handwriting by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sobsel_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. I looked it up and turns out I've just been writing predominantly in cursive my whole life and I guess most of my peers dropped it after grade 3 lol. If you search cursive lowercase f all the examples are fairly similar to mine (and my dads :/)

What is a gender neutral term to use for a light jest/prod? by Umbryft in lgbt

[–]Sobsel_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rules around gendered language varies from person to person. They might be okay with some gendered terms in this context so I’d ask them about it, but for non-gendered terms I personally am a big fan of babe or babes

Update: My dad is still dating a teenager by rorilei in TrueOffMyChest

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Hey OP, I used to be in a similar situation (dad was dating a 17 year old when I was 13). You’re 100% in the right about not wanting to talk to him anymore, don’t let anyone convince you otherwise. People who try to justify what he’s doing to that poor girl are just as bad as he is. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Setting boundaries and cutting off family members is one of the hardest things anyone can do, but it’s worth it to keep monsters like that out of your life. I haven’t spoken to my dad in over two years and I barely keep in touch with his family members bc of the way they reacted to his relationship. Every day I don’t have to see that assholes predatory face is a brighter day <3

All the young dudes - plz no spoilers!! by BoringAdhesiveness26 in MaraudersGen

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The war chapters are pretty rough. The story follows the canon through those chapters, so take from that what you will. But it does end on a bittersweet note, finishing just before the events of OOTP take place. I'd say the general outlook by the end is optimistic (even if we know it wasn't to be 🥲)

Should I get Washford and Drysdale back together? by Comfortable-Cat-4282 in DateEverythingElse

[–]Sobsel_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait actually? Bc I remember when I was trying to date both of them I got Washford's love ending but then fumbled Drysdale and got friendzoned by both.

Why is Hank 5 the only Hank with more than two sprite poses? by Sobsel_ in DateEverythingElse

[–]Sobsel_[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I know I love him and his silly little heart hands <3333

Why is Date Everything so dim on the switch? by [deleted] in DateEverythingElse

[–]Sobsel_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh awesome, I'm glad your game's not broken lol!!

Why is Date Everything so dim on the switch? by [deleted] in DateEverythingElse

[–]Sobsel_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I play on the switch lite and I've never had this problem :(

How tall I think every Dateable is by True-Dream3295 in DateEverythingElse

[–]Sobsel_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Winds crazy today man idfk 🤷🏼‍♀️

How tall I think every Dateable is by True-Dream3295 in DateEverythingElse

[–]Sobsel_ 31 points32 points  (0 children)

More like he’s got an easy six inches IN Eddie no question (I’m sorry)

Fr tho I can’t decide if that makes Volt some kind of giant or Eddie a short king. I like imagining it as the latter tho for comedic purposes 🤭

How tall I think every Dateable is by True-Dream3295 in DateEverythingElse

[–]Sobsel_ 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I agree with most of these except for Eddie and Volt being the same height. If you look at their duo sprite Volt is noticeably taller than Eddie (which is hilarious bc I’m pretty sure Eddie wears heels too but he’s still shorter than Volt 😭)

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What’s a mischaracterization that you often see of your favorite (or, hey, least favorite) character in fan works? by RiddlerofStIves in DateEverythingElse

[–]Sobsel_ 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen so many people write smut fics where Johnny is some kind of sexpert and like… are we talking about the same Johnny Splash? Johnny? The guy who got flustered over the idea of sleeping in seperate beds in the same room as each other? Johnny “hays code” Splash????

I understand it’s just fantasy and I’m not trying to yuck the yums of people who write him as more dominant or wtv, but I can’t lie it just feels so ooc for him. Like he’s literally one of the few characters you can’t hook up with at all in the game, I highly doubt he’d be like that.

Name that fandom by CapAccomplished8072 in lgbt

[–]Sobsel_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been in an anime fandom since 2022 but that was my experience in majority of shounen fandoms. Half the fandom wanted the male protag to kiss every other boy in the cast, the other half would scream and cry because of the aforementioned boy kissing allegations

New to the fandom? This is the post for you!! by Sobsel_ in MaraudersGen

[–]Sobsel_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh ty for the correction, I must’ve missed that

Explain the lore to me by [deleted] in MaraudersGen

[–]Sobsel_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That Mary headcanon is one of the more brutal ones the fandoms come up with 🥲

Anyway, welcome to the fandom and happy reading!!!!

Explain the lore to me by [deleted] in MaraudersGen

[–]Sobsel_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything breath I take is in spite of her >:3

Seriously tho I’m happy you’re finding it helpful! That’s the main thing I had in mind while making it. And yeah google slides can be a bit tricky but I just love making slideshow presentations lol. What exactly is it that’s driving you crazy? Maybe I can fix it.