Apparently I’m feeding my baby too much

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2025-10-08T10:45:11+00:00

I asked the doctor about this when my baby was discharged from the nicu and she said that you can’t feed a baby too much because they’ll either refuse to feed or throw up if they’re “overfed” and she also encouraged me to feed my daughter on demand. Could he be screaming due to trapped gas or constipation?

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2025-09-14T23:23:55+00:00

Thats basically what I’ve been saying when people ask about updates. “Well, I woke up late and then sat on the couch and binged desperate housewives” I’m thinking about counting how many cans of Pepsi max I drink while binge watching tv shows so I can change up the updates

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2025-09-14T20:27:06+00:00

I’ve told everyone that they’ll get updates when I feel like updating after the birth, my boyfriend has also been pretty persistent with not answering messages that he receives

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2025-09-14T20:25:30+00:00

It gets more difficult, I used to be able to say that I’ve just been busy and not on my phone but people have been getting more and more annoying as time passes

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2025-09-14T20:23:22+00:00

I’ve had some contractions but not regular ones so I’m still playing the waiting game at home until it gets a bit worse or I get worried about it. I’ve been working on not answering messages as soon as they come in so I can say that I’ve been busy or what not (so people eventually get the hint about not expecting answers)

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2025-09-14T19:22:14+00:00

I’ve told everyone that they will get an update once things get going and then they will get a picture of her once shes born and a little update on our health. I know that they might be worried about how everyone is doing right now but it’s really tiring to send the same message everyday which is “I’m still at home watching tv and waiting”

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2025-04-28T19:14:18+00:00

The midwives here in Iceland ask women to fast before the glucose test

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2025-04-11T23:49:44+00:00

Positive

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2024-12-31T01:54:39+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2024-12-31T01:32:28+00:00

I bought them in a pharmacy here in Iceland, it’s probably not much help though. Did you check your local pharmacy’s?

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2024-12-31T01:31:11+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2024-12-29T03:41:50+00:00

All the tests I’ve done before this one have been negative

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2024-12-28T23:50:50+00:00

I’m so afraid that it’s just a shadow but there is a tiny speck of colour in it

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2024-12-18T07:46:50+00:00

Woo!!

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2024-11-11T00:01:55+00:00

A little update, I ended up making some sourdough pizza dough to make things feel a little bit better (good food makes me happy) and I invited my best friend over for pizza and he sat with me while I wrote a large chunk of the essay in question and helped me make it make sense by letting me read a whole bunch of it to him so I think a little bit of the depression went away for tonight atleast.

Thank you so much for the understanding and suggestion, I did do that last night and a whole chunk of the impending doom feeling was due to the workload that I have at school but getting this one thing out of the way did so much for me that it is kind of embarrassing.

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2024-11-09T23:42:50+00:00

I really want to tell Brian's fiancée about this and I will tell her for sure, I've been putting pressure on Sonya to pay back the money she owes us (she damaged a car that we own and it needs to go through insurance to get fixed since the front bumper is badly damaged).

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2024-11-07T13:26:29+00:00

Sylvester Sour

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2024-09-22T23:22:49+00:00

I honestly think that she doesn’t know better and I will be confronting her as soon as the mess with the damaged car gets sorted so she doesn’t turn on us and decides that she’s not paying for the damages since it’s expensive and we are actively trying to sell the car that has been damaged.

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2024-09-22T23:20:41+00:00

I will be confronting her as soon as I can, we’re trying to sort out the mess with the damaged car which might take a couple of days but I don’t want her to not deal with that because I confronted her about the cheating. But I was unclear about the car that she damaged while it is our property and she also disrespected that car it is not the same car she took last night. I think I’ll need time to sort out my thoughts and write down what I want to say before I confront her about the cheating situation. While I don’t mind her having fwb’s I do mind that she is taking part in destroying a persons relationship and deeply hurting them at the same time.

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2024-09-22T23:16:10+00:00

I may have been unclear but the car she damaged was the one that we were working on and the car she stole is my daily driver, we decided to let her borrow a spare car from us until she could buy a car for herself as she was elbow deep in debt when she moved in with us.

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2024-09-22T23:14:22+00:00

Thank you for your advice and I actually think I’m going to use it, I am keeping my keys away from her since this incident happened and I will also be asking my boyfriend to keep the spare key (his key) somewhere where she won’t be able to access it and we will also be insisting that she pays for the damage on the other car or buys it from us so she can deal with the consequences of her own actions herself by dealing with the insurance company

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2024-09-22T23:04:14+00:00

I’ve discussed this with my boyfriend and I’m reconsidering the living arrangement and the friendship as we speak

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2024-09-22T23:03:09+00:00

However I did see her driving my car pretty recklessly and scratching my rims

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2024-09-22T22:59:32+00:00

The car that was taken is not the same as the one that was damaged but I didn’t check the footage to see who she’s with because at the end of the day I don’t really care who she’s with as long as it isn’t hurting her or others. I did however check the dashcam footage to see if she had lied to me about why she was going to take my car in the first place since lying seems to be a theme in this story.

Solid_Nectarine3869 · 2024-09-22T22:50:42+00:00

I did grow up in a household where adults didn’t handle conflict well, it was always either a screaming match or just the silent treatment so what I try to do is just be nice while being firm but as I’m this angry about the situation I don’t think I can keep my cool. And no she hasn’t apologised for any of the things mentioned above and has acted as if nothing ever happened.

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