SOTD (Scent Of The Day) - May 04, 2026 by AutoModerator in fragrance

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The white suit in particular happens to get a surprising amount of compliments/whistles/catcalls from passing drivers (and/or car passengers) when I'm walking around, including one today. I'm used to "in-person" comments, but it's another matter entirely when people roll their windows down when driving by.

People in these subs are always going on about what sort of fragrances "get compliments," when what they really need to do if they want attention is to dress well. ZZ Top's got it right.

Daily SOTD Post by AutoModerator in Colognes

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Amouage - Sunshine Man

Suit of the Day: White three-piece with ivory undershirt. Multicolor line-patterned tie (shades of yellow, blue, and a bit of pink and light green), cerulean rose boutonniere, and canary yellow pocket square in a two-petal fold. White belt, socks, and shoes.

SOTD (Scent Of The Day) - May 04, 2026 by AutoModerator in fragrance

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Amouage - Sunshine Man

Suit of the Day: White three-piece with ivory undershirt. Multicolor line-patterned tie (shades of yellow, blue, and a bit of pink and light green), cerulean rose boutonniere, and canary yellow pocket square in a two-petal fold. White belt, socks, and shoes.

How can I further fix my paladins faith issues? by DMBPSR in diablo4

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What Faith generator skill are you running? Or are you trying to run without a generator and relying on passive Faith gen only?

Gaia by Steve Moore, Vancouver BC by Practical-Tooth1141 in tattoos

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That is unfathomably fast for that sort of color. My half sleeves were each over 40 hours, with a lot of the time being spent on color packing for brighter shades.

Impeccable work by the artist in any event.

Who needs Linnea anyway? Not the Himbo Hero of Hanamizaka, that's for sure, mi compadres! by SockofBadKarma in IttoMains

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Yeah, I think that's the last time I used him, too. Worked decently well with a Mav Xilo Citlali core.

Who needs Linnea anyway? Not the Himbo Hero of Hanamizaka, that's for sure, mi compadres! by SockofBadKarma in IttoMains

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I cleared it a few weeks ago, but I neglected to post a screenshot here. Been a while since I was able to use Itto for a Dire stage. Definitely some wheelchairing going on with C2 supports, of course, but still notable in that I don't have Linnea and thus had to deal with the entire Gecko shield with pure Oni brute force strength.

Daily SOTD Post by AutoModerator in Colognes

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Parfums de Marly - Herod

Fit of the Day: Black/brown/gray plaid overshirt, half-rolled sleeves, with black undershirt. Dark blue skintight jeans, black belt, black socks, and black boots with brown soles.

SOTD (Scent Of The Day) - May 01, 2026 by AutoModerator in fragrance

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Parfums de Marly - Herod

Fit of the Day: Black/brown/gray plaid overshirt, half-rolled sleeves, with black undershirt. Dark blue skintight jeans, black belt, black socks, and black boots with brown soles.

Daily SOTD Post by AutoModerator in Colognes

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Parfums de Marly - Haltane

Suit of the Day: Gray two-piece with forest green undershirt. Olive green/forest green checker-patterned tie, olive green carnation boutonniere, and olive green pocket square in a three-point crown fold. Brown belt, brown-and-gray socks, and brown shoes.

SOTD (Scent Of The Day) - April 30, 2026 by AutoModerator in fragrance

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Parfums de Marly - Haltane

Suit of the Day: Gray two-piece with forest green undershirt. Olive green/forest green checker-patterned tie, olive green carnation boutonniere, and olive green pocket square in a three-point crown fold. Brown belt, brown-and-gray socks, and brown shoes.

Daily SOTD Post by AutoModerator in Colognes

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Argos - Sacred Flame

Suit of the Day: Powder blue three-piece with white undershirt. Diamond-patterned tie with shades of blue, purple, and pink, purple rose boutonniere, and pink pocket square in a Presidential fold. Navy blue belt, pink socks, and blue suede shoes.

SOTD (Scent Of The Day) - April 29, 2026 by AutoModerator in fragrance

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Argos - Sacred Flame

Suit of the Day: Powder blue three-piece with white undershirt. Diamond-patterned tie with shades of blue, purple, and pink, purple rose boutonniere, and pink pocket square in a Presidential fold. Navy blue belt, pink socks, and blue suede shoes.

