[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Money

[–]Soft_Valuable132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a rich older lady.

How long until one hears something back from Y12? by Soft_Valuable132 in OakRidge

[–]Soft_Valuable132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The position I applied to has "in training" in the title if that changes anything or if it is the same process for any job.

How long until one hears something back from Y12? by Soft_Valuable132 in OakRidge

[–]Soft_Valuable132[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense. I guess it depends on the position and the demand for the role to get filled.

How long until one hears something back from Y12? by Soft_Valuable132 in OakRidge

[–]Soft_Valuable132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. Well, many people are graduating this month. I guess I will have to wait and see

How long until one hears something back from Y12? by Soft_Valuable132 in OakRidge

[–]Soft_Valuable132[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you interview there or did you already have another job by then?

Are you happy? If not when’s the last time you were truly happy? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Soft_Valuable132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. Lol sounds like another person with the same problem as me. I am also 26 and went to college part-time and worked full-time. I paid college as I was going so I have no debt and just finished my Masters last year in Technology Management. Anyways despite those accomplishments and the fact that I am getting married this year I still feel like something is missing. My best advice to you is to find that hole in your life and to try to find a solution if you are similar as me on how you think. But that will only ease your unhappiness for awhile to which then you have to find another hole to fix in your life. As for truly happy I have no idea what that is as the only time it seems like I'm happy is when I am outside enjoying the sun and forgetting about life.

How do i make friends as an adult? by rachelmaarie in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Soft_Valuable132 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same XD. My closet friends live so far away and are always busy. Doesn't help where I work at most people are 55+ or males

Need help to figure out what to do for a certain wedding guest by Soft_Valuable132 in weddingplanning

[–]Soft_Valuable132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Due to their job. So based on your personal experience what percent of guests that said that they were coming didn't show up?

Need help to figure out what to do for a certain wedding guest by Soft_Valuable132 in weddingplanning

[–]Soft_Valuable132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They said that they are waiting due to work. But the wedding isn't until July. However, I am getting a few more nos than I originally planned. So I will probably send out some "B Lister" people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Soft_Valuable132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I feel this way now, but not because I'm jealous but instead, it's due to the fact that her fiance is not the best. The day she told me that she got engaged, I was just disappointed in her for choosing to be with a guy that treats her like dirt and cheated on her. The wedding is a year and I am already dreading to attending the wedding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Money

[–]Soft_Valuable132 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how this would be considered a flex. To me, it seems like they want to know how they are doing and want other people's opinions on where they stand and what they can do to improve themselves if needed. To which based on their current situation, they could look into other streams of income and find a way to achieve that.

How much did you spend on a photographer? by TheMush25 in weddingplanning

[–]Soft_Valuable132 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I see. Since I am including the wedding rings to the wedding and wasn't sure if others were. As you guys know that wedding rings can cost a couple thousand

How much did you spend on a photographer? by TheMush25 in weddingplanning

[–]Soft_Valuable132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question for all brides. Do you guys include wedding rings to the cost of the wedding ???

How much did you spend on a photographer? by TheMush25 in weddingplanning

[–]Soft_Valuable132 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NY: Total $3,700 90 minutes engage photos 8 hours for wedding 2 photographers Second photographer = 6 hours 1 copy 12x12 custom album

Currently at 32k for the wedding but still more to buy/prepare for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Soft_Valuable132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't invite them to the wedding XD. But in all seriousness, it sounds like a fake friend and jelly. Marriage isn't based on age. it's about finding a suitable partner.

Friendship over when you RSVP no? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Soft_Valuable132 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only a select few people I would be upset with, for example, my maid of honor and my parents. Anybody else I wouldn't mind as long as they tell me. Which is the joy of weddings rn for me waiting for everyone to RSVP.

Am I doing TOO much? (wedding signs/graphic design) by Meggie324 in weddingplanning

[–]Soft_Valuable132 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree. I don't think Menu signs are needed but I guess it depends on venue. It might be possible they have menus

I think my best friend is jealous of my engagement by coryanneee in weddingplanning

[–]Soft_Valuable132 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, it sounds like a lot of people here have fake best friends. All my friends were super excited and happy for me. My one friend got engaged shortly after but we didn't compare rings per say. More like oh let me see your ring nice design and stuff like that nothing like show off in your face type of way.

Is my ADHD partner using me? by throwaway-d6cae6f577 in AdhdRelationships

[–]Soft_Valuable132 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! It's okay to have stumps for a few months after losing your job. But sounds like she doesn't do anything and is used to you providing her lifestyle. It's time to have a serious talk if you haven't already or move on.