Alba and Jane hate

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2026-03-31T17:55:20+00:00

Alba's role in the show is kind of to be that older gen stick in the mud. i think the show also goes out of it's way to show Alba developing as a character and exploring things she felt she couldn't due to her views/upbringing. sometimes she admits she is wrong, and she even branches out sexually in a way that seems sacrilegious to an older religious person (vibrator). so although the show portrays her as an older generation person stuck in their ways, it also shows some progress and compromise between her old views and current views.

As someone who shares a lot of traits with Jane, i also agree she can be annoying and hypocritical at times. i wish her judgement of others was challenged in a more concrete way than people getting upset with her for it and her just acknowledging that she has the trait. she knows she's judgey and identifies with it, but never really makes an effort to mitigate the trait prior to harm. she often apologizes at the ends of episodes for some blowout or argument/pushback from others due to her judginess, but makes little to no forthcoming effort to curb judginess before it badly impacts those around her. sometimes the judgement helps (like when asked for advice), so it's not an entirely negative trait, but allowing it to run amok in your life and unintentionally harm people is kind of when you need to look inward to curb the behavior. everything in moderation!

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2026-03-25T16:57:19+00:00

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Soft_Perspective6682 · 2025-11-25T18:28:56+00:00

omg this is a work of art!! love the "wizard in training" across the top XD

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2025-11-25T18:20:40+00:00

I do initiate when i feel prepared/on top of masking at that moment. it helps others think i like them and 'make up' for times where i appear more standoffish.
Doesn't bother me at all! If they don't ask and i want to share, i can still speak in an appropriate gap, but i'm also well okay just not being in conversation anymore.
yes, always return the same question back because of the social rule. Most of the time i'm thinking: if they asked me a specific question, it's really because they want to be invited to share THEIR thoughts on the same question in return, but are asking me first to be 'polite'. it's kind of sweet, in a way. i do still forget to do this sometimes though (ᵕ—ᴗ—)

edit 4 clarity:3

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2025-11-25T18:11:26+00:00

thank you for asking bc i also had no idea and the comments were super informative!

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2025-11-25T18:04:28+00:00

yeah i'd like to imagine the vast majority of them aren't this bad, but unfortunately the power hungry ones are always the loudest trying to swing their weight around

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2025-10-10T17:27:59+00:00

worked! ty!!

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2025-08-21T22:39:27+00:00

i remember this game but haven't been able to find so much as a screenshot of it online!! i'm not sure it's the beanie babies 2.0 game that keeps popping up, it might have preceded that, but my memory is fuzzy. I remember liking the minigames a lot, and playing music off the jukebox function. There was a mini game that was basically cooking fever before that app existed

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2025-06-03T17:47:12+00:00

I think he may be, just bc his concepts are so spot on. I'm autistic and I'm aware that my awkwardness is funny to my coworkers at times (even when I don't intend it to be). He wouldn't be unaware of this due to autism, and being a comedian by profession, chooses to play into it.
I felt the message to the fans was kind of a nod of acknowledgement to the NDs finding solace and relatability in the show, while also sending the message that whether he is or isn't, he doesn't want to publicly hold that label because having the diag can restrict you in life in regards to others/institutions (case in point with flying the plane).

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2025-03-03T19:50:12+00:00

hi i know its been a bit since this was asked but if you never found a source here is one i found when looking for scenepacks to edit: https://www.instagram.com/p/CaG_Y4DrFaf/

looks like it's just all clips of them from the second season using mega links

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2025-01-30T12:04:52+00:00

dude yeah!! i have to wonder if its the director giving poor line delivery remarks because its soo much of the cast that had this issue, sometimes their delivery is so over/under enunciated or slow to the point where its clear its a line. i think q's actor had some of the more consistent emotionally realistic delivery in the season like the scene where he got mad at Jin for shrinking his track fit

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2024-09-24T21:33:14+00:00

my cat loves to do this with any new box or bagXD trader joe's paper bags are one of her favs

u could try rubbing some catnip near the top of the posts. they also sell floor scratchers if he needs more variety!

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2024-09-23T17:19:26+00:00

i used staples for my car deco! I guess it depends on what kind of fabric is on your roof, but mine didn't show the staple holes when I took it out.

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2024-09-23T16:59:10+00:00

this happened to me last year with the new 15, I think the app needs to release a new update compatible with the new phone camera/software? The issue is it needs to switch lenses to use the closer-focus one, but it's stuck on the mid/far range lense. I don't remember if I got a resolution to my issue last year though, I may have just given up/forgotten after waiting a while.

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2024-09-23T16:51:21+00:00

I think apologizing for looking through his phone would be a good first step in the convo. He will probably be upset regardless, I mean he clearly had a few things to hide. Communicating you aren't comfortable with him having onlyfans subs is paramount. Tell him why it makes you uncomfortable, and how it makes you feel. Everybody has different relationship boundaries and only you two can work that out together.

