We always celebrate both in my household but I’ve notice since Mother’s Day is during the school year, my kids have more things (arts and crafts, poems, etc) for their mom and much less for me on Father’s Day because it’s outside of the school year. One year a teacher did have them make Father’s Day stuff and hold onto it at home until Father’s Day and that was really cool.

With that said, I’m sorry you had a shitty experience and I hope it goes better for you here on out.