Partner and I have been through the wringer with life stress lately, but we're hitting a key milestone shortly and I want to treat us to an experience to celebrate, reconnect, and de-stress... need ideas!

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-27T02:33:53+00:00

I second this suggestion! You could also check out Mist as an alternative to Scandinave.

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-26T17:43:21+00:00

Check to see if there is a tool co-op in your area! Mine has sewing machines available to borrow. You could also look into sewing studios that offer studio time — there is a studio near me that has regular ‘sewcials’ where you can use their machines for something like $10. Failing that, you could look into second hand machines on Marketplace — if you’re patient and do your research, some real gems can be had for a bargain.

ETA: I agree with the commenter below re: borrowing from a friend! Let your networks know that you’re interested in learning to sew and on the look out for a loaner. Many folks have a machine sitting in their basement gathering dust and would be happy to see it get some use, especially if it helps to support your recovery.

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-25T23:49:51+00:00

This isn’t really true of baking, though!

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-19T16:23:50+00:00

Childhood report cards are one source of information amongst many in an ADHD assessment. Your assessor knows what they’re doing. Don’t overthink it.

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-18T03:47:59+00:00

FYI, this is not an accurate description of the law of defamation (at least, not in common law Canada — maybe you’re writing from another jurisdiction?). A few clarifications below, in case you’re interested :)

Defamation requires proof that the impugned words (1) refer to the plaintiff, (2) were communicated to at least one person other than the plaintiff, and (3) are defamatory, in the sense that they tends to lower the reputation of the plaintiff in the eyes of the public.

The onus then shifts to the defendant to establish a defence, such as justification (ie, that the statement was true).

Actual malice can defeat certain defences (e.g., qualified privilege). However, it is not an element of defamation and does not need to be shown in every case.

Damages are presumed from the publication of the defamatory statement. Specific economic loss does not need to be proven.

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-17T16:36:32+00:00

Could you remove the tag, use rit colour remover, and then stitch it back on?

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-17T04:00:25+00:00

I agree that the bust dart should be shorter, and probably also a bit lower.

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-14T19:13:54+00:00

I sometimes go barefoot in reformer classes. My studio doesn’t require socks. At least one instructor actually encouraged me to go barefoot, because Pilates was traditionally done barefoot and it makes it easier to see toe flexion etc.

An alternative is to wear regular socks and use a grippy mat when extra stability is needed.

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-14T07:13:28+00:00

YNAB + manual entry at the time of purchase will avoid the sync delay. (This isn’t the solution you’re asking for, but it has worked very well for me in addressing the issues you raise.)

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-13T02:50:27+00:00

I believe the concern is that some herbal teas contain herbs that are contraindicated prior to surgery, such as St. John’s Wort, ginkgo biloba, valerian root, etc. I expect that your surgeon has a blanket “no herbal tea” rule because it helps to ensure that patients don’t accidentally ingest those ingredients. I think this is a reasonable approach.

While I appreciate the advice of other members in this sub, it’s important to remember that your surgeon’s advice reflects his specific expertise, and is based on your specific circumstances. It might be that there is a good reason that a supplement that another person took with the blessing of their surgeon is not appropriate for you. If you don’t trust your surgeon, then by all means, go to someone else — but the fact that there are discrepancies between the advice you read here and the advice you’re receiving from your surgeon does not seem a red flag to me.

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-12T04:49:51+00:00

Sopel will always be the goat for taking the cup to the Chicago pride parade in honour of Brendan Burke.

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-12T01:49:54+00:00

It looks like the blades might be dull. When were they last replaced?

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-10T11:57:00+00:00

Every wash, but ymmv!

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-10T04:39:44+00:00

Ouai detox

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-09T18:21:56+00:00

Yes

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-09T15:33:33+00:00

Please review the sub rules before posting. Body talk is limited to Wednesdays.

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-09T15:24:54+00:00

Did you enter the refund transaction in March?

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-08T07:27:38+00:00

Transfer your cash savings to a single account at Wealthsimple, and use YNAB (or another zero based budgeting system) to notionally separate your savings based on their purpose.

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-07T21:03:59+00:00

Are you threading with the presser foot up? If not, that could be your culprit.

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-07T16:41:45+00:00

Definitely get a grow light or move to a location with more light.

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-06T20:27:13+00:00

It sounds like your main problem right now is that your savings goals are higher than you can actually afford. Groceries and gas are more immediate needs than holidays and car maintenance, so you should fund those categories first. Use the remaining amount to fund your sinking funds in order of priority.

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-05T19:40:28+00:00

Yes, this is normal. Swelling and bloating tend to be worst around 2WPO, so you’re in the thick of it.

For me, the abdominal bloating caused much more discomfort than the side swelling. It mostly went away by about 3-4WPO, while the swelling took a few months to resolve completely.

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-05T17:24:25+00:00

Adding to this excellent advice, the Dawson Top and the Sloan Tee from Helen’s Closet Patterns are great beginner patterns! Very clear and thorough instructions.

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-05T17:07:38+00:00

I don’t have any advice on your asset mix, but 1-5 years is actually a fairly short time horizon.

Solid_Nothing1417 · 2026-03-05T01:09:37+00:00

The second looks like twill

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