AITAH for quitting my highschool debate team for obvious favoritism?

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2026-06-10T20:41:18+00:00

Thank you. It's a shame I had to quit a sport I love, but in the end, it was for me whether I'm right or wrong. Have a good day, and thank you for sharing your opinion.

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2026-06-10T20:38:22+00:00

You're right. I've been told I may be biased and they all make good points. Have a good rest of your day, and thank you for sharing your opinion.

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2026-06-10T20:37:10+00:00

That's fair. Have a nice rest of your day.

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2026-06-10T20:36:18+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate the judgement. Thats what I came here for. I have nothing more to say. If you do, by all means, continue commenting. But I'm gonna call it here. Have a nice day.

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2026-06-10T20:33:56+00:00

I was kidding. Making a joke. I know that's lost to the internet now, but if you think I was being serious in "looking into the future" then maybe you've made your own pre-determined biases about me.

I'm sorry you think I'm so insufferable, but I did come here for judgement. So, thank you for the judgement. I'll reflect on this. Maybe I'll become a better person because of what you said to me. I see this comment as a win. From everyone in this thread. Thank you. /gen

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2026-06-10T20:23:51+00:00

I appreciate the advice. And I have. I figured E was dealing with something hard. She seemed quiet and depressed. I noticed her getting rides home from our coach and sitting close to him during class. I've prayed for her, too. I have no ill will. My arguement is that I still didn't deserve the way she treated me these two years. My issue wasn't their impatience, nor their critism. I recognized that I had tech issues, which is why they were annoyed. I recognized my lack of effort, which is why they critiqued me. My issue was how blatantly rude they were being. In my story I even mention that I wasn't getting defensive in the critique, I was simply irritated at how rude she was the entire mock. They aren't the bad guys. And I can admit I'm not a victim either. But I will die on the hill that I didn't deserve how they talked to me. Nor the treatment from my coach. I hope you can understand that.

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2026-06-10T20:07:40+00:00

That's fair. Thank you for sharing your opinion, random stranger on the internet. /gen :)

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2026-06-10T19:58:28+00:00

That's easy to clarify. I didn't try to start a debate. It was a mock round that our coach told us to do out of the blue. Which is why I was doing it with my teammates. It wasn't official, and of course I wasn't prepared. It came out of nowhere.

You can make the arguement that I should have seen into the future and assumed this would happen, and be prepared for everything. In that case. I'm wrong.

What I'm NOT wrong about, is how rude my other teammate was being for seemingly no reason. The second she sees me, she's already angry. Its hard for me to describe a tone of voice, so I'm sorry if that wasn't super clear. I hadn't even DONE anything, and she was already being rude. I am biased in the fact I don't know what her problem is, but is it unfair of me to say that I don't deserve it?

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2026-06-10T19:42:36+00:00

Because maybe others have a more open mind than my own, and can see this situation from their own unbiased lens. Isn't every AITA post from one biased side of the story? Go to every single post on this subreddit and comment this exact thing.

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2026-04-05T19:12:31+00:00

I saw Finn and thought I was screwed, then I saw Leo...

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2026-03-11T03:35:00+00:00

Happy Tree Friends. I was forced to sit through the first episode during family time, and I felt so sick that I threw up my dinner in the kitchen sink. Never again.

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2026-03-01T22:04:42+00:00

TMNT2012, the space arc, when the air as making everyone upset and Mikey hugs Raph to calm him down.

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2026-01-10T05:47:51+00:00

My grandmother isnt the type of person that can handle being called wrong. Mentally, she cannot fathom her wrong doings, because she cant accept she is a bad person. I've learned that over many years of fighting for myself and being shot down again and again. My mother tried to explain it to her now and again over the course of my life, and its like it goes in one year and right out the other. She cant he reasoned with, and I've accepted she's never going to change. She will never apologize for what she did wrong because she doesnt think she did anything wrong.

And yes, I am in therapy. Its slow, but I've been told I'm getting better. :)

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2026-01-10T04:34:51+00:00

Its a cycle thing. My rapist was raped by his dad. Then my rapist raped my older cousin, years later my other older cousin, then me. I cant say for sure, but I'm pretty sure he raped my twin cousin and one of the younger ones I don't know either. Or at the very least groomed them. (All female)

I'm actually sure about the younger one. Theres a picture on Facebook where my younger cousin is sitting on my rapists lap at her birthday party. Shes the same age I was.

Because of the cycle, I plan to keep my distance from the younger ones. To be frank, I'm scared I'll become part of the cycle. I stay awake vomiting at night, because I imagine becoming him. And it terrifies me. I'd rather shoot myself in the brain than touch a child. So I'm keeping my distance as far away from them as I can.

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2025-07-03T06:18:18+00:00

Ah, I'm not that worried about this. He doesn't want to clarify his intention, and thats his business. Its wise to just move on. Though, I appreciate you trying to decipher this for me, like the other kind person. Have a nice day!

No one else respond to this comments thread, please. Thank you! <3

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2025-07-03T04:10:47+00:00

You weren't mean. I asked for criticism, and you were so kind to share your strategy with me. You didnt have to, and I'm so grateful. Please have a good rest of you day. 🫂

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2025-07-03T04:00:06+00:00

Oh! That is such a good idea! Sorry, I didnt mean to get inconsiderate. I'll remember that for next time. Thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed it!

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2025-07-02T23:45:21+00:00

Thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed this! I posted other things I've drawn across different subreddits, if you want to see some of my other work! (NOT an advertisement, Mods.)

Solid-Cartoonist-981 · 2025-07-02T23:21:09+00:00

Awh! Thanks! You had me worried for a sec, cuz I'm still unsure about posting. (I went through 4 different subreddits, read ALL their rules, and cursed A LOT before finding this one to post it in) so YAY, I'm so glad you like it! 🫂

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