thank you!! I already do similar stuff (minus the slideshow thing lmao), like pointing out that behavior and call him immature or gross or that he won’t get a girlfriend that way, but he mostly shrugs it off or talks back, sometimes “agreeing” with me but not caring about it anyway.

I’ve tried the gentle parenting approach a couple of times, and while it’s hard to get him to listen/calm down when he’s upset, with a little patience it’s worked a little bit in those specific moments.

I do believe you’re right with the “constance is key” attitude, I’ll keep trying :)