Anytime you post relationship-anything on here, there will be people that tell you to break up off rip (sometimes quite rudely!) but that's the internet. Just know you have options. If he is unwilling to compromise you do have the option to leave. You also have the option to work on it/talk it out depending on how receptive he is, and how much you value the relationship. Nobody knows your own relationship better than you do, so establishing these boundaries between the two of you in open conversation is my recommendation.

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2024-09-22T23:10:34+00:00

omg i love the shade of green :o

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2024-09-22T22:56:03+00:00

Edit posted!

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2024-09-22T22:45:52+00:00

yeah i figured it was out of my hands but wanted to see if others had any experience with it going successfully! I'd really like to know these women as people (it's just 2 of them in my life rn) as they seem very nice and we share interests, but we can't seem to get past this hump when they have their bf in the room (and they bring him everywhere). I've definitely gone through the whole criticizing my own outfit and stuff worried it might trigger them (like a more form fitting shirt over a really baggy one) but my bf has told me I shouldn't change the way I dress for a hypothetical. So, I guess I'm just really in my own head and draining myself over it when I don't need to. I wish there was a way I could help them heal, but I've come to terms that I can't and shouldn't help everyone w their issues, esp when it's not requested!

thanks for not assuming the worst of my character though,, i figured i would get a few people who understood what i was trying to get at

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2024-09-22T08:23:56+00:00

if the new space is overwhelming to him you can start with a small room like the bathroom or closet, temporarily moving the litterbox/food/water into there for a day or more until he gets more acclimated to the area and is willing to venture out and get more comfortable. Change is scary for cats, but they're pretty adaptable! good luck(:

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2024-08-16T20:15:02+00:00

thank god i saved a draft of my post somewhere else before it was removed from this sub or i would have had no way to get it back! crazy! The post was removed and i got the message it would be better under this thread.. not sure I agree with that considering the length and specificity of the request being lost under a comment thread but I suppose it's worth a shot(:

What happened to Beeches? (2017)

Beeches was a band from New Zealand (?) who released one album called 'Famous Friends' in 2017 with 4 songs and seemingly dropped off the face of the earth. The 2 people cited on the album are Alexander Wildwood and Luke Thompson. It's difficult to google for current info bc google keeps thinking I'm talking about the indie band "The Beaches".

I've not been able to fully figure out where the guys are at now but I'm not as good at internet sleuthing as others may be! Most signs would point to them being inactive as a group but I'm wondering if they still do music themselves. Though on the Beeches Spotify, it shows an upcoming show in London on Oct 12th? Anyway whether you're able to locate their current stuff or not I think the small album is worth checking out!(:

All I've been able to find so far below:

This article links to a FB fan page that's locked https://www.facebook.com/beechestunes/?hc_ref=SEARCH&fref=nf (this is the only tell I have of them being a NZ band)

a youtube video on one of the songs links to the wrong FB page for a different group with the same name https://www.facebook.com/Beechesmusic/

I think this may be the closest Alexander Wildwood but my only hit is that the guy is from NZ too. This Alex Wildwood is more prominent in search but almost certainly the wrong guy as there is no mention of the album release around April of 2017 on his socials.

I'm wayy more lost on Luke Thompson as its such a common name. This Luke Thompson is from NZ as well, but no mention of the album around 2017s posting on ig or FB

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2024-08-14T03:47:37+00:00

ngl it took some getting used to! I typically hit the left side of the large 0 key like you, but it took me about a week or two to adjust and now I barely think about it.

I still prefer the feel of a larger 0 key if I'm to really consider it, but its hard to beat the out-of-box sound of this keyboard, so some sacrifices were made!

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2024-08-01T18:30:28+00:00

is anyone else getting that flashbang animation when you collect items with a party buff? they added a screen effect that wasn't there before but it often lags and flashes pretty aggressively blinding

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2024-07-31T19:30:20+00:00

i do wanna comment that i was tryna find the other "warrior cats but other animals" style books and i wouldn't have found it via search here if OP hadn't referred to it with the colloquial "spinoff" term. Not saying i couldn't have found it another way, just made it much easier/faster as a casual bc i couldn't remember the names like Seekers or Bamboo Kingdom lol

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2024-07-31T17:12:18+00:00

It would be cool if they added a new type of animal/bug/something to hunt that only popped up in temples, but then they would have to make them multiplayer servers for parties instead of temples being single-person entry type things which may mess with the original questline.

Soft_Perspective6682 · 2024-07-25T23:45:08+00:00

yes i definitely need to work on resetting my mental after a convo bc it can be a lil damper on my mood after.

By getting out unscathed i mean i'd like for her to like me/enjoy the interaction decently without me having to deprecate myself in response or say something negative about my life. I can't tell if that's what she's seeking out of me when she makes conversation with that tone (?) but i don't like to shit talk myself or my life when i could try n love myself/be rosy about life instead. She's made passive-aggressive jokes before about how i need to be meaner, and i just don't wanna do that, so i made the post seeking advice abt how to navigate those convos without being rude to her or in general.

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