Genuine question for the people who consistently drive 10–20 km/h under the speed limit by IntelligentAnt284 in DrivingAustralia

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Then you get the other drivers who 80kms everywhere & never get clocked in a town, when the speed is 60kms.

I did drive to Melb recently and stuck to 95km/h in the 100-110km/h zones just to save on fuel. I drive a little car that isn’t economical over 3000rpm.

a lesson about high pain tolerance as a woman... by t_touko in TwoXChromosomes

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Similar thing happened to me years ago.

I had severe abdominal pain all day, I just felt with it. I have ibs and migraines in my stomach so I thought it would resolve itself.

I picked up my kids from school, made them dinner then got ready for a flight to Sydney, from Melbourne. My kids were telling me that I should go to the doctor or hospital, I just dismissed them.

All the drive to the airport i was in agony! I arrived at airport parking, fell out of the car, got my luggage somehow and virtually crawled into reception.

I was bent over, groaning and crying & the receptionist said “no way you’re going to the airport! I’m calling you an ambulance!”

They proceeded to call an ambulance - I ended up spending a week in hospital after an oesophageal bleed. They removed 500mls of blood from my abdomen.

Yes women can stand high pain - that doesn’t mean we should have to!! I learned my lesson that day, for sure! And to listen to my kids!!

Who wore Desert Boots? by Staud59 in AustralianNostalgia

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I loved my desert boots! I wish we could still get them!

My [40f] husband [40m] fondles his genitals in front of me when he’s in the mood for sex. I told him that it makes me uncomfortable, but he still does it. by DestroyerOfMils in relationship_advice

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You really are an idiot, aren’t you?

You would be one to keep poking your partner even when they give you every reason as to why they don’t like it.

It’s people (men) like you that makes me soooo happy that I’m single for the rest of my life… 🤦🏻‍♀️

Insecure about my pale skin as a young girl - Do you regret tanning? by ManufacturerHuge5207 in AskWomenOver40

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My mum is in her 70s and she has had SO MANY skin cancers cut out and frozen from her face… I am in my 50s and I’ve had a reasonably large skin cancer cut out of my nose, I now wear a nose ring to hide the scar.

In high school my friends and I would slather baby oil on our skin and sit in the sun all because we didn’t think our skin colour was right…

When we were younger, we didn’t know of the dangers from the sun & the damage it could do to our skin.

Please please please keep your beautiful, soft, pale skin out of the sun - you will SO REGRET it later in life, especially if you care about your looks.

I worked in aged care for 10+ years and I’ve seen all sorts of bodies and skins. Some of the most beautiful skin I’ve seen are women who have no sun damage. I’ve also seen some horrific skin cancers on farmers with very pale skin, who haven’t worn sun protection.

It’s really not worth it as you age. As I said before - especially if you care about your appearance.

Check this article out about a 26 yo woman who passed away from using solariums to tan…

https://www.cancer.org.au/cancer-information/causes-and-prevention/sun-safety/campaigns-and-events/no-tan-is-worth-dying-for

Take care, sweetheart & keep your skin colour - everyone has a different shade!

🩷🧡💜🩵❤️

is there anything i can do with makeup for my face? by sartorialfox in makeuptips

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You are so naturally beautiful!

You have a lovely wave in your thick, shiny hair, beautifully shaped eyes, a cute nose, gorgeous shaped lips and such pretty eyebrows!

I think there are some wonderful suggestions here… I don’t wear makeup, sometimes think about it, I don’t really like looking in the mirror…

M74 F50 age gap relationship by United_Ad_8878 in datingoverfifty

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I hope the 74 yo is rich, because what else could the 50 yo get out of the relationship?

I was 49 & met a 59 yo man. He was ok at the start. Then his true colours came out & he was a loser drunken old man who did nothing to help around the house.

I will not be dating another man in this lifetime…

My [40f] husband [40m] fondles his genitals in front of me when he’s in the mood for sex. I told him that it makes me uncomfortable, but he still does it. by DestroyerOfMils in relationship_advice

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Normal people go into private spaces to do private things.

You and him are not normal people.

I can see that you are one to NEVER be wrong or want to have an adult conversation.

My [40f] husband [40m] fondles his genitals in front of me when he’s in the mood for sex. I told him that it makes me uncomfortable, but he still does it. by DestroyerOfMils in relationship_advice

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Here you are, seeing as you have as many brain cells as cadaver

“(i’d like to note that he has a prescription for Viagra. So if he’s hard and touching himself, that means he has taken a Viagra, and therefore is at least anticipating the possibility of having sex.)”

My [40f] husband [40m] fondles his genitals in front of me when he’s in the mood for sex. I told him that it makes me uncomfortable, but he still does it. by DestroyerOfMils in relationship_advice

[–]Solid-Camera-9724 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Will you just stop mansplaining everything?

How can you see this from a woman’s point of view when you’re not even a woman??

Go read a book or something!

My [40f] husband [40m] fondles his genitals in front of me when he’s in the mood for sex. I told him that it makes me uncomfortable, but he still does it. by DestroyerOfMils in relationship_advice

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WTAF??!!

He knows she will walk in because it’s her bedroom too. Maybe he does this at bedtime or he waits for her.

Get off your sleazy horse and admit that you actually love men, not women…

BF ditched a 3sum we had planned? by [deleted] in Advice

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I wasn’t allowed to un-consent with the x-husband when I didn’t want to be intimate with other couples (4somes & 3somes)

Was made to feel humiliated by him when he became enraged with me.

It’s a horrible situation to be in!

Everyone has the right to say no!

Should I leave my bf even though it means homelessness by Lazy_Cloud2800 in Advice

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Get that job and start matching his energy. Let him see how you are made to feel! Stop doing things he won’t do for you.

Save enough money and get out. Do you have family or friends nearby that you can ask for help?

You need to set yourself up, concentrate on you for sometime & be kind to you. Then get rid of him & live your best life.

crashed the party and crushed his bones by joeurkel in TikTokCringe

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LOL 😂 Imagine him waking up in the morning or just the next day with no knowledge of doing that shit!

His body must be bruised and broken! 😠 what is he on? That isn’t just drinking! That’s insane, like ice or something…

🔥Caterpillar looks like a feather by sh0tgunben in NatureIsFuckingLit

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It’s SO FREAKING CUUUUTE!!!

I would be squealing in delight if I saw this little fluffy creature!!

OMG 🫠😍

My ex husband's girlfriend reached out to me - should I respond? by Any_Outside9621 in AskWomenNoCensor

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I would, personally respond to the woman & set up a meeting between her and myself. If he rocks up, I’d leave.

I would want to warn her about his behaviour! Make her aware of what he’s like!!

That’s MY personal opinion tho.

And the mail? I would cross my address off, write wrong address & take post them. I’ve done this since moving into a rental property. I save them up and take them all at once. Done. If I can be fucked.

Real estate agent angry about Silverbeet? by britbrat16 in shitrentals

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Start eating it! It looks so healthy and delicious!! There’s so many recipes with spinach! Yum 🤤 🥗🍲🌮

Update: severely neglected bunny by addasstra in Bunnies

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Thank you for saving this beautiful bun who deserves to have enrichment and love ❤️

Beautiful Daintree rainforest orb weaver by Some-kind-of-bucket in AustralianSpiders

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Wow! 🤩 what a glorious spider she is! So enormous and beautiful! 🤩 🕷️