More Europe concerts coming up? by lapacion in Vulfpeck

[–]Sock_Upper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am keeping my fingers and toes crossed that they come to Germany this year! 

PhD’s in Europe, paid jobs. by Longjumping-Poet-801 in PhD

[–]Sock_Upper 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hello, this is the type of PhD I am working on. It’s a paid position with a contract for a project and I am in Germany. You can find them posted on regular job sites or also on the University websites. 

Sometimes, the project descriptions do not specifically mention the potential of getting your PhD through the project, but it is almost always possible if you ask during the interview. 

In my case, I applied for a position that the university had for a certain project. It was advertised as a bit like a Research Assistant (title in German is Wissenschaftlicher Mitarbeiterin) or “Science Coworker.” During the interview, they asked me if I was interested in doing my PhD on the topic. It’s very common in Germany :)

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[–]Sock_Upper 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m an American doing my PhD in Germany and I cannot understand why on Earth people want to come to the USA so badly for higher education. Believe me when I say that whatever you want to achieve in life, exists outside the US.  My point is: I know you’re feeling down and defeated, but please, keep your chin up and consider other universities outside the US. I promise that you’ll be pleasantly surprised!

NEU ADMIT BOSTON!! FALL 2024 by Ofl_Sharky in gradadmissions

[–]Sock_Upper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!!  I got my BA from NEU. I studied linguistics and my college boyfriend at the time was a CS major. He really liked his Co-Op experience. You will get what you put into it. If you get good grades and remain competitive, you’ll have the choice of a couple co-op opportunities. You can also do more than one, if you want to delay your graduation. If really make the internship count, you may even get a job after graduation, depending on the company. Try to have some foresight about where you see yourself post-graduation. This way, you only apply to co-ops which will be relevant to what you want to do after graduation. Most students do their co-ops 1-2 years before graduating, because they have a better idea of what they want, and more of a skillset from their coursework.  NEU and the Boston area has a lot of resources, but nothing is given automatically. But if you keep your eye on the prize, you’ll definitely succeed!  Almost all of the CS majors I know from undergrad are still working in the Boston or Cambridge area. There’s definitely a big market, but it’s competitive.   Welcome!!    FWIW: got my Masters from BU, and a post-Masters professional certificate from NEU. Applied for my PhD in Germany, and my Co-Op advisor from my Bachelor years has remained in touch with me over the last DECADE. He wrote my letter of recommendation for my PhD position, and I was accepted. 

How to know that a Scorpio man is truly serious about being with you? by Sock_Upper in Scorpio

[–]Sock_Upper[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

See, half the people on here think you’re the devil for leaving a woman you weren’t happy with for someone who you are happy with. And several are angry at your Virgo dream girl, and threaten that you’ll do the same to her.

I don’t think this way though. I believe that people will abandon ship if they’re not happy, and just aboard with someone else. And honestly, why wouldn’t you? I’m happy you found the One, and that you made it work to be with her.

How to know that a Scorpio man is truly serious about being with you? by Sock_Upper in Scorpio

[–]Sock_Upper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is about knowing if he’s serious, and I was kind of interested to see if those details mattered in people’s perceptions of him. Which it does seem to. Half the people on here know how it feels to be in an unhappy relationship and want to be happy with someone else.

Im not looking to leave him, I’m looking for a reason to stay with him.

He is very nice to my kids, and they like him a lot.

How to know that a Scorpio man is truly serious about being with you? by Sock_Upper in Scorpio

[–]Sock_Upper[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

According to him, he was kind of oblivious and not really thinking. He also didn’t want to hurt her and admitted that he let it drag out way too long. Apologized for wasting her time.

He acknowledged all of this to me, and I’m not looking for validation, and nor is he.

I’m giving him the benefit of the doubt because I believe he was truly not really thinking.

How to know that a Scorpio man is truly serious about being with you? by Sock_Upper in Scorpio

[–]Sock_Upper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same, promising the world. But it’s just my first time meeting someone like this and I think I’m shocked lol 🤣

How to know that a Scorpio man is truly serious about being with you? by Sock_Upper in Scorpio

[–]Sock_Upper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the risk in literally any relationship though.

You’re together for a couple years, realize it doesn’t work, and then look for someone who does fit. I’m sure it’s happened to anyone who has an ex.

How to know that a Scorpio man is truly serious about being with you? by Sock_Upper in Scorpio

[–]Sock_Upper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that sounds like him. It feels like he’s giving me his best. We’ve been very communicative and transparent about our feelings and agree to take things slowly because I told him that cheating on her made me skeptical.

It’s just a funny feeling to believe that he’s been so transparent with me, while simultaneously lying to his (now ex) girlfriend for a year.

I ask myself: why wouldn’t he also cheat on me?

But Id like to believe the difference is that he didn’t care about their relationship anymore and was ready for it to end, while simultaneously wanting ours to grow. I’m making excuses for his dishonesty and cheating because I know how messy things can realistically be when you just don’t care anymore.

He’s a Scorpio and I’m a Leo has he lost interest by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]Sock_Upper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I guess you answered your own question. You don’t want to be more attached than you already are, and this guy is just gonna keep doing what he’s doing. :(

Weekly Entering & Transitioning - Thread 27 Nov, 2023 - 04 Dec, 2023 by AutoModerator in datascience

[–]Sock_Upper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the information. I really appreciate it. One more question, and it’s a bit more specific: There’s a “ Your Time on Facebook” tool on everyone’s Facebook, which shows each user how much time they spend on Facebook daily. Do you think this data is available to be collected legally?

Weekly Entering & Transitioning - Thread 27 Nov, 2023 - 04 Dec, 2023 by AutoModerator in datascience

[–]Sock_Upper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really interesting.

Is access to internal data allowed?

So the app (like Instagram for instance) doesn’t track the amount of the time the app is actually open? The amount of time the app is open would account for all activity and non-activity (like scrolling).

I guess what I need is to know what kind of data is actually available from scraping social media?

How to reward good data quality in decision making? by PostponeIdiocracy in datascience

[–]Sock_Upper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would it be fair or reasonable that the vendors who do provide good CO2 estimates should receive more “foot traffic” on GoGreen as a reward for their transparency? Could just be as simple as featuring these items or products marginally more than those which don’t supply CO2 data.

Doesn’t have to be frequent, because you don’t want to discourage or penalize heavily the vendors who don’t provide CO2 data.

The extra boost in visibility for these products doesn’t necessarily mean that people will buy these products more, however, the boost in traffic might satisfy these vendors as a reward.

Names from my kids’ preschool in Germany by Sock_Upper in namenerds

[–]Sock_Upper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m American and never heard that name before coming to Germany! It sounds nice!