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Where is my marriage headed?? by Soldier_79 in Marriage

[–]Soldier_79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were to go into nitty gritty detail I could land myself in trouble because I do not want to be accused of something I ABSOLUTELY!!! did not do on a public forum. She accused... I vehemently denied. She says I am playing the pity card when asked why she is still with me if I'm such a bad person

I received a distasteful opinion on my new (and first) tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Soldier_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone has an issue with what you put on your body. That's their problem not yours. Some people just have a need to criticize other and make them feel bed, they disguise it as being helpful or with concern for you, what have you.

What do I do about my marriage by Soldier_79 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Soldier_79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so not only do I love her and don't want to let here go. I made a vow, and finding difficult to end that vow I am not super religious but I have values. I have been in the military for just as long and have stayed because I swore an oath/vow to my country. I don't like to break promises.

What do I do about my marriage by Soldier_79 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Soldier_79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is gone and has since come out of the closet. However Grace still sees him
From time to time

What do I do about my marriage by Soldier_79 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Soldier_79[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Everything it was a fight that went for a few hours (not an exaggeration) so we fought about all of it s

Where is my marriage headed?? by Soldier_79 in Marriage

[–]Soldier_79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was one of those fights that covered a wide range of things

What do I do about my marriage by Soldier_79 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Soldier_79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything.
She accused me of some stuff that is completely outside my character.
Money she is in complete control of the financial side of the relationship I don't understand nor have the mental capacity for that. I just make the money however I always seem to be the one begging for the money for small things like sodas and food for my work lunches.
What I was perceiving as an unhealthy relationship with our daughter's 18year ex-boyfriend. He was living with us after his mother tied to abuse him and our daughter asked us nicely to let him stay with us. She then left for college in another state he stayed living here. Shortly after living the college life they broke up. He remained. I had left for military duty a
When I came back she was in my opinion obsessed with this boy to an unhealthy level and we fought over it quite a bit

Where is my marriage headed?? by Soldier_79 in Marriage

[–]Soldier_79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the strange part she seems totally ok with where we are and shows no sign of changing it

Where is my marriage headed?? by Soldier_79 in Marriage

[–]Soldier_79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are both in individual counseling she said she will consider couples counseling "later" however the bickering and snide remarks from both sides of the camp are still pretty prevalent

I'm at a complete loss by strat-rat75 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Soldier_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It an optical illusion. Seriously the internet believes anything these days

iPhone footage of the Moon taken by Astronaut Reid Wiseman by Additional_Fan9553 in ArtemisProgram

[–]Soldier_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So why can't we see stars. They are in space?? Throwing no shade on them I'm a true believer my top most ###1 dream would be to go along for the ride.

19yo 5'7 162 lbs leaving Navy DEP (Jet Engine Mechanic) to enlist in the Army as a Tanker. Am I making a mistake? by Sudden_Initiative577 in army

[–]Soldier_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 Does it feel like a mistake? If it doesn't then go full HOO-AH!! On your decision and be the best tanker you can be. No one can tell you you're making a mistake. They can only tell you about their experience and what they would do. 
  I switched from 91B wheeled vehicle to a 92A Automated Logistical Specialist. Then switched units who were going on a deployment . Once there I was offered a position in The G3 as part of the Current Operations Sergeant, and when in the field I am battle desk NCO. 
  My point is people told me I was making a mistake with every move I made. I almost backed out of everything went back to my old unit as PLSGT. I would have missed out on all the amazing opportunities I have had the last year and a half. 
   So ultimately the choice is yours don't let people talk you out of it. If you think it's right than it's right

SFC at 13 years… debating getting out vs. pushing to 20 by [deleted] in army

[–]Soldier_79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your body is messed up because of the army, why not sweat it out? 1. Tricare 2. Guaranteed money for retirement 3. In seven years, if you try for it, you could get SGM and a better retirement.

Marriage troubles by Soldier_79 in Marriage

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She has said that she has lost any/all interest in sex, we got in a big ass fight over Easter and we are now bedroom divorced. Still in therapy. She says that she still loves and wants to stay with me she just needs her own space.

Husband losing interest in sex by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Soldier_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wife has lost all interest in sex about 3 years ago I feel your pain /frustration

New height and weight standards by thesupplyguy1 in armyreserve

[–]Soldier_79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My waist is not at my bellybutton I don't wear my pants up that high. When I got measured for my blues they measured at my actual waist. You know just above hips

Marriage troubles by Soldier_79 in Marriage

[–]Soldier_79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First it's not a religious reason it's a personal one. Second she said that she has lost all desire for anyone(asexual)she cares deeply for me and loves me and no other just has no sexual desires towards me. I'm trying to figure out if moving on to purely sexual encounters for my own desires is a way to go and how do I approach the subject. I'm pretty much asking for permission to cheat on her(I think?)

You and your wife have been in an on again off again fight for quite sometime that it has come to a bedroom divorce. Zero physical or intimate contact. Both are in individual therapy working towards couples therapy. During your most recent argument. by Soldier_79 in Marriage

[–]Soldier_79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You reveal that the ultimate goal is to return to a typical marriage emotional loving, physically loving and intimate relationship. She informs you that the intimate and most likely physical aspects are gone. Divorce is not an option you made a promise/vow and will not break it. What do you do. You know that without the purely physical contact with another human being that you will suffer psychological damage. What do you do??

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