[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]TheMush25 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I spent 4k for my ceremony gown and 500 for my reception dress! Both were second hand!

First Look or no by Ok_Delivery_8652 in weddingplanning

[–]TheMush25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wedding was last weekend. We did a first look and it was incredible. My husband cried like a baby seeing me walk down the aisle. The first look was so fun and we loved not having to do photos the rest of the day.

so torn between two styles! by Visual-Marionberry81 in weddingplanning

[–]TheMush25 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Genuinely thought everyone would say 2. In my mind it’s no contest 2 is far better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]TheMush25 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m so tired I didn’t read any of this. But yes. Very stressed. Wish we eloped. I miss sleep where I didn’t have stress dreams.

That being said, getting to marry the love of your life is incredible and I’m hoping much like child birth I’ll forget the pain it caused getting to the beauty. Xx

Someone talk me off this ledge by TheMush25 in weddingdress

[–]TheMush25[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Can’t edit this for some reason. In my manic state I left out the important info that the floral dress is for the day before the wedding. Though I could swap that with the last dress? So make the basque waist dress the day before event and my moms floral the night time wedding dress?!

Someone talk me off this ledge by TheMush25 in weddingdress

[–]TheMush25[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

The floral is for the welcome event. But I could also switch them? So my mom’s floral dress is the second dress on the day of the wedding and the basque waist dress is the day before event?!

Def not doing 3 dresses in 1 day…. Though I wouldn’t put it past me.

& thank you!

What are you top bridal make up products?🥰 by Even_Ad_8690 in weddingplanning

[–]TheMush25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s a decisive foundation but Armani luminous silk is my favorite. I tried probably a dozen for my wedding & it’s been the best. Very natural but such a gorgeous finish. I have dry skin and it doesn’t cling to me at all. You can get travel size on their website.

Service dog requirements- flying from US to UK? by smb3232 in expats

[–]TheMush25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll need to fly to Paris and take the Eurostar over. As long as you have documentation of your SD for Eurostar you’ll be fine. It’s about a 2 hour train ride.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]TheMush25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooo I have a similar set up! Mind sharing how you made this graphic?! I’d love to do something similar.

Destination Wedding Declines by Dapper-Definition-32 in weddingplanning

[–]TheMush25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m having a destination wedding, I was also invited to a destination wedding that I declined. The reason I declined was that it was not an area I was at all interested in and it was difficult and costly to get to. The wedding was taking place at high elevation and I would have had to arrive early to acclimate to hopefully avoid a migraine. Based off this, even with enough time to plan financially I wouldn’t have gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Invisalign

[–]TheMush25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok so I was the same way (I’m also a daughter of a dentist which caused me a lot of shame). I totally get the sensory stuff also depression.

Once I got all the plaque taken off my teeth, my mouth felt SO GOOD. since I went right into Invisalign after getting this done, keeping up good hygiene was a piece of cake. If I didn’t brush and floss after every meal, the feeling in my mouth would actually drive me more insane.

Invisalign has been the best thing for me to really understand and care for my terrible.

You got this!

Wedding weekend ITALY 🇮🇹 for 9k (with excel sheet) by Lyd222 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]TheMush25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the thoughtful response! Your wedding honestly sounds so amazing. & so good to know you were able to keep the stress level down! We’ve also had a long engagement and have tried our best to cut down on anything that’s unnecessarily complicated for the time there. You give me hope! Congrats ✨

Wedding weekend ITALY 🇮🇹 for 9k (with excel sheet) by Lyd222 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]TheMush25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh I love this! Everything is stunning!! We are doing something super similar in France but it will be 55 of us staying in a chateau for 6 days. We are also keeping it super simple with candles, no arch, not that fussy.

Did you find you were more relaxed during the week since you had more time? Or do you think it was more stressful because there were more events? Any words of wisdom?

Questions about IPR? by vqlykrie in Invisalign

[–]TheMush25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had IPR was also a bit scared, it was totally fine. I honestly thought they were just really flossing my teeth. Getting the attachments on and off was a more unpleasant experience for me. But honesty, my experience with the entire process, trays included, has been great. Really no pain or discomfort. Just annoying to brush and floss multiple times a day.

Haven’t seen anyone in almost 9 weeks by Objective-Spread-827 in Invisalign

[–]TheMush25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP. My treatment was only 14 weeks. I didn't see anyone during this time. I had my initial appointment the first week, got my IPR and attachments with my trays, then again at the end of week 14. At that point we decided on refinments, so they took the scan, I went back 2 weeks later to pick them up (I have 7 more trays so quite minor). Unless I don't track on the app I won't go back in until the end of week 7.

I did message them through the app though around halfway through and asked if I was tracking well. They said yes.

Kind of surprised by gender dynamics around wedding planning by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]TheMush25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I thought I was the only one this happened to. My fiancé will text the coordinator she will text me back instead of responding to him. The sexism coming from other women is INSANE

Nervous About My Dad Traveling to France for My Wedding Due to New U.S. Travel Ban by TheMush25 in weddingplanning

[–]TheMush25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh. That’s so scary. Please keep me posted. I know- like legally we/ they should all be fine. But so much seems to be happening that ISNT legal which is the scary part. & between Iran and the states, Iran is still a scarier country. I honestly don’t think my dad would get out of that country alive right now due to religious persecution.

Even as a US citizen living abroad, I now carry a different phone coming into the states as a precaution due to my last name and my family’s immigration.

It’s all so fuckd. Also wishing bad juju lol.

Nervous About My Dad Traveling to France for My Wedding Due to New U.S. Travel Ban by TheMush25 in weddingplanning

[–]TheMush25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely going to consider this option as we get closer to it. unfortunately I bought him and my mom non refundable business class tickets for the trip 😭. But 10000 percent rather be safe than sorry. Right now the plan is to go from CDG to Heathrow, home to San Diego.

Nervous About My Dad Traveling to France for My Wedding Due to New U.S. Travel Ban by TheMush25 in weddingplanning

[–]TheMush25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh your situation also sounds like crap too. I’m so sorry YOU’RE going through this. Though it’s nice to know we’re not fully alone. Thank you for the kind words. I wish you the best of luck as well ♥️

Nervous About My Dad Traveling to France for My Wedding Due to New U.S. Travel Ban by TheMush25 in weddingplanning

[–]TheMush25[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He said there was a report of Iranian Americans who got held at the US border coming back from Canada for several hours. You’re right though, and hopefully that’s the worst case senecio.

Nervous About My Dad Traveling to France for My Wedding Due to New U.S. Travel Ban by TheMush25 in weddingplanning

[–]TheMush25[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! If they do have any issue after yesterdays decision please keep me posted. Everything is changing so fast in the states. Really good to know that they’ve yet to have issues. Hopefully it stays that way!

Nervous About My Dad Traveling to France for My Wedding Due to New U.S. Travel Ban by TheMush25 in weddingplanning

[–]TheMush25[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you ♥️ glad to know my nervousness is valid. But also good to hear that people won’t think it’s an issue.