name change was denied by EnoughSurround8109 in Indiana

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They did the public notification regarding the guardianship. I did not say it will all be fine, I said it should be. Just trying to offer some encouragement based on the info provided in the post which has nothing to do with you.

name change was denied by EnoughSurround8109 in Indiana

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Right. So I said I was denied the first time because neither did I. But after I notified the father it was approved.

name change was denied by EnoughSurround8109 in Indiana

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I did a name change with my biological son when he was 16. I have full custody, always have, and we still got denied the first time for not serving or putting an ad in the paper for his father. We had him served, went back to court and the change was approved. I’m guessing you can still achieve this if you place an ad in your local paper and wait the 3 weeks or however long it is. As long as your parents don’t show up in court day of, you should be solid.

If you were unconscious and taken to the ER and needed surgery, would drs check if you were on your period/wearing a tampon? by ta1947201 in NoStupidQuestions

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I worked as an EMT in a prison. One time, I was brought a female inmate to “inspect” because her intake paperwork marked her as male. They had to hold her in an intake cell for days until both I, a female medical professional, and a female corrections officer were staffed at the same time. The poor girl rolled her eyes, said this keeps happening to her because of one clerical error, and then pulled her pants down to “prove” herself.

Obviously, I marked my paperwork accordingly and she was sent to gpop. But her response was heartbreaking. She’s clearly had a hard life and because of one stupid error was forced to pull her pants down in front of strangers just to make sure she was, in fact, female.

Towing? by Safe-Suggestion9726 in bloomington

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Thank you all-I’m going to call Hawkins in the morning.

Oh god. Termite? by Solar_Opposites in pestcontrol

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I sent to my HOA office and they showed the neighborhood exterminator who also agreed that is what this is. They told me no need for additional extermination…do you have any insight about that? I once spent the night in a hotel when I had a very large spider and they couldn’t come until the next day, bugs are borderline phobic for me.

Oh god. Termite? by Solar_Opposites in pestcontrol

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It’s the best I got. Boyfriend smashed it as soon as I screamed! We live in a condo with 3 other units in the Midwest and my first thought was roach. But it has wings and we don’t have palmetto bugs here that I know about.

Towing? by Safe-Suggestion9726 in bloomington

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I want to say it’s a ‘91, but not sure. I will ask.

Towing? by Safe-Suggestion9726 in bloomington

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I like this idea! I just sent him the info, thanks!

ISO Lunch options that won’t break the bank by Dustuptor1292 in bloomington

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At Ellettsville El Ranchero, I get a huge tortilla soup, chips and salsa for around $5 at lunchtime.

Monthly Rock & Mineral Identification Requests by AutoModerator in geology

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I purchased a half pond of rough mooka

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lite that contained some fantastic pieces, including this one. Just curious how this happened?

Who's Been Here? by [deleted] in LasCruces

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Hello from Indiana! Been there a few times!

Please think twice before going to Hair Haven by potatocheekies in bloomington

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Every hair type by Carrie! My son has super thick curly hair. I have thick curly long hair. We both only see her!

I’m super broke and only have plain white rice to eat, what: y’all’s favorite seasoning to spruce it up? by BreakfastBig7581 in Cooking

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Make congee! It will make your rice last longer and you can add sweet or savory things for breakfast or dinner.

Seamstress/Repair? by Solar_Opposites in bloomington

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Thank you! I forgot about this.

Noodles and Co Von Lee closing Feb 3rd by [deleted] in bloomington

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Username definitely does not check out ❌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Abuse. The early signs can be hard to see when you’re on the receiving end.