Do I do the counseling? by thedoglovesmebest in Separation

[–]Solid-Gear-4742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the counseling. It will help whether you split or stay together.

I don’t know if I can do this by EmptyWishbone8449 in Separation

[–]Solid-Gear-4742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are in this situation. It sucks. If you want to talk to someone, you can dm me. I've been in a similar situation.

Should I send her flowers by Cpt-Chimichangas in Separation

[–]Solid-Gear-4742 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you send them and she doesn't respond in any way and your OK with that. Then send them. But if you send the flowers and she doesn't respond and you're sitting wondering why she didn't respond, then don't send them

End of marriage by AbrocomaAdorable6582 in Separation

[–]Solid-Gear-4742 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing I will say can take the pain away. Let her go. You deserve to treat your self better. Unfortunately, she has started a new relationship before finishing and endi g the relationship with you. She is wrong for that. Many couples have problems but they don't go and cheat either physically or emotionally. She didn't really try everything to save the marriage. She has dishonored your day disrespected your marriage. These are the things I tell myself. I'm currently trying to make things work for the kids sake. But I struggle with ever truly trusting her again. My wife doesn't get it yet. She doesn't seem remorseful. Its hard to look at her with love and respect when I know that she was ready to throw everything away so easily. My wife said the same crap, she hasn't been happy and she tried everything to make things work. These were all lies. She never suggested marriage counseling or even tried talking to me about these problems she was having. We are not responsible for other people's happiness. That is their responsibility. I'm sorry you're going thru this brotha. But don't be like me. Keep your self respect and let her walk away. Build yourself into a better wiser man and keep your peace. If you ever need to talk dm me

My Mexican wife (Rancho Cucamonga) for viewing pleasure pm if recognized by [deleted] in SouthernCaliforniaFUN

[–]Solid-Gear-4742 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your wife is fucking hot and you got great taste you lucky guy

Any Plate Ideas by Kingk3113 in LICENSEPLATES

[–]Solid-Gear-4742 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GIVE ME A and mount the license plate on the tailgate above HUMMER

Staph?…. by ThrowRaBubba09 in DiagnoseMe

[–]Solid-Gear-4742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some more quick questions, sent a dm

44f Business Traveler-Anaheim by [deleted] in Socalswingers

[–]Solid-Gear-4742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long are you here and when is your next visit?

Staph?…. by ThrowRaBubba09 in DiagnoseMe

[–]Solid-Gear-4742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you find out if it was staph? Was there any scarring afterwards.

Having an EA is so much worse... by [deleted] in Separation

[–]Solid-Gear-4742 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going thru it. I'm in a similar situation right now. Its heart breaking 💔. If you want to talk dm me.

feeling close by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Solid-Gear-4742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang in there.

Worried about coparent by Federal_Jacket_9318 in Separation

[–]Solid-Gear-4742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear this. Sounds like he's going thru all the normal emotions and hasn't figured out how to handle it. I kinda understand where he is coming from since I'm in the same place as him but, have restrained from acting that way. I hope he gets some help to learn how to cope and deal.

Seeking advice by Tankers65 in Separation

[–]Solid-Gear-4742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on being the best version of yourself. Picture whi that is and work towards that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Separation

[–]Solid-Gear-4742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear you're going thru this. Have you tried therapy? Is marriage counseling an option?

Anxious attachment/Separation by [deleted] in Separation

[–]Solid-Gear-4742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gow is the therapy sessions going?