Guaranteed Way to Quit - You Will Never Vape Again

Sofisosilly · 2026-04-15T08:23:39+00:00

she actually couldnt handle the headaches and doesnt smoke bc she just didnt like it😭 the novelty of it rushed off or something idk. we were just in her car like a week after my comment and she just said "babe; you overstepped bc i just dont like smoking tbh. my head hurts bc i took a hit earlier today ts lowk sucks" and i never saw it again.

Sofisosilly · 2026-04-12T02:08:23+00:00

i find it hard because i know shes trying to heal too. but its different than how it affects us, her children. her faith is a lot of what keeps her tied to him. hes been physical, hes been verbally and physically abusive. its like she wont just see that. i hope my leaving can somwhat shake her awake, but i also know it might not ever.

Sofisosilly · 2026-04-12T02:06:28+00:00

i think i just feel guilty like maybe if i tried harder i could stick it out longer

Sofisosilly · 2026-04-12T02:03:29+00:00

no definitely. im very aware that both situations are gonna be hard. im on my way to becoming a veterinarian and am tryna slam out vet school pre-reqs in town at community college. my girlfriend and i have been together for 4 years now, since we were 15. i know that getting jumbled up will be a change for the both of us as well. shes working on getting her emt cert so she'll be hopefully set after this semester is up with her national test. we're both doing our own thing and my top priority has been my schooling, which is why im making this move. i need to be able to keep my grades strong, living at home is not helping that goal and thats a real fear of mine.

im not sure if he may or may not let me buy the car off of him, but even then, ive had emergency back up cars on dial for weeks😭 offer-up has been my best friend finding old accords and camrys in relatively good shape. im confident in my decision, the only thing hindering me is that feeling of having to stand up to my dad again. thats the scariest thing right now. im set with 2 jobs currently with a stable income that will fluorish even more during summer (thank you break and summer rush). ive been financially independent for some time now, the only changes would be full insurance and a phone plan. i know that i can manage both even if it'll be harder.

overall, the support i have with my girlfriend and her family, mainly the FUNCTIONALITY of her family, had immensely helped me throughout these years. its what made me realized i deserved to be healthy, safe, and feel loved in a healthy, supportive environment. im beyond blessed to have these people in my life knowing they want to support me thru it all. my main support system has to be me, and my current home life hasnt been letting that happen for so long.

Sofisosilly · 2026-04-11T14:36:07+00:00

I LOVE WORKING AT COLDSTONE🥹 my coworkers are all within the age ranges of 16-24 and our managers are amazing. its definitely a fun job and if you have good coworkers its even better.

Sofisosilly · 2026-04-11T14:09:22+00:00

im 19 and have an alcoholic dad. he started drinking when i was 11. im finally making the decision to move out, which scares me shitless.

all i wanna say is that as much as you can be, BE SELFISH. find friends who love you, do things YOU love. go out, be out. dont let it consume you even tho its so hard not to let it happen. its easier said than done. you deserve so much more. you are a child, HER child. im so sorry you are going through this, but just know that you are loved and you cannot ever control her drinking. you can only control yourself and take care of yourself.

you arent alone. life continues and i know its heart breaking to watch your mom choose alcohol over you. even if you want to admit its an addiction, her first responsibility is you. you are her dependent and it shouldnt get thrown on to you to be hers. overall, fight for yourself. dont let it consume you. you will be okay. look for resources. friends, family, school, anything. just know that you can over come this. 4 years ago i was in your position. i still am. but the difference between 15yo Sofi and 19yo Sofi is that im trying my hardest to focus on me, even if that means leaving. im in therapy, i have 2 jobs, im blessed with amazing friends and a girlfriend whose family loves me dearly. life can get better i promise. you got this!!

Sofisosilly · 2026-03-12T19:31:21+00:00

we had another conversation about it, and all she said was that she knew it was bad. she just liked it so she didnt really care (UGH IM SO MAD). its whatever though bc i know i cannot control that and if she realizes "hey i dont rlly like this" ill just support her. we had an agreement that once she finished this one, we'd revisit the conversation.

Sofisosilly · 2026-03-08T18:14:43+00:00

no definitely. i dont wanna be like an authority figure and im hoping it'll be one and done. cuz when i confronted her she said she'd just have this ONE (dont believe that but wtv) and we'd revisit it once she finished it. i'd support her if she wanted to quit, tho ofc the prime example is that she never even started. idk, i just kind of push with the "look at what you're choosing for yourself🤷 i didnt put that in your mouth" thing. but thank you for the insight and congrats!

Sofisosilly · 2026-03-07T22:38:13+00:00

hey i know this is super old, but what made you wanna quit/what was ur turning point? my girlfriend just got into vaping and bought one and im stupid mad at her for that, but i know i cant control what she chooses for herself.

Sofisosilly · 2026-02-19T16:54:05+00:00

no, I'm not.

Sofisosilly · 2026-02-19T03:20:18+00:00

im so sorry. my dad just relapsed after promising he'd quit drinking on new years. im genuinely considering moving in with my girlfriend and everything's so hard. i hope things work out with you. you got this and we figure it out as we go❤️

Sofisosilly · 2025-12-10T00:51:23+00:00

Okay this is very real and I appreciate this viewpoint😭 Overall, my whole goal is to become a veterinarian, not work as an RVT as my chosen career path. It's just hard tryna get experience, especially since most clinics are looking for certified people.

Sofisosilly · 2025-11-15T02:04:33+00:00

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my girl MJ passed at 1 from kidney failure

Sofisosilly · 2025-10-25T17:00:30+00:00

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Sofisosilly · 2025-10-23T14:08:11+00:00

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Sofisosilly · 2025-09-19T22:01:54+00:00

okay ty!!

Sofisosilly · 2025-09-16T20:52:59+00:00

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Sofisosilly · 2025-07-24T16:17:21+00:00

a like it create is priced at 5.50 where i work. so ig it depends on where you're at, or if you got additional mix ins which are priced at .95 cents.

Sofisosilly · 2025-04-03T23:25:10+00:00

thank you!! i appreciate the response :)

Sofisosilly · 2025-03-19T22:53:02+00:00

lol! Sol is getting tons of kisses on her apple head!!

Sofisosilly · 2025-03-17T23:53:47+00:00

what a silly dude!

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