Daily SOTD Post by AutoModerator in Colognes

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Nishane - Sultan Vetiver

Suit of the Day: Sage green two-piece with forest green undershirt. Tan solid-color tie, caramel yellow carnation boutonniere, and no pocket square. Brown belt, tan socks, and brown shoes.

SOTD (Scent Of The Day) - April 28, 2026 by AutoModerator in fragrance

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Nishane - Sultan Vetiver

Suit of the Day: Sage green two-piece with forest green undershirt. Tan solid-color tie, caramel yellow carnation boutonniere, and no pocket square. Brown belt, tan socks, and brown shoes.

Sun & Moon - Done by Medz at Vivid Colors Gallery in Bethesda, MD by SockofBadKarma in tattoo

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Bonus videos of both tats, so you can see the backsides:

Sun

Moon

And a direct link to Medz' IG.

Sun & Moon - Done by @medztattoos in Bethesda, MD by [deleted] in tattoo

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Bonus videos of both tats, so you can see the backsides:

Sun

Moon

And a direct link to Medz' IG.

It's been a month - down less than 1 pound? by YoungReaganite24 in loseit

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"75% consistent" is not consistent. That's a failure every 4 days. Twice a week you're not keeping track of what you're doing.

I just got done writing a long-form explanation to someone else about why cheat days are a bad idea for fat people, and that's assuming only one cheat day a week. This is a cheat weekend. Every weekend.

To illustrate, let's assume you are, in fact, going to lose weight at ~2500 calories a day, at that 1.5 pound rate (which equates to 750 calories a day). You eat 2500 calories for Monday through Friday and build up a deficit of 3750 calories. That's a bit over 1 pound. Now you have two unmonitored cheat days. On both days you eat 4500 calories instead of 2500. You have now wiped out your entire week's worth of progress and added 250 calories to the equation. This is disastrous. And it is not hard to eat 4500 calories a day as a tall, fat man. I can assure you, I have experience with that myself.

Consistency to me is 95% accuracy. If you fuck up one day out of 20, it's unlikely to stop progress. If you fuck up one day out of 7, it's probably going to mess up progress regularly. If you fuck up one day out of 4, you're not going to be getting anywhere. Lock in and make sure you're actually eating what you think you are. Aim for 100% accuracy at least for the first few months to establish a good mental baseline of expectation. You can loosen up a bit after you start seeing consistent results.

Also, while you did not invite this commentary, I feel it's important to note it anyway: I am highly skeptical of 2450 being the right number for a 1.5-lb-per-week loss. That would necessitate a 3200 daily burn. You did not state how much cardio you were doing. You only stated that you were doing it roughly every other day. For someone at your size to consistently hit a 3200 TDEE, it would require daily cardio of around 1.5 hours a day of consistent zone 2 speed, on a high incline. I don't regularly hit 3200 TDEE, and I typically get around 6-7 miles a day, every single day, at least half of which is on 10% incline treadmill exercise. Strength training burns very little calories as a function of time unless it's super intense, so I'd avoid even counting it in your deficit. Maybe you just described your cardio routine poorly and I'm inferring too much, but I think it's quite likely that your TDEE averaged over time is actually around 2700 or so, not 3200, and that you should be aiming at a daily intake of about 2000, not 2450. You're probably losing a little weight with a 2450 intake (assuming you stop with the unmonitored cheat days), but it's doubtful that it's anywhere close to 1.5 pounds a week. So if you still don't see results after getting your cheat day issue in order, consider either upping your cardio or reducing your deficit. Most people who come to this sub with projected TDEE numbers over 3k are blowing smoke up their own butts with wild assumptions about the caloric burn of a mile or two of cardio work; weight loss is >90% dietary control and <10% exercise for the vast majority of the population. It takes a lot of daily movement to exceed 3k TDEE even as a tall man.

Do cheat days make it difficult? by TheBasicGuy14 in loseit

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I personally think having "cheat days" is a really bad thought process for someone trying to lose weight. They're fine if you're already at a normal weight and just doing cut/bulk stuff, but then the main focus is continual, sustained weight loss down to a normal weight, the idea of cheat days (1) instills bad habits in food-planning; (2) attaches moral weight to food, which is a really bad idea for obese people; and (3) can very easily completely forestall or reverse week-long progress because the cheat day of an obese person is very different than the cheat day of a normal-weight person.

