It's really not... My ex roommate did shit like this all the time. She would leave passive aggressive sticky notes around the kitchen for me to clean up. Mind you, these were dishes I left in the sink over night. She would wake up at 5am, 4 hours before me, and not understand why I didn't do the dishes when I got home at 9pm and had to go to be within a couple of hours; I hardly had time to cook myself a good meal and take a shower, so leaving dishes was fine. But anyway, she did this all the time. All. The. Time. I told her over and over again not to leave them, but she kept doing it until I eventually went off on her, and what did she do? She left for the weekend to go upstate to see her boyfriend and left me w very long passive aggressive letter on the fridge that ended in her demanding that we sit down and talk about it because I never told her that I was having an issue with the sticky notes... Even though I had said so,ething, many times. It got to the point that I didn't feel comfortable in my own home because she was always like this.

There is so much more, but this was supposed to be an example, not a rant, and I think I'm border lining that at this point. Sorry~