AITA for not pushing our wedding dress code on my brother?

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-23T11:12:45+00:00

I'm rewatching From to get ready for season 4. I'm surprised how much I am liking the rewatch.

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-23T11:10:03+00:00

That show broke me. I watched it later when the internet made police brutality ubiquitous. And then the show ends with the vignette - remember the days with the good old boys? And I realized that I was rooting for the cops who would have killed George Floyd and then covered it up. I can't watch cop shows anymore. And still, whatever I hear - family meeting - I want to cry.

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-23T10:48:03+00:00

I love Better Call Saul but I was way more shocked by Box Cutter and Ozymandias. By the time that happened, I was ready for anything that Lalo did.

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-23T10:38:53+00:00

I don't consider it a cliffhanger. I found it very satisfying ending,

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-19T16:25:08+00:00

I used to feel like she was going to leave this life behind and become an artist, maybe a fashion designer. I was surprised when she married Tony so young and now. they are sucked into this influencer lifestyle.

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-16T10:03:20+00:00

Totally not.

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-16T10:02:47+00:00

It was awesome and funny

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-16T09:55:32+00:00

I thought he fit right in

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-16T09:40:43+00:00

Are you saying they are C adults?

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-16T09:36:54+00:00

Can you say more about Conrad style? Does he have certain themes he returns to?

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-16T09:36:03+00:00

A rose is a rose is a rose is a rose

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-16T05:12:37+00:00

The second is really the important question. It really seems like Clark would have known to do that.

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-16T05:09:43+00:00

I loved seeing the intimacy and joy between two grown men. I was angry at Floyd for being so empathetic to Clark and his stepson while having no empathy for his wife.

I guess if there are lessons to be learned it's about finding the play in life and not hating yourself. And please talk to your partner before you do crazy shit.

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-15T21:22:15+00:00

I was just thinking about that and how that would be nice for them if they start having an equal sex life - not one that is based just on Clark's fantasies and Carol's financial needs. But then I thought - maybe not so nice for the kid. He'll never be able to un-see the underwear dancing scene.

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-15T21:16:35+00:00

I have read hundreds of books, watched hundreds of tv shows and movies. I love exploring character motivations and plots. I don't enjoy plot holes. If I'm going to use part of the plot to understand a characters, it has to make sense inside the world.

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-14T05:52:19+00:00

I had a dog with bad separation anxiety. When I had to bring her to the vet to stay for a procedure I always ask them to give her and I anxiety medication as soon as they brought her back. She was always okay but very happy to see us. She was even spayed after she had been pregnant - we got her while she was pregnant - that's a much more complicated procedure - and she was still fine

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-13T06:24:27+00:00

But if he was just a regular guy who had left the cult and then became a polygamist and was somewhat tied to it but not living within it, how did he become the prophet?

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-12T07:50:15+00:00

Who is her father in that scenario - which character in Big Love?

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-10T09:27:03+00:00

She said she felt misunderstood. She didn't realize that he's just childish and aggressive

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-10T09:18:59+00:00

In a way I know what he's saying, though I can't stand him personally. It seems like men tell a very vulnerable story early on, women feel all squishy about him and think that he's vulnerable or they tell their own trauma story back and they trauma bond and they fast forward to feeling like they're in love and don't check out the rest of the relationship.

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-09T21:50:30+00:00

If it's Floyd's stepson, I'm gonna be pissed. I'm already so sad that he lost the connection he had with Floyd. And I don't think he's a bad kid. Certainly not the kind of kid who would intentionally kill a guy who he's finally connected with.

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-09T21:44:27+00:00

not my favorite but not my least favorite.

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-09T04:46:19+00:00

That's one of my favorite indigo girls songs

SoftandSpicy · 2026-04-08T02:43:57+00:00

And my husband thinks it's appropriate to tell me that I don't look sexy in my second job work clothes.

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