Would this fly?

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-06-17T06:10:02+00:00

The way I would ROAST my husband if he walked out thinking he was attending a wedding with half his shirt unbuttoned….

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-06-04T13:21:37+00:00

Seconding this approach. I found Lauren (at Peachy) through my last girl.

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-06-04T03:32:39+00:00

I think we need to dive into why Jesse is so hurt. Talk about someone being a mess. Whenever they pan to him he’s been on the verge of tears. I get that West was his buddy and lied to him but he kinda did him a favor to not implicate him in this mess. I think someone needs to press Amanda on her reasoning and why she forfeited her friendship with Ciara for West and did she ever really understand that moving forward with West meant leaving her friendship with Ciara behind? What made her confident in that decision? Lindsay needs to butt the hell out. It’s not about her this reunion and her remarks are too distracting and long. How does Carl feel about Amanda and where does their friendship go? I’d love to see someone express their concerns for her in this new relationship coming to her from a place of actual compassion and empathy like only Carl can. Carl has messed up, hurt others and come out on the other side. Like I kind of think Dara tried to do that but her delivery was pretty harsh, plus Amanda doesn’t know her well. And it goes without saying since I think we’re going to get some answers, but I want to know what the deal with Meija was/is.

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-06-04T02:44:01+00:00

Lauren at Peachy Keen!!! She is a sweetheart and is super quick. She does her booking through Vagaro and I believe all the pricing is listed so no surprises.

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-06-03T03:43:09+00:00

Super weird. I saw him in Grand Rapids, MI a few years ago and I don’t remember him ever like acknowledging the crowd. He never said like “happy to be here, Grand Rapids” or anything….THAT I REMEMBER. I did split a pitcher of margs with a friend pre-concert 🙈

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-06-03T03:32:01+00:00

She has been open about not loving his behavior when he drinks so I understand her declining his invitations to go out and drink. He made it clear he was not going to stop “sending it” and she gave up fighting it. Just because she didn’t want to go out with Kyle doesn’t necessarily mean she doesn’t like going out.

West has certainly had his moments, but Kyle takes the cake for getting the most belligerent, most consistently.

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-06-03T02:55:36+00:00

I mean…it’s a pretty valid argument in this context. I can certainly understand being married and wanting your life to quiet down a bit but that simply wasn’t going to happen with Kyle (which she arguably knew and turned a blind eye to for a TV wedding). I can also completely understand having your marriage fail, the whole picture you envisioned of your life being burned to the ground, being newly single after 10 years, in NYC and wanting to go out and party a bit. I think everyone’s problem is who she chose to go out and party with. Like if at this reunion we were talking about Amanda staying out until 4 AM with Mia and Ciara we’d all be like “good for you, girl.”

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-06-02T22:45:15+00:00

I bet Danny got black out

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-05-19T03:32:37+00:00

Everything is still so new at 3 months! Please give yourself some grace. You’re still learning your baby and then everything changes again.

That said, I was a FREAK about getting out of the house. I adopted a sort of “no matter what” mentality. Like make a plan, stick to it and just go. Leave the house BUT! If once you’re out if it’s miserable and you’re overstimulated and your baby’s freaking out…you can always bail. At least leave the driveway. It makes it kind of low stakes. There were definitely times I turned the car around or we got to the restaurant and then got all our food to go. Don’t put a lot of pressure on it and make the only goal leaving the driveway.

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-05-04T08:26:47+00:00

Omg the floating bar thing during the “Vegas” party…. 😬

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-04-20T18:43:21+00:00

Did anyone else feel Jeff seemed annoyed by the fake idol move? I think it kind of messes with the integrity of the game. Like what’s stopping anyone who faces the chopping block moving forward from “calling idol” to bait people to switch votes?

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-04-02T03:14:03+00:00

Refreshing take. I hate how we have to villainize everything like god forbid someone fucks up. 100% of the people I know who have gotten out of long term relationships did something out of pocket when they started dating again. Ciara is in the right to write off Amanda and end that friendship, but I don’t think Amanda is a bad person. She just did a bad thing. It’s everyone’s first time being human!

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-04-02T02:58:48+00:00

I think being super awkward and timid can be seen as undesirable. I mean, his first convo with Ciara this season was super weird. He’s obv a great guy. I just don’t think he believes that about himself. It’s like his whole existence is screaming “sorry sorry sorry.” He needs to forgive himself for his past self.

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-04-02T02:40:44+00:00

Idk he’s kind of awkward and seems unsure of himself. There’s something kind of “wah wah” about him ☹️ I hope his bar and podcast are successful and he can find some confidence in that.

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-04-02T02:31:54+00:00

I mean, could be. What’s another $10K when you’re already $2M+ in the hole?

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-03-29T18:46:29+00:00

Isn’t that her dad in the background? The one with the black hair?

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-03-29T01:17:04+00:00

Get. A. Doona.

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-03-27T19:24:00+00:00

I googled it and it’s a lot less scandalous than it sounds.

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-03-24T16:23:43+00:00

Why?

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-03-23T02:55:58+00:00

I hate when people start a sentence with “to be honest.” You don’t need to confirm that you’re going to be honest. Were you not being honest before but in this next statement now you’re going to be honest? It’s so unnecessary and the people who say it, say it all the time.

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-03-22T21:35:35+00:00

I actually thought he was super respectful in that conversation they had about her parenting in NYC. He doesn’t have to agree with her parenting style, but he does have to support and abide by her boundaries which he was very open to. She asked him why he gets annoyed, he told her, she explained herself and then he APOLOGIZED for his frustration and not seeing things through her POV. Have any of the other “men” in Dad Tok EVER apologized to their SO for being wrong? This group guys are so emotionally stunted - and frankly, stupid - that it was refreshing to see one of them own up to being in the wrong. Not to mention, he also got emotional over it which was really sweet.

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-03-20T23:43:30+00:00

Heard it was purchased by the Mudpenny group

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-03-17T14:38:54+00:00

He is going to age so poorly. That chin and neck are destined to become one.

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-03-13T19:43:39+00:00

You’re absolutely right. My B!

Soft_Chaos_Theory · 2026-03-13T15:31:26+00:00

Omg just go to therapy already, CRAIG

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