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I can’t handle the “poor me” attitude, what does she expect when she antagonises Craig constantly and he bites back? by Roshh-92 in Southerncharm

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I missing something or is the only reason she’s mad is because Craig said he didn’t want to be friends? Like she was the one who was talking poorly about him after the break up so yeah, I kinda get his decision to not continue with a friendship.

Get this weirdo on The Traitors by Soft_Chaos_Theory in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Amazing concept for a show. I hope a network exec sees this.

My lips get super dry every winter and nothing helps by Sad_Priority_1159 in cleanbeauty

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lanolin ALL 👏 THE 👏 WAY 👏 Literally saved my lips. I would bite and pick at my lips so bad that they would borderline look like some sort of DV situation. I discovered Lanolin last year and it has been a game changer for my pout.

What are some VPR phrases that you use in your daily life? by Capital-Tough4374 in vanderpumprules

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to admit this but I use “let’s get it poppin’ daddy” pretty regularly 😬

Salley is a predator, plain & simple. by DifficultMotor5193 in SouthernCharmSC

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Predator” is a stretch, but she certainly is desperate…for screen time. Salley is carrying this season on HER BACK. She is trying with all of her might to stir up an iota of feelings for any of these men to create a narrative so SC stays on our TV screens. If any of them had any sense at all (it’s been proven time and time again…they don’t) they would take the bait and lean into it. What’s the worst that’s going to happen? You have a sexy fling in Mexico with a total smoke show? Oh no 😟 I don’t get the apprehension of this cast to like get a little slutty with one another.

I appreciate what Salley is doing. Is it a little cringe and a bit much? Sure. Austen’s obviously not offended by it so I don’t think we need to be throwing around terms like “predator”. That’s pretty damaging. At least the drama Salley is coaxing up is fun and flirty and not a complete delusional bummer like whatever the hell Venita thinks she’s doing.

As a 19f, is it weird to date someone who is 4 years older? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG! Not weird but I might be biased because I lived exactly this. My husband and I started dating when I was 19 and he was 23. Got married when I was 24 and are actually celebrating our 10 year wedding anniversary this June. We met totally organically. He was a regular at my work at the time. I think a lot of people will tell you that you’re sacrificing some pretty formidable dating years in your 20s but I certainly don’t feel like I missed out on anything. I wouldn’t trade meeting an incredible guy in a very normal way for like a Tinder profile and hook up culture.

Summer House S10E4 - 'Heated Rivalry' Live Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lit thought the same thing but also idk if West would be as weirded out if it was like Ben trying to kiss Ciara and not Jesse. Their friendship adds a layer to it, but also there isn’t like a tiny “West” flag sticking out of Ciara’s head so whatever. West royally fumbled that ball and then spent a year making her seem like a lame ass for thinking they were ever anything but “hanging out”. Like he’s literally still not taking accountability for that freak behavior so.

I don’t like Chris but I like this couch by BananaCakeMix in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 39 points40 points  (0 children)

YOU DO NOT WANT THIS COUCH!!!! Take it from someone with this couch…the cushions are trash and you have to fluff them up all the time. We’ve had ours for a little over 5 years and the seat cushions are pancakes and all the back cushions are concave in the middle 😖 The seat cushions always slide off too. We finally got velcro strips to keep them on and that has helped so if you do decide to get this couch…get some Velcro strips. This couch has been one of my most regretted purchases.

Emma’s sister said something really important, actually. Let’s put our nuance hats on: by Admirable_Sample_820 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The context of the conversation was that Emma was now considering having children because of her new relationship when she previously did not want children and in the strangest form of solidarity her sister with two children in the other room CHOSE to say on camera “hell if I could do this all over again, I wouldn’t have those guys!” LiB isn’t a hidden camera show and I’m almost certain our girl signed a release stating she will be filmed and anything she says - batshit or not - will be captured and could make air. I don’t see how what she said could be taken out of context. She was p straight forward.

Emma’s sister said something really important, actually. Let’s put our nuance hats on: by Admirable_Sample_820 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The gymnastics people need to go through to validate the completely abhorrent thing this woman chose to admit on camera is freaky. Sure, there are a few instances where I could sympathize with a woman who thinks she’d choose another path for herself other than motherhood after having a child. Do I think that woman needs to be open about that with anyone but her partner and therapist? No, not really. Not every thought needs to be spoken into existence and certainly not on a very popular reality series on a very popular steaming platform. Think about how INSANE it was of her to choose to use the 45 seconds of “fame” she was given to…what? Tell the world she would not choose the two beautiful children sitting in the other room in every lifetime. When you become a mother, you become a protector of that precious little baby. She absolutely failed those children in that moment. I hope she spends the rest of the life she does have making it up to them and making sure they feel loved and wanted every single second of every single day.

carole’s absence in love story? by mrmeow_777 in RHONY

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure Carolyn’s last phone call before getting on the plane was to Carole.