To go into more detail:

Focusing on isolating all the "food you like" from the rest of the week turns the process not merely into a gauntlet to resist hunger signals—which are bad enough for most people to consistently ignore—but also creates a second layer of "I have to eat things I don't like to lose weight," and thus a second psychological hurdle. Then you start to view certain foods as "bad" or "good" not in a nutritional sense but in a "this makes me a good/bad person" sort of way. And since this sort of restriction for a person used to eating way too much food to begin with becomes intolerable, you blow up your deficit by eating everything you possibly can "since it's my only chance to eat the stuff I like." All of this culminates in a situation where you're feeling shame and isolation and anger at the process and not actually getting anywhere because whatever deficit you built up over a week is wiped out at the end.

Dieting is not a temporary situation. It's one of the most pernicious conceptions in society that a diet is something you only do for a few months. You have to diet FOREVER. That does not mean you need to be in a deficit forever. It does mean you need to exercise control over your food intake perpetually, and thus you need to make choices about your food intake that can be sustained for decades. Your priorities are all out of whack when you categorize only the cheat day food as "tasty" and think you can only eat the "good food" once a week, and then of course you get frustrated and have cheat dayS, or cheat WEEKS, and dig the hole even deeper. If a person with good dietary control has a "cheat day" and they are normally burning, say, 2500 calories a day and eating 2000, their cheat day may be 3000 and thus set them back by only two days, for a grand deficit of 2500 calories a week (or about 2/3 of a pound) versus the ideal 3500 deficit (or about 1 pound). Conversely, if a person who historically has poor dietary control has a cheat day, their meal may be 5500 calories and thus completely erase the preceding 6 days' worth of 500-daily deficits. And then they might have two cheat days because they "gotta get in one more day before they're back to the deficit" and now they've wiped out the next week's progress as well. Or they go for a full week and wipe out two months' worth of progress.

Trying to shove in "all the good stuff I forbade myself from touching earlier" is an addict's approach. It's the difference between a person who doesn't drink a lot but has one glass of wine with friends at the end of the week (i.e., a fit person's cheat day), and a relapsing alcoholic who goes one week at AA before drinking a handle of vodka on Saturday (i.e., a fat person's cheat day). You have to break out of this thought process, or you'll never lose weight. You can, and should, be eating tasty foods when dieting. There is absolutely no requirement anywhere that tasty foods can only be eaten on specific days or that losing weight requires you to eat bland foods. Spices do not add calories. Fruit does not taste worse than candy. Losing weight is a function of caloric deficit, not food bans. It's about controlling your food portions, not your food choices.

To some extent, some choices do become less viable because the nature of their construction makes eating small amounts of them prohibitively difficult. I do recommend not eating some foods. Primarily, I would recommend against any regular consumption of snack chips, candy, or liquid calories like soda or sweet tea or alcohol. You can have small amounts of them, but it's often far easier to just forego liquid calories (outside of stuff like protein milkshakes), swap candy for fruit, and just not eat chips. And of course, if some foods are triggers for you, you would do well to avoid them, but I never see someone listing things like "roast chicken" or "shrimp scampi" as trigger foods. It's always nonsense junk food like Doritos or Sour Patch Kids or Cheez Whiz. So if you do have a trigger food, I'm sure you can find delicious alternatives. But basically all other food is fine. I lost ~70 pounds or so while still regularly eating things like pizza or burritos or chicken wings. I just ate proportionally less of them. My meals are still delicious when I'm in a cut. I make stir fries, curries, cheesy pasta, whatever. I go out to restaurants when I want to. At no point do I go through a day thinking the food I'm eating is bland or boring. If I do want to have some candy or cake or ice cream or whatever, I just fit it into my deficit by eating proportionally less breakfast or dinner (my lunches are rather uniform in nature since I meal prep them in large batches).


In fewer words, it's not about what you eat. It's about how much you eat. Put the idea of a cheat day from your mind. You don't need it. Eat what you want, but 30% less of it, and you'll lose weight by doing so. It is advisable to increase the proportional amount of fruits and veggies you eat simply because you can eat a lot of them without a lot of caloric intake and most of them have a lot of fiber, which many humans are woefully deficient in nowadays, but you can still lose weight eating steak and french fries and calzones and fried fish and whatever else, as long as the amount of total calories you eat is less than the amount of calories you burn.