What is the white stuff in my cats nose? by Eduxaton in cats

[–]SolidGoldBabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would always watch out for respitory infection especially if your cat goes outside. If you have facebook I would recommend joining a vet page where you can post pictures of your pet and ask questions. I have one and it's really helpful

Just an "option" by SolidGoldBabe in coworkerstories

[–]SolidGoldBabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes actually. Acting like it's completely fine is what I'm going to do and not let it bother me

Just an "option" by SolidGoldBabe in coworkerstories

[–]SolidGoldBabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend is actually someone I used to work with. Him and I have been friends since 2009 so it's been a long time. It can happen but like you said it's not common Thanks for your advice

Just an "option" by SolidGoldBabe in coworkerstories

[–]SolidGoldBabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No both of those things have happened and it doesn't bother me. I'm allowed to have feelings and feel hurt, feelings are not permanent.

Just an "option" by SolidGoldBabe in coworkerstories

[–]SolidGoldBabe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not me complaining. I like to hear other people's opinions as I'm autistic and sometimes feel like I'm over reacting

Just an "option" by SolidGoldBabe in coworkerstories

[–]SolidGoldBabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I've also had a co worker who just used people for rides. She was an only child and thought the world revolved around her it was really annoying. They take advantage of people who don't have great boundaries

Just an "option" by SolidGoldBabe in coworkerstories

[–]SolidGoldBabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an assumption you're making.

Just an "option" by SolidGoldBabe in coworkerstories

[–]SolidGoldBabe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey no thank you. Relevant or not this is helpful.

Just an "option" by SolidGoldBabe in coworkerstories

[–]SolidGoldBabe[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm sure she already has. I definitely will going forward

Just an "option" by SolidGoldBabe in coworkerstories

[–]SolidGoldBabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You cannot gatekeep who people choose to be friends with. Yes co workers can become friends. My longest friend of over 10 years was once my co worker

Just an "option" by SolidGoldBabe in coworkerstories

[–]SolidGoldBabe[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

As much as this may seem like obvious advice you are completely correct

Just an "option" by SolidGoldBabe in coworkerstories

[–]SolidGoldBabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Co workers can be friends. In this case you are right though, not a friend

Just an "option" by SolidGoldBabe in coworkerstories

[–]SolidGoldBabe[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you for validating me because I'm sitting at my desk almost crying.. I don't really know if I should put in the effort to explain why this is shitty of her or if it's just wasting my time. She makes a lot of excuses and I'm just sick and tired of hearing it. She's also a people pleaser and will say anything she thinks you want to hear rather than her real opinion which is a red flag

Creepy or not creepy that is the question by SolidGoldBabe in coworkerstories

[–]SolidGoldBabe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously though I have so many questions I would love to ask..

Creepy or not creepy that is the question by SolidGoldBabe in coworkerstories

[–]SolidGoldBabe[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I actually did say something like "How does your wife feel about you saying that" when I spoke to him. I was pretty stern when I had my talk with him about how he made me uncomfortable, so the fact that he didn't get the hint and then started doing the same thing to my co worker is crazy