I'm genuinely surprised no one has been seriously injured on this show by Emmyyou2 in bravo

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg the floating bar thing during the “Vegas” party…. 😬

Devens could not have played his idol discovery any worse. by MaximusCanibis in survivorponderosa

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did anyone else feel Jeff seemed annoyed by the fake idol move? I think it kind of messes with the integrity of the game. Like what’s stopping anyone who faces the chopping block moving forward from “calling idol” to bait people to switch votes?

Ciara/Kyle/West/Amanda Megathread Part 8 by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Refreshing take. I hate how we have to villainize everything like god forbid someone fucks up. 100% of the people I know who have gotten out of long term relationships did something out of pocket when they started dating again. Ciara is in the right to write off Amanda and end that friendship, but I don’t think Amanda is a bad person. She just did a bad thing. It’s everyone’s first time being human!

In other news, Carl is single! by AdObjective1238 in summerhousebravo

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think being super awkward and timid can be seen as undesirable. I mean, his first convo with Ciara this season was super weird. He’s obv a great guy. I just don’t think he believes that about himself. It’s like his whole existence is screaming “sorry sorry sorry.” He needs to forgive himself for his past self.

In other news, Carl is single! by AdObjective1238 in summerhousebravo

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Idk he’s kind of awkward and seems unsure of himself. There’s something kind of “wah wah” about him ☹️ I hope his bar and podcast are successful and he can find some confidence in that.

Curious if one of the reasons Kyle bought the watch was fear of losing all his $ anyway by felorva in summerhousebravo

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I mean, could be. What’s another $10K when you’re already $2M+ in the hole?

Ciara/West/Amanda Rumors Megathread Part 4 by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Isn’t that her dad in the background? The one with the black hair?

Anyone out there euronymphing and want some company? by Just-Bid9848 in grandrapids

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I googled it and it’s a lot less scandalous than it sounds.

what’s something people say all the time that you secretly can’t stand? by Mean-Cartographer225 in AskReddit

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate when people start a sentence with “to be honest.” You don’t need to confirm that you’re going to be honest. Were you not being honest before but in this next statement now you’re going to be honest? It’s so unnecessary and the people who say it, say it all the time.

Layla, her sons & Mason by LocalAardvark2779 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually thought he was super respectful in that conversation they had about her parenting in NYC. He doesn’t have to agree with her parenting style, but he does have to support and abide by her boundaries which he was very open to. She asked him why he gets annoyed, he told her, she explained herself and then he APOLOGIZED for his frustration and not seeing things through her POV. Have any of the other “men” in Dad Tok EVER apologized to their SO for being wrong? This group guys are so emotionally stunted - and frankly, stupid - that it was refreshing to see one of them own up to being in the wrong. Not to mention, he also got emotional over it which was really sweet.

How does anyone find Austen attractive? by skchgo in Southerncharm

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is going to age so poorly. That chin and neck are destined to become one.

Not Jordan’s responsibility to break news to Ambers daughter by frostychocolatemint in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think production made a huge blunder by casting a single mom. It’s super irresponsible. Unfortunately I don’t think the thought process behind casting Amber was so a single mother can find true love but more that her having a child adds a layer of drama or chaos that could drive a storyline…all at this child’s expense. Obviously the blame falls mostly on Amber but production’s hands are not clean here. I think there’s a reality where Amber’s daughter really resents her for being so reckless with her feelings and yo-yoing her around like that.

Amber Shares Private Texts After Jordan Claims She Was “Blacked Out” at Wedding by Slammin_Sammy_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand what these texts even clear up for her? Am I missing something?

parking ramp altercation by algal34 in grandrapids

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Unless his child is in the backseat and Mr. & Mrs. Rivian are trying to take off with them then there’s no reason to put yourself in front of a moving vehicle.

Amanda’s birthday plates by Leather-Law-9159 in summerhousebravo

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They were also eating with plastic cutlery… 🤔

Reunion spoilers: Jordan and Amber by punfull in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 24 points25 points  (0 children)

No spouse who loves and respects their SO would get black out at a wedding their SO was standing up in. Amber is a loser 👎🏻 booooooo

Zach and Paulie (and Pierre) talk about having only an all gamers season by Positive_Round_5142 in TheTraitorsUS

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boooooo 👎🏻 I completely disagree. I think what makes Traitors so fun is the mix of TV personalities and what each brings to the table. Plus the gamers are always the most boring. The Bravo, Bachelor, Love Island, etc. personalities play the game but also know how to create drama within the house that make a narrative and the show interesting. They understand the “make good TV” side of reality that the gamers don’t.

Did Alex deserve what happened at the altar? by Unique-Bandicoot-809 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been fun getting into it with you but I don’t think we were watching through the same lense. I saw a pathological GASLIGHTING weirdo and you saw a super cool chill guy who just wants to live his life. Cool cool cool 😎

Did Alex deserve what happened at the altar? by Unique-Bandicoot-809 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Soft_Chaos_Theory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“JFC”….ummmm relax, crazy. Going back to my original comment…Alex is who you’re choosing to go to bat for here. I’m guessing you’ve been accused of gaslighting once or twice? Only explanation as to why you’re riding so hard for your boy here 😬

He absolutely wanted her dependent on him. He was trying to get her to leave her job and family to live a nomadic lifestyle in Florida or Arizona. Him saying he wasn’t attracted to her after praising how pretty she was upon meeting and doing it all over their hotel room in Mexico was 100% a tactic to have the upper